This one guy from my class is a eighteen years old, nice looking, young man. He will turn nineteen at the end of this month.
We were talking about *** during life-style class and the question was:
"Who of you all is still virgin?"
He didn't raised his hand, I noticed. So after class a few girls (who probably know him) told me to go with them to pay him a visit of why he did not raise his hand. (The hell, I do not know any of dem stories and tbh I don't care (besides i didn't raised my hand either, but that is mainly because I was browsing and stalking some of ya'll pages.)O_O) But since I was asked, I didn't mind. I walked together with the non-otaku's after class. I thought he might had found a girlfriend, and the rest misunderstood. But he hadn't and said that he was embarrassed by the fact of never having *** at his age.
Really now? (~_~) <- first face expression when hearing him out.
I wanted to get inspirational and tell him not to think that way.
.
But instead I kept my mouth shut and kind of felt sad (since everyone was) for him having those thoughts..
I wanted to tell my thoughts at that very moment, but then again. >_> I barely know him or talk that much. (24/7 on Forums. ;_
Anyway~
I want to have a DEBATE (no war) w/ you guys~ So sit straight and get ready
Tell me your thoughts on this subject matter and here I will share mines:
I think it is not embarrassing at all, in your own time, when your ready for it. You can do it. Not to gain popularity or because everyone else has.
Seriously, in 10 years time you will look back and know you have done the right thing, which was waiting. You don't have to feel sorry for it at all and search (even though a lot do) for Your one desperately on dating sites or whatever~
Be yourself and your other half will come. It's faith that we have to trust in. Worrying about it won't solve anything, and yes, I do think you have to put effort in yourself qua personality and being a lively person.
But to be honest. Whether you are 19 or 39, I don't think it that wrong to be virgin. ^.^
Please be serious, no trolling nor spam posts like; "Yea, I (dis-)agree"
Tell/write your honest opinion or don't bother at all if you only want to increase your damn posts. ;3
We were talking about *** during life-style class and the question was:
"Who of you all is still virgin?"
He didn't raised his hand, I noticed. So after class a few girls (who probably know him) told me to go with them to pay him a visit of why he did not raise his hand. (The hell, I do not know any of dem stories and tbh I don't care (besides i didn't raised my hand either, but that is mainly because I was browsing and stalking some of ya'll pages.)O_O) But since I was asked, I didn't mind. I walked together with the non-otaku's after class. I thought he might had found a girlfriend, and the rest misunderstood. But he hadn't and said that he was embarrassed by the fact of never having *** at his age.
Really now? (~_~) <- first face expression when hearing him out.
I wanted to get inspirational and tell him not to think that way.
.
But instead I kept my mouth shut and kind of felt sad (since everyone was) for him having those thoughts..
I wanted to tell my thoughts at that very moment, but then again. >_> I barely know him or talk that much. (24/7 on Forums. ;_
Anyway~
I want to have a DEBATE (no war) w/ you guys~ So sit straight and get ready
Tell me your thoughts on this subject matter and here I will share mines:
I think it is not embarrassing at all, in your own time, when your ready for it. You can do it. Not to gain popularity or because everyone else has.
Seriously, in 10 years time you will look back and know you have done the right thing, which was waiting. You don't have to feel sorry for it at all and search (even though a lot do) for Your one desperately on dating sites or whatever~
Be yourself and your other half will come. It's faith that we have to trust in. Worrying about it won't solve anything, and yes, I do think you have to put effort in yourself qua personality and being a lively person.
But to be honest. Whether you are 19 or 39, I don't think it that wrong to be virgin. ^.^
Please be serious, no trolling nor spam posts like; "Yea, I (dis-)agree"
Tell/write your honest opinion or don't bother at all if you only want to increase your damn posts. ;3