Is it better to be a "nice guy" or an " a-hole"?

[Ashflura]

follow ashflura. she is wise.
besides, as long as your nice and have personality, your in good hands. just make sure you have PERSONALITY and try to be charismatic. that works wonders.

Niceness to attract the person your interested in. And then Personality and Charisma to keep them reeled in.

 

[SandVillageShinobi]

I feel as if this is a trick question. Every guy(and girl) is an ******* at some point, even to those they love. Honestly though, if you are a straight up ******* with nothing else to you the only girls you'll ever get are the stupid and easy ones.

 

[Adachi]

It really depends on what career you might be pursuing.
For example, if you wanted to be a CEO of a company, you might have to achieve higher and not let anyone get in your way, which would result in high extraversion and low agreeabless (Big Five personality grid), and thus, you would need to be an a-hole.
However, being an a-hole would not work if your job included teamwork, like creating games or items, or even in medical aspects. I can go on so much more, but I hope you get the general idea.

 

[Shinobi Train]

It really depends on what career you might be pursuing.
For example, if you wanted to be a CEO of a company, you might have to achieve higher and not let anyone get in your way, which would result in high extraversion and low agreeabless (Big Five personality grid), and thus, you would need to be an a-hole.
However, being an a-hole would not work if your job included teamwork, like creating games or items, or even in medical aspects. I can go on so much more, but I hope you get the general idea.

Yep, I know what you're talking about exactly. To be honest, in the "C.E.O." catagory, I am an a-hole...through and through. I'll totally f**k someone over just to make a buck if that's what it takes to survive (it's in my genes). When it comes to women though, I'm a gentlemen. I can't stand to see a woman hurt in any way; I'll control myself to keep that from happening, and destroy anyone that does let that happen.