[Debate] Is it embarrassing to be a virgin?

[YowYan]

Re: [Debate] Is it embarrassing to be a virgin?

I remember being in a hotelroom in Spain with about 4 dudes and 5 girls. They were talking about their *** experiences including the girl I had a crush on that period of time. When all eyes were on me, I simply said I had no experience in front of that girl. I was 17 at the time. I'd never lie about something like that. It's pathetic beyond measure.

But it's common knowledge in today's age that boys and girls are pressured/steered into having ***. Sad.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

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I wouldn't say it's embarrassing, just more like they are missing out on something really awesome. But everyone goes at their own pace, so to look down on someone whose a virgin is stupidity, and to feel like less of a person because you are one is also a sign of stupidity.

Plus people who admit it are more likely to get some I find.

 

[Jack Spicer]

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I don't think it's a big deal. If people are having ***, that's cool. If they aren't, that's cool too. Me, personally, I'm a virgin and it never crosses my mind at all nor does the thought of my friends having *** or not having ***. Basically, I agree 100% It's no biggie.

 

[scorezor]

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i mean... you born virgin ... why should you be ashamed of being virgin when you already borned that way , you know? ... smh.

and before you reply to me , i understand why certain persons has shame in that aspect.

 

[-Tremendous-]

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Being a Virgin is totally fine I'm 34 and still a virgin and i don't have a prob.


I'm kidding. xD

 

[nandachikara]

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I guess i now understand the meaning of half virgin,it sounded stupid before.

 

[cptenn94]

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But to be honest. Whether you are 19 or 39, I don't think it that wrong to be virgin. ^.^

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It isnt wrong to be a virgin at all. This whole makeing fun of people who havent lost their virginity is about as childish as a group of skydivers makeing fun of non skydivers for not skydiveing.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. No matter what your age. *** is a recreation/procreational activity that is done with someone you care about. It can vary from a simple partner, to a soul mate.

Some people are not interested in relationships at all(any form). As such, they may not be interested in haveing ***.


Not to the topic.

Is it embarrassing? Only if that is what you think. It only depends on the viewpoint of the person who is a virgin. If they let others get to them, and embarrass them, then sure it is embarrassing.

But Im a virgin, and I dont have any ounce of embarrassment. Im busy with my life now, and figureing out where and what I want to do. Once I figure that out, or move in a direction, then I will begin being open to/seeking relationships. Im not interested in haveing a quantity of girls. Just finding that one special girl I can spend the rest of my life with, and make her happy, as she makes me happy. So as such, I really dont care about being a virgin.

Even If i wasnt a virgin, I would still consider makeing fun of non virgins, and just involving someones personal life publicly to me immature.


There are a decent number of groups of guys who make fun of/pester the ones that are virgins. So that might be part of why that guy felt the way he did. Or just simply all his friends arent anymore, and he is the odd one of his group.


So this is my opinion. Have a great day!

 

[Sjhsgjhsgjshjshjsh]

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I am virgin and i will stay that way until i get married (i dont want to get married though)

Like hell i would be embarrassed.

 

[Vision]

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Borderline thread imo. I'll leave it open for now as it has some potential for a discussion. Though stay on topic

 

[reizon]

losing your virginity to your cousin is more embarrassing.!!

I wish to have my virginity back.!!

OT:

Mostly guys feel embarrassed about it...!!

 

[Αizen]

Honestly yeah you should, I don't care what anyone says in here.

 

[BlackFlame44]

I'm 16


Meaning I'm at an age where other guys my age talk like they're an expert when they probably haven't even seen a naked lady( porn not included)

Meaning:


Common sense: No

Society: Yes

 

[Zee Seh]

:| Really peeps. Society pressures u to have *** and loose virginity.. Dat sounds lame considering the society i live in.. :/
OT : Anyhow .. i really dont think its kindda embarassing at all. I mean.. Im pervy bastard. I flirt wid all the gal dat i come across( excluding cousins and all) .. But i never thought having *** is Important.. well opinions may vary. cuz i belong to a society dat forbids pre maritial ***.. Actually it depends on the person if he/she is physically and mentally ready for it.. And having *** just cuz of peer pressure or getting among the club of Cool people. is just Too Lame imo.

So have *** whenever u want.. enjoy life and fcuk the society. :'D

 

[EnDash]

This one guy from my class is a eighteen years old, nice looking, young man. He will turn nineteen at the end of this month.

We were talking about *** during life-style class and the question was:

"Who of you all is still virgin?"

He didn't raised his hand, I noticed. So after class a few girls (who probably know him) told me to go with them to pay him a visit of why he did not raise his hand. (The hell, I do not know any of dem stories and tbh I don't care (besides i didn't raised my hand either, but that is mainly because I was browsing and stalking some of ya'll pages.)O_O) But since I was asked, I didn't mind. I walked together with the non-otaku's after class. I thought he might had found a girlfriend, and the rest misunderstood. But he hadn't and said that he was embarrassed by the fact of never having *** at his age.

Really now? (~_~) <- first face expression when hearing him out.
I wanted to get inspirational and tell him not to think that way.
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But instead I kept my mouth shut and kind of felt sad (since everyone was) for him having those thoughts..
I wanted to tell my thoughts at that very moment, but then again. >_> I barely know him or talk that much. (24/7 on Forums. ;_

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Anyway~

I want to have a DEBATE (no war) w/ you guys~ So sit straight and get ready

Tell me your thoughts on this subject matter and here I will share mines:

I think it is not embarrassing at all, in your own time, when your ready for it. You can do it. Not to gain popularity or because everyone else has.

Seriously, in 10 years time you will look back and know you have done the right thing, which was waiting. You don't have to feel sorry for it at all and search (even though a lot do) for Your one desperately on dating sites or whatever~

Be yourself and your other half will come. It's faith that we have to trust in. Worrying about it won't solve anything, and yes, I do think you have to put effort in yourself qua personality and being a lively person.

But to be honest. Whether you are 19 or 39, I don't think it that wrong to be virgin. ^.^

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from pretty much puberty we are associating *** with many stuff we want to achieve. like growing up, being accepted, finding love or simply to believe we can have *** if we want to. it's sort of a milestone in puberty and in growing up that if you don't achieve it, you feel like you "don't have what it takes".

it's partially social pressure of course but i think it's also personal psychological pressure. like getting your first job or being accepted to college, if you can't do that how do you feel? weak, unwanted, unrespected and so on. it's really about feeling mature and in line with the growth of everyone around you.

i'm 18 and a vrigin, and i'm not ashamed about it. but i get why most people are. *** is very meaningful to us emotionally (to guys and girls) and being a virgin will most likely have a negative effect on people's emotions.

edit: example...

"everyone who didn't get accepted to college, raise your hand"

how many people would not feel embarrassed or ashamed to raise their hand? not many, it's the same situation emotionally.

 

[BazzBee]

No, it's not embarrassing at all. #don'tgivea****aboutwhatipost #wontthinkbeforeipost #dealwithit

 

[Bantos]

I find it rather unimportant. Still no one should just throw themselves around in order to lose their virginity. It feels the best when your first time is with someone that you care about and want.

 

[SIR HERDERP PRESIDERP SDO]

I think it's more embarrassing that you indulge in an act simply because of peer/societal pressure, it's like being a fan of The Beatles then you suddenly become a Directioner 'coz all your friends are fans of One Direction (I feel like vomiting

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To put it simply: If you wanna do it, then do it, if you're just being pressured to do it, then don't do it.

 

[BlacLord™]

I don't suppose it's a big deal really, he's only 18/19 and if he's not too fussed for the time being, that's fine.

But I wouldn't leave it too much longer, 30 and still a virgin isn't attractive... well not in the traditional sense at least.

 

[Ovan]

It don't matter. Just make sure when you do lose it, you lose it to someone that is special to you.