[Discussion] Is It Right For Women To Withold *** In A Relationship?

Status
Not open for further replies.

V h o

Kage in the Making 👑
Legendary
Joined
Jan 27, 2013
Messages
16,796
Reaction score
815
I mean it's her body and she can withhold ***, however the relationship will be over. Bad *** life and lack of communication are easy ways to divorce or split.
 

JStar King

Sannin of the Scrolls 📜
Elite
Joined
Apr 13, 2014
Messages
8,958
Reaction score
790
I mean it's her body and she can withhold ***, however the relationship will be over. Bad *** life and lack of communication are easy ways to divorce or split.

True. But what if you're a good listener and you will do everything for her? What if you do my best not to be selfish, and cater to her ever need. She tells you that she loves you, and that she doesn't want to lose you. But she will rather be in a sexless marriage, and as a Christian, you cannot pull the horn if you get what I mean.

Last time I went without any sexual contact, the doctor said my testoterone levels were too high and that was for 6-8 months. My balls felt like they were cased in concrete
XD
 

DominiqueX

Anbu Operative 🎭
Veteran
Joined
Jan 3, 2016
Messages
4,841
Reaction score
448
What the fuq.
Do you think *** is some kind of "reward" that you "earn" for being a good boy? What's wrong with you. I can understand to 100% why a woman would "withhold" *** from you if you have a stupid mindset like this.
 

V h o

Kage in the Making 👑
Legendary
Joined
Jan 27, 2013
Messages
16,796
Reaction score
815
True. But what if you're a good listener and you will do everything for her? What if you do my best not to be selfish, and cater to her ever need. She tells you that she loves you, and that she doesn't want to lose you. But she will rather be in a sexless marriage, and as a Christian, you cannot pull the horn if you get what I mean.

Last time I went without any sexual contact, the doctor said my testoterone levels were too high and that was for 6-8 months. My balls felt like they were cased in concrete
XD

Idk how long a sexless marriage will last, if it lasts. Both parties have sexual desires and those will have to be met eventually, some more often than others. Also it seems the husband is giving far more than the wife, a relationship is not a one way street. And if she says she loves you, what is she doing to show it? A marriage is a commitment, a life time commitment at that and if something as natural as *** is lacking then something else is wrong. But again this only my thoughts, and I have *** life and communication being like the foundation of a healthy marriage.
 

Callypigia

Anbu Operative 🎭
Veteran
Joined
Jun 11, 2014
Messages
2,945
Reaction score
403
A decrease in sexual activity is usually a symptom of other relational problems.
 

Punk Hazard

Sage of Six Posts 🔮
Immortal
Joined
Apr 21, 2011
Messages
59,557
Reaction score
4,729
It's her body. If she doesn't want to have *** as much as her husband, then either he find a way to be happy with that or find a partner with an equivalent *** drive.
 

JStar King

Sannin of the Scrolls 📜
Elite
Joined
Apr 13, 2014
Messages
8,958
Reaction score
790
What the fuq.
Do you think *** is some kind of "reward" that you "earn" for being a good boy? What's wrong with you. I can understand to 100% why a woman would "withhold" *** from you if you have a stupid mindset like this.

Huh? I'm not saying it's a reward. But *** is one of the componants for a healthy relationship. And it's not like I'm begging. Like I said, I will give my future wife all the space she needs. I'm not a stage 5 clinger. I'm faithful and I will cater to you, because you're the love of my life. But come on. If there hasn't been any "contact" between us within a few months or a year or even a decade then we have a problem. I'm willing to talk about our problems and work on it, but COME.....THE ****...ON!
 
Last edited:

DominiqueX

Anbu Operative 🎭
Veteran
Joined
Jan 3, 2016
Messages
4,841
Reaction score
448
Huh? I'm not saying it's a reward. But *** is one of the componants for a healthy relationship. And it's not like I'm begging. Like I said, I will give my future wife all the space she needs. I'm not a stage 5 clinger. I'm faithful and I will cater to you, because you're the love of my life. But come on. If there hasn't been any "contact" between us within a few months or a year or even a decade then we have a problem. I'm willing to talk about our problems and work on it, but COME.....THE ****...ON!

It sounds like you are begging really hard. "Oh no, I give her everything but she just refuses to repay me. Mimimi."
Maybe she just doesn't like ***? Maybe she is busy with personal problems? Ask her. Talk to her. And if you can't live with the explanation she gives you and can't love her without doing sports in bed, then leave and look for a woman that fits your "needs".

You have no right to "demand" ***.
 

Yubel

Anbu Operative 🎭
Veteran
Joined
Apr 16, 2015
Messages
3,104
Reaction score
201
That's why you shouldn't get married untill you know what you're getting yourself into.
 

V h o

Kage in the Making 👑
Legendary
Joined
Jan 27, 2013
Messages
16,796
Reaction score
815
It sounds like you are begging really hard. "Oh no, I give her everything but she just refuses to repay me. Mimimi."
Maybe she just doesn't like ***? Maybe she is busy with personal problems? Ask her. Talk to her. And if you can't live with the explanation she gives you and can't love her without doing sports in bed, then leave and look for a woman that fits your "needs".

You have no right to "demand" ***.

Pretty true as well, which is why I say there is a communication problem if something like that happens and persists.
 

ComplexCity

Banned
Elite
Joined
Apr 7, 2014
Messages
5,721
Reaction score
242
It sounds like you are begging really hard. "Oh no, I give her everything but she just refuses to repay me. Mimimi."
Maybe she just doesn't like ***? Maybe she is busy with personal problems? Ask her. Talk to her. And if you can't live with the explanation she gives you and can't love her without doing sports in bed, then leave and look for a woman that fits your "needs".

You have no right to "demand" ***.

And despite statics and research saying otherwise, this conclusion has still been made


OT: I would talk to her, usually when women withhold *** something might be going on
 

Dannie

/
Immortal
Joined
Mar 10, 2014
Messages
47,160
Reaction score
2,798
Do you think *** is some kind of "reward" that you "earn" for being a good boy? What's wrong with you.
Oh look at that. The mind of a feminist.
Then tell me, what is the reward for "being a good boy." What would the man have to do for you to have *** with them?
Your tone and what you just said makes me believe you have no idea what the fck you're talking about.

No, *** is not a "reward" or some type of trophy that you get for pampering your ego-inflated ass. *** is supposed to be issued during marriage so that both parties can feel happy and realize that they are still in love with each other. *** might not be everything to you, but unfulfilled *** during marriage can cause giant frustration in the relationship and thus ends up being divorced or separated because the other party didn't treat them like they were being loved.

Of course women being women will never understand the desires that a man wants, so I don't see how women can get off with this idea that men should "find women that want to have a lot of ***" as if the only thing we think about is ***.

You don't want to have *** all the time? Cool, good for you, but don't sit here and act like married couples can only have *** when the "woman feels like it". That is obviously not an equal relationship.

What's their reason for not wanting to have ***? Too tired? Too busy? Don't feel like having *** because of his hygiene? Did he piss you off? Are you cheating and don't care for him anymore? This is supposed to be an equal adventure. If you are not willing to give my man what he wants when he went heel for toe for your ass then why are you even married? You obviously are not fit to be married if you are insisting on being that selfish.

Are the men selfish for wanting ***. Yes, but the women are just as selfish.
 

Uzumaki Macho

Sannin of the Scrolls 📜
Elite
Joined
Jul 23, 2014
Messages
6,663
Reaction score
299
And despite statics and research saying otherwise, this conclusion has still been made


OT: I would talk to her, usually when women withhold *** something might be going on

What statistics and research are you talking about?
 

ComplexCity

Banned
Elite
Joined
Apr 7, 2014
Messages
5,721
Reaction score
242
What statistics and research are you talking about?

Look it up


Oh look at that. The mind of a feminist.
Then tell me, what is the reward for "being a good boy." What would the man have to do for you to have *** with them?
Your tone and what you just said makes me believe you have no idea what the fck you're talking about.

No, *** is not a "reward" or some type of trophy that you get for pampering your ego-inflated ass. *** is supposed to be issued during marriage so that both parties can feel happy and realize that they are still in love with each other. *** might not be everything to you, but unfulfilled *** during marriage can cause giant frustration in the relationship and thus ends up being divorced or separated because the other party didn't treat them like they were being loved.

Of course women being women will never understand the desires that a man wants, so I don't see how women can get off with this idea that men should "find women that want to have a lot of ***" as if the only thing we think about is ***.

You don't want to have *** all the time? Cool, good for you, but don't sit here and act like married couples can only have *** when the "woman feels like it". That is obviously not an equal relationship.

What's their reason for not wanting to have ***? Too tired? Too busy? Don't feel like having *** because of his hygiene? Did he piss you off? Are you cheating and don't care for him anymore? This is supposed to be an equal adventure. If you are not willing to give my man what he wants when he went heel for toe for your ass then why are you even married? You obviously are not fit to be married if you are insisting on being that selfish.

Are the men selfish for wanting ***. Yes, but the women are just as selfish.

Holy bananas
 

Dannie

/
Immortal
Joined
Mar 10, 2014
Messages
47,160
Reaction score
2,798
Do you think *** is some kind of "reward" that you "earn" for being a good boy? What's wrong with you.
Oh look at that. The mind of a feminist.
Then tell me, what is the reward for "being a good boy." What would the man have to do for you to have *** with them?
Your tone and what you just said makes me believe you have no idea what the fck you're talking about.

No, *** is not a "reward" or some type of trophy that you get for pampering your ego-inflated ass. *** is supposed to be issued during marriage so that both parties can feel happy and realize that they are still in love with each other. *** might not be everything to you, but unfulfilled *** during marriage can cause giant frustration in the relationship and thus ends up being divorced or separated because the other party didn't treat them like they were being loved.

Of course women being women will never understand the desires that a man wants, so I don't see how women can get off with this idea that men should "find women that want to have a lot of ***" as if the only thing we think about is ***.

You don't want to have *** all the time? Cool, good for you, but don't sit here and act like married couples can only have *** when the "woman feels like it". That is obviously not an equal relationship.

What's their reason for not wanting to have ***? Too tired? Too busy? Don't feel like having *** because of his hygiene? Did he piss you off? Are you cheating and don't care for him anymore.? This is supposed to be an equal adventure. If you are not willing to give my man what he wants when he went heel for toe for your ass then why are you even married? You obviously are not fit to be married if you are insisting on being that selfish.

Are the men selfish for wanting ***. Yes, but the women are just as selfish.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top