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k that's it... i've taken as much as i possibly can...

some guy... follows a girl around the forum... constantly checking her profile... reading vm's and checking where she is on the forum to post things wherever she goes.

is it normal behaviour for this guy to smash things up and throw things around his room just because he has to go some where and can't see the so said girl?

is it normal for the so said guy to threaten KILL HIMSELF to try to make this girl go with him instead of her current bf?

the guy also changed his user title to one of the girls favourite songs even though he probably never heard of them before...

is it ok for this guy to attack a friend of the girls and get pissed off at her for the friend flirting with her a bit?

is this a stalker...

is your so loved (i had to delete the user name) that good a person that he's completely ruined my life? i'm sick of the stuff i have to put up with and i want to prove he's a faker and a stalker once and for all... all you past members will remember he did the same with ino yamanaka too

it's tore me apart and i am sick of everything T^T
 
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k that's it... i've taken as much as i possibly can...

some guy... follows a girl around the forum... constantly checking her profile... reading vm's and checking where she is on the forum to post things wherever she goes.

is it normal behaviour for this guy to smash things up and throw things around his room just because he has to go some where and can't see the so said girl?

is it normal for the so said guy to threaten KILL HIMSELF to try to make this girl go with him instead of her current bf?

the guy also changed his user title to one of the girls favourite songs even though he probably never heard of them before...

is it ok for this guy to attack a friend of the girls and get pissed off at her for the friend flirting with her a bit?

is this a stalker...

is your so loved ..... that good a person that he's completely ruined my life? i'm sick of the stuff i have to put up with and i want to prove he's a faker and a stalker once and for all... all you past members will remember he did the same with ino yamanaka too

it's tore me apart and i am sick of everything T^T
that would be a stalker L Lawliet
 
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yes that would be a stalker but did he really do that? (and if he did i am guessing it was to misa otherwise why would u be this upset am i correct)
 

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First of all, I am sorry for telling you to delete the username, but it was against the rules, so everyone else who saw it, please don't mention it again.

On topic now, i don't know. I really don't know...
Especially for the first one and the last one, (the convos reading and the jealousy thing) cause maybe I'd do the same...

*breaks heart open* I mean...well whenever "he" isn't here I always watch his profile, it makes me feel he is closer to me. It's like seeing a part of him being at the same place with me. So yes, I do that. But no I am not checking his every convo and I am not posting when he does of course. He doesn't do that either. well he hardly ever checks my profile anyways.
But if he had told me that he flirted a bit in real, I would be extremely jealous, I would go out and get drank probably but i would never tell him a word. As i have to feel free to be happy, I understand everyone's need to feel free to be happy.

But the other things you said...yes i agree. And especially with making someone feel guilty to be with you. It's like chaining them up and i don't like it. Still, no one can define love and no one can never tell how much someone loves. And also, sometimes our own emotions suffocate us.
For sure getting so attached to someone you have never seen in real isn't the best thing you can do.

I feel your pain and sadness and i wish i could help you L :(
 

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♦ Rei ♦;1193536 said:
First of all, I am sorry for telling you to delete the username, but it was against the rules, so everyone else who saw it, please don't mention it again.

On topic now, i don't know. I really don't know...
Especially for the first one and the last one, (the convos reading and the jealousy thing) cause maybe I'd do the same...

*breaks heart open* I mean...well whenever "he" isn't here I always watch his profile, it makes me feel he is closer to me. It's like seeing a part of him being at the same place with me. So yes, I do that. But no I am not checking his every convo and I am not posting when he does of course. He doesn't do that either. well he hardly ever checks my profile anyways.
But if he had told me that he flirted a bit in real, I would be extremely jealous, I would go out and get drank probably but i would never tell him a word. As i have to feel free to be happy, I understand everyone's need to feel free to be happy.

But the other things you said...yes i agree. And especially with making someone feel guilty to be with you. It's like chaining them up and i don't like it. Still, no one can define love and no one can never tell how much someone loves. And also, sometimes our own emotions suffocate us.
For sure getting so attached to someone you have never seen in real isn't the best thing you can do.

I feel your pain and sadness and i wish i could help you L :(
shes right about that. nods* Nice point of veiw Rei-san ^^
 

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♦ Rei ♦;1193536 said:
First of all, I am sorry for telling you to delete the username, but it was against the rules, so everyone else who saw it, please don't mention it again.

On topic now, i don't know. I really don't know...
Especially for the first one and the last one, (the convos reading and the jealousy thing) cause maybe I'd do the same...

*breaks heart open* I mean...well whenever "he" isn't here I always watch his profile, it makes me feel he is closer to me. It's like seeing a part of him being at the same place with me. So yes, I do that. But no I am not checking his every convo and I am not posting when he does of course. He doesn't do that either. well he hardly ever checks my profile anyways.
But if he had told me that he flirted a bit in real, I would be extremely jealous, I would go out and get drank probably but i would never tell him a word. As i have to feel free to be happy, I understand everyone's need to feel free to be happy.

But the other things you said...yes i agree. And especially with making someone feel guilty to be with you. It's like chaining them up and i don't like it. Still, no one can define love and no one can never tell how much someone loves. And also, sometimes our own emotions suffocate us.
For sure getting so attached to someone you have never seen in real isn't the best thing you can do.

I feel your pain and sadness and i wish i could help you L :(
it's ok :(
 

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♦ Rei ♦;1193536 said:
First of all, I am sorry for telling you to delete the username, but it was against the rules, so everyone else who saw it, please don't mention it again.

On topic now, i don't know. I really don't know...
Especially for the first one and the last one, (the convos reading and the jealousy thing) cause maybe I'd do the same...

*breaks heart open* I mean...well whenever "he" isn't here I always watch his profile, it makes me feel he is closer to me. It's like seeing a part of him being at the same place with me. So yes, I do that. But no I am not checking his every convo and I am not posting when he does of course. He doesn't do that either. well he hardly ever checks my profile anyways.
But if he had told me that he flirted a bit in real, I would be extremely jealous, I would go out and get drank probably but i would never tell him a word. As i have to feel free to be happy, I understand everyone's need to feel free to be happy.

But the other things you said...yes i agree. And especially with making someone feel guilty to be with you. It's like chaining them up and i don't like it. Still, no one can define love and no one can never tell how much someone loves. And also, sometimes our own emotions suffocate us.
For sure getting so attached to someone you have never seen in real isn't the best thing you can do.

I feel your pain and sadness and i wish i could help you L :(
idk how u were able to put that into words xD

but that pretty much covers it
 

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k that's it... i've taken as much as i possibly can...

some guy... follows a girl around the forum... constantly checking her profile... reading vm's and checking where she is on the forum to post things wherever she goes.

is it normal behaviour for this guy to smash things up and throw things around his room just because he has to go some where and can't see the so said girl?

is it normal for the so said guy to threaten KILL HIMSELF to try to make this girl go with him instead of her current bf?

the guy also changed his user title to one of the girls favourite songs even though he probably never heard of them before...

is it ok for this guy to attack a friend of the girls and get pissed off at her for the friend flirting with her a bit?

is this a stalker...

is your so loved (i had to delete the user name) that good a person that he's completely ruined my life? i'm sick of the stuff i have to put up with and i want to prove he's a faker and a stalker once and for all... all you past members will remember he did the same with ino yamanaka too

it's tore me apart and i am sick of everything T^T
Oh yeah that bitch is a stalker,go kick his ass ~.~
Maybe the girls are the only ones who dont notice how manipulative he is !!!
 

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umm i don't remember well all the other stuff that he did...but from the points that i have been presented yeah he seems like a person that likes to have the upper hand and to always know what's going in the life of someone "dear" if I may, to him....if he has threatened or looses control of his actions towards something he dislikes we are not dealing with a stalker here...we are dealing with a psychopath....which might be in fact a little worse
 
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