Is it okay to love more than one?

[HENI]

Is it okay to have more than one lover? If so, please explain why. If not, is there a way to make it work? There has to be.

In life, I realized I cannot love just one woman. I always, and will always love many women. I was born this way and cannot reverse it. I want my love life to be like his:

[video=youtube;SsRIFe8NLfk]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SsRIFe8NLfk[/video]

 

[Sagebee]

Big love babykool:

 

[~Ethereal~]

When you truly love someone, it's a feeling you never felt before. Very different to infatuation and you feel like you finally met your soul mate. Only very lucky people...have that kind of love. Having more than one lover, generally is seen bad mainly because people will have less faith with true love. There is always this one person, you will always love...no matter what.

 

[The Messiah]

The more the merrier.

 

[Sagebee]

When you truly love someone, it's a feeling you never felt before. Very different to infatuation and you feel like you finally met your soul mate. Only very lucky people...have that kind of love. Having more than one lover, generally is seen bad mainly because people will have less faith with true love. There is always this one person, you will always love...no matter what.

But that's infatuation tho, you love someone for who they are it's more than how they make you feel, also you can love many people females act selfish with our love

 

[ANiMUS]

I personally believe that humans are possessive creatures so the more you love someone the more you want them to belong only to you. However that is only my own personal take on it.

When you truly love someone, it's a feeling you never felt before. Very different to infatuation and you feel like you finally met your soul mate. Only very lucky people...have that kind of love. Having more than one lover, generally is seen bad mainly because people will have less faith with true love. There is always this one person, you will always love...no matter what.

That last line sounds like it came right out of a Sakura quote XD

 

[Оdin]

It's possible but uncommon. And no, it's not okay.

 

[Phantaminum]

If its one person yes you can love that person. But when it comes to more than one lovers then its definitely not love. Probably infactuation or just lust. Now I am not saying you cant love more than one person. You can love your mother and your kids and your wife. What I am trying to say is that the type of love you would have for your wife/gf is not something you can have for 2 or more persons.

The love a man has for his wife is pure and blameless

 

[Melanin]

Loving something and loving someone are two totally different things, you can love women (plural) but be in love with a woman (singular).

 

[God Of NarutoBase]

Answer 1: polygamy (you could marry up to 77 wives and more with love shared equally))
Answer 2 : concubine/mistress (you can love one person who you'll marry but you can still love more as ya concubines)
Answer 3: Sidechics (love one as the main,love the other/s as sides)

uttahere:

 

[Sagebee]

If its one person yes you can love that person. But when it comes to more than one lovers then its definitely not love. Probably infactuation or just lust. Now I am not saying you cant love more than one person. You can love your mother and your kids and your wife. What I am trying to say is that the type of love you would have for your wife/gf is not something you can have for 2 or more persons.

The love a man has for his wife is pure and blameless

Thats bs of all the females in the world you think there's only one you would appreciate and spend the rest of there life with, a person might be unequal with their love, but this isn't an absolute because we have special and unique love for every individual

 

[~Ethereal~]

But that's infatuation tho, you love someone for who they are it's more than how they make you feel, also you can love many people females act selfish with our love

Lol, I have been infatuated with 2 different people, one for 3 years and the other 2 years. 3rd person I am into is completely different. Yes, despite all the flaws he had, he was the one.

I personally believe that humans are possessive creatures so the more you love someone the more you want them to belong only to you. However that is only my own personal take on it.



That last line sounds like it came right out of a Sakura quote XD

Really?

 

[Umari Senju]

A lot of traditional answers I see. Nothing wrong with that but at the same time it's not a universal truth for everyone.

i know a triple who have been together with only each other for years. It's not common sure but the 3 of them live each other and are happy with their arrangement. We have the conception that "true" love only happens between 2 people and any other way is wrong and frowned upon because it threatens the traditional notion of what a couple should be.

It's not not the norm but if all parties are truly okay with it then I have no problem with outside the realm of a traditional relationship

 

[Our Lord Sasuke]

Yes. Is very normal.

 

[ChicagoJhawk]

That's my excuse for wanting a 3 some

 

[Tarkatower]

ofc .

 

[Avani 🥈]

But that's infatuation tho, you love someone for who they are it's more than how they make you feel, also you can love many people females act selfish with our love

Talking about selfishness, how many of you boys can handle your "lover" having another " lover/s"? Double standard and selfishness is the reason that you even talk like that.

Remember:

As of 2014, the world ratio of men to women is estimated to be 1.014:1. In 2010, the world's male population was 3,477,829,638, while the female population was 3,418,059,380.

There are more men than women in the world.

 

[Pumpkin Ninja]

It's part of human nature to feel jealousy or even get hurt when the one you love loves someone else. This is why it's ethically wrong. If you wanna love more than one girl than you have to be okay with her loving more than one guy.

If you're not content with the one you love then you don't love her.

Polygamy is a way to make it work but not out of lust. It works when everyone is willing to participate and contribute to the relationship. I really doubt you could pull it off.

 

[Sagebee]

Talking about selfishness, how many of you boys can handle your "lover" having another " lover/s"? Double standard and selfishness is the reason that you even talk like that.

Remember:

As of 2014, the world ratio of men to women is estimated to be 1.014:1. In 2010, the world's male population was 3,477,829,638, while the female population was 3,418,059,380.

There are more men than women in the world.

Lol I was joking it's hard enough having monogamous relationships, it would be hard for those type of polygamous relationships to work but if all parties agree it's there choice but men and women aren't better or worse for participating in it

 

[Uzumaki Macho]

Im ok with polygamy as long as all the members consent to it.