[Discussion] Is It Right For Women To Withold *** In A Relationship?

[JStar King]

Selfish.

So I'm selfish despite the fact that I (After I find the girl I'm suppose to marry) treat this girl like a QUEEN! I do my best, I pay the bills, cook, clean, CATER TO HER EVERY NEED!, and I give her space for month after month after month or for years, I want to have ***, but she refuses and I get depressed and angry? Are you serious?

 

[patrickscott]

Well thank you sir and I appreciate your kind words far more than you know. I wish you all the best as well and remember to treat the people in your life and rela t ions hips with respect and understanding the likes of which you have shown me. I was almost certain my comments had fallen on the screen of an angry opinionated key board warrior, thank you for proving me otherwise

No problem man, i give credit where it's due.

 

[JStar King]

People say it is the duty of a woman to keep her husband happy in every way, and if she displeases her, God is displeased with her. I think that makes a tad sense, considering how these relationship end up in first world countries.

It's not like that at all. I don't want my future relationship(s) to be like that. When I get with someone in the future and we get married, we're partners. I got her back, she got my back, I cater to her every needs, cook clean, work, pay the bills, including the mortgage, make sure the kids are well taken care of, give her all the space she needs, and let her have fun. I will treat my future wife as a Queen and we will be a team. She will have my heart and I will always be faithful.

But the last thing I want is a sexless marriage. I'm not saying that I'm gonna want it all the time, but damn. And I'm not going to shame her for it. I'll just using my hobbies as an outlet and pray for God to take the urges away.

 

[brownbear]

So I'm selfish despite the fact that I (After I find the girl I'm suppose to marry) treat this girl like a QUEEN! I do my best, I pay the bills, cook, clean, CATER TO HER EVERY NEED!, and I give her space for month after month after month or for years, I want to have ***, but she refuses and I get depressed and angry? Are you serious?

Then the two of you should TALK about why she dosent. Once you reach a point of mutual understanding you can begin to move forward. Or express to her that your *** drive is very active and that you dont feel hers is on the same level and once again TALK about where to go from there.

Shoving your **** into unwilling vaginal isn't going to solve anything in your relationship. I'd venture to say it'd be the ruin of it

 

[Ansatsuken]

So I'm selfish despite the fact that I (After I find the girl I'm suppose to marry) treat this girl like a QUEEN! I do my best, I pay the bills, cook, clean, CATER TO HER EVERY NEED!, and I give her space for month after month after month or for years, I want to have ***, but she refuses and I get depressed and angry? Are you serious?

You talked like you will having a *** just once in your entire life time.

Not that in all those occasions your woman always refused to have *** with you. But if one time you did a double duty for her in hope for *** as a reward and also at that day she was in bad day/mood and refuse to have ***, you cant force her to have *** with you. You will be a selfish person bcus of not wanting to understand other people feeling and situation.

If you continue to have *** with her. It will bring more harm than good. You actually forcing her to bow down to your need.

Thats the thing here

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

If she is not giving you *** it means you are not doing something right enough. You need to dig deep to find the real sexland in a women. I as virgin seen many porn stars find it. I am sure after your experience there are chances you will be able to sign up for being a pornstar. You just gotta find the inner *** in a women.

 

[patrickscott]

If she is not giving you *** it means you are not doing something right enough. You need to dig deep to find the real sexland in a women. I as virgin seen many porn stars find it. I am sure after your experience there are chances you will be able to sign up for being a pornstar. You just gotta find the inner *** in a women.

This is that mutha****ing TRUTH!!!!!!!

 

[Jokule67]

No its not right but we all have a choice to move on if we like. Just find someone with similar drive to your own. You cant force ***. And who knows maybe you turn her off anyway. It can go both ways.

 

[Ryu Kishi]

Eat cake

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

Eat cake

You got a nice "*****" cat.

 

[Braveknight]

You are asking this question on a forum where most visitors are teenagers.. and you cannot figure out for yourself or ask the girl directly to find out the problem and reasons ... And asking the internet whether you should break up ... :|

....You seem to be heading for break up regardless of what other people say, since I do not see proper communication between the two of you and an unwillingness to confront it directly. I hope it would be face to face and not though SMS or linking this thread to her.

4ucking this, please mod SO MANY of the threads here are aimed for 50 years old audience which gets pretty annoying when lurking around the site.

 

[Amazeballs]

How the fuc.k does one end up stuck married to (and have kids with) the kind of person who would withhold *** for months / years just to be a bit.ch? Obviously it's her body and there's no obligation to provide ***, but that's just a terrible relationship, and there were probably warning signs that you were with a crazy chick wayyy before this.

 

[Hagoromo Reanimation]

So your doing everything right (Paying the bills, cooking, cleaning, has been a great listener, making sure the kids are taken care of, and is very caring), Sounds like you got a selfish woman on your hand. Well I can't tell you what to do but me personally I would just string her along until I found the right one, I know I sound like a bad guy/villain but your asking for a lovers companion to spend your life with not a step child.

 

[LordRaikage]

a guy does that for his Woman and doesn't get any for over 6 months wow.

DUmp that Biiitch

 

[Ansatsuken]

Reading back your Thread;

If you still couldnt get to have *** with her for a month after all what you had done, I tell you that your wife have serious issue

 

[Darth AniCetuS]

Lets be honest, *** is a very important aspect in a relationship or a marriage. If you're doing everything for your girl and she's still withholding it then its clear that something is not right. It could be anything from a dislike of ***, you or maybe something else. I believe you should tell her how you feel and discuss the matter openly, try to know what's the reason behind her not wanting *** anymore. Then if you know the reason and there's something you can do to change the situation you do it and see how that works out for you. If nothing works then its up to you to decide your future, whether you want to continue the relationship or want to separate or you two love each other that you're ready to live with each other without having ***.
So it all comes down to how you want to handle it once you know what is the problem, but first you must try to find the reason.

 

[Venomous Cobra]

Tbh why not just talk to the damn girl and get reasons, its not like you're asking something unnatural or shameful.* Depending on her reasons for avoiding it you will have more or less patience therefore the faster you get answers the more confident you'll be about what your next move is whether it's the worst case scenario where you leave her or best case scenario wherr you both find a civil solution, which would have you both satisfied* or just anything between those two scenarios

 

[Deadlift]

That'll hurt. Plus, I'm not in a relationship. I just got back into the church and waiting for God to send me the one.

I'm Christian myself, but don't you think the problem lays on the wrong solution? I mean, you can't wait for God to send you a dream girl, it would be like to be hungry and ask God to send you some food. To find a partner is your job and depends on you

 

[Marin]

I'm Christian myself, but don't you think the problem lays on the wrong solution? I mean, you can't wait for God to send you a dream girl, it would be like to be hungry and ask God to send you some food. To find a partner is your job and depends on you

+ we all know God likes celibacy

Just sayin'

 

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