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wow ino you are really deep those thoughts are so deep and it may change some people like me thanks to your blog i am really inspired and i am going to be a different person in high school thanks ino :hug:
 

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I was watching TV today and the show Flavor of Love was on. I know it is a dumb show but I can't help but love it. There was a big arguement about who was "real" and who was honest while there were people that kept secrets and that ultimately made them be eliminated because they were not upfront with Flavor Flav. Then there were people who were honest from the start and he eliminated them because he didn't want to know the truth. It is hard to say I learned something from this kind of show but it made me wonder, how can a relationship truly be open and honest. We all most likely have things in our past that we don't like to discuss or talk about but in a relation, aren't we supposed to be honest? It seems like a dilemma here because everything can go wrong whether you choose to tell the truth or hide it. If you tell the truth early on in a relation, the person is most likely going to be judgemental and possibly end the relation. Being honest to a person right away can ruin relations while the opposite is true as well. If you wait and create a solid foundation and relationship with a special person and they tell them the truth., it will most likely ruin the relationship as well becase the other person will be upset that you didn't tell them the truth straight from the start. It seems either way you look at it, the truth and honesty come back to hurt you. Is there ever a time to be completely honest with a lover or does it ruin a relationship? Are there things in a relationship that should not be said and kept secret?​
Well...
I suppose you're right on that... And it is kinda difficult. But there could be "The golden middle way"! Because if you'll tell everything too early or too late it would be a disaster! The middle way could be something like: telling everything but only little by little! And always saying something like:"You'll get to know me." or "Every day you learn something new."

That could be the solution but who knows! Attractions/Love/Relationships are that kind of mysteries that you'll never learn fully! It's enough if you know the person you love/care/like and he/she thinks the same!

Love is something you don't mess with! It messes with you!
 

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Oh, Ino,
you are really making us think!!!

Again I'd say there are no absolute rules. It depends. On the people and the "lie". Cause to hide something that concerns you and only you, that is an irremovable right that you have...But to hide things that concern other people and they maybe one day find them out...that can be harsh.
But, what's a "lie" anyway? It's not the opposite of truth cause it may be something totally irrelevant with the truth. So, I can't answer you as i did the previous times.
I can only tell you what my experience taught me and what I do in my life. It's so...simple. I never ask anything that it's answer could make me angry or sad. I prefer not to know, and I prefer not to force the other to possibly lie to me. Cause the things that i don't know can't hurt me...I just don't ask, and I...hehe...always knock the door before getting in house...
 

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When we are little kids, the common question asked is what do you want to be when you grow up. It seems easy back when we are young, doesn't it? We all say we are gonna be a fireman, astronaut, president, or something else. I was recently looking at career options because it is time for me to be thinking about my interests and what career path I plan on pursuing. Then I thought, are we as kids just told what we want in order to make us happy? I mean our parents are always encouraging but as we grow up we learn how unlikely it is that we will stick to the career choice we said when we are younger. This then got me thinking about how many of us actually keep to our word. I mean how many of us when we grow up actually become what we said we want to be when we grow up? There aren't many children that turned out exactly how they imagined themselves when they matured because of fate. This brings up my question, does fate determine our lives and is there really a point in figuring out what we want to do with our lives if fate has already has a pre-determined path for us all? We all have a place in this world and a specific purpose but is it possible for us to change our fate? Or do our attempts to change our fate/destined path actually not change it because our attempts to change are actually a part of our fate? Does fate completely control out lives and if not, how can we change it?​
 

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When we are little kids, the common question asked is what do you want to be when you grow up. It seems easy back when we are young, doesn't it? We all say we are gonna be a fireman, astronaut, president, or something else. I was recently looking at career options because it is time for me to be thinking about my interests and what career path I plan on pursuing. Then I thought, are we as kids just told what we want in order to make us happy? I mean our parents are always encouraging but as we grow up we learn how unlikely it is that we will stick to the career choice we said when we are younger. This then got me thinking about how many of us actually keep to our word. I mean how many of us when we grow up actually become what we said we want to be when we grow up? There aren't many children that turned out exactly how they imagined themselves when they matured because of fate. This brings up my question, does fate determine our lives and is there really a point in figuring out what we want to do with our lives if fate has already has a pre-determined path for us all? We all have a place in this world and a specific purpose but is it possible for us to change our fate? Or do our attempts to change our fate/destined path actually not change it because our attempts to change are actually a part of our fate? Does fate completely control out lives and if not, how can we change it?​
well i always wanted to race cars when i was a kid..infact i was obssesed with cars, and still am. now however, my racing of choice has moved from nascar to racing against the clock...now all i have to do is get a car
 

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I eated seven cookies today. I bit my computer by accident and I stole Gaara's eyeliner and then punished myself for it. I also got a new box to live in. I destroyed the Konoha Bar and eated many people. I feel sorry and repented.

Tobi is a good boy.^^​
 

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When we are little kids, the common question asked is what do you want to be when you grow up. It seems easy back when we are young, doesn't it? We all say we are gonna be a fireman, astronaut, president, or something else. I was recently looking at career options because it is time for me to be thinking about my interests and what career path I plan on pursuing. Then I thought, are we as kids just told what we want in order to make us happy? I mean our parents are always encouraging but as we grow up we learn how unlikely it is that we will stick to the career choice we said when we are younger. This then got me thinking about how many of us actually keep to our word. I mean how many of us when we grow up actually become what we said we want to be when we grow up? There aren't many children that turned out exactly how they imagined themselves when they matured because of fate. This brings up my question, does fate determine our lives and is there really a point in figuring out what we want to do with our lives if fate has already has a pre-determined path for us all? We all have a place in this world and a specific purpose but is it possible for us to change our fate? Or do our attempts to change our fate/destined path actually not change it because our attempts to change are actually a part of our fate? Does fate completely control out lives and if not, how can we change it?​
well personally i do believe that whatever happens is going to happen no matter what and whatever has happened could not be changed... our own actions to try and change this are already precalculated but not by higher beings such as a god... but ourselves our own drives such as curiosity guilt anger fear love envy sadness joy and all the other drives we may posess.

we cannot change anything as what we will do is what was going to happen from our very birth... that thought has helped me through some bad times...
 

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I think that everyone chooses his fate. Everything depends on the person you are. When we are kids, we don't understand fully how the world woks, we have our childish wishes. Boys want to be policemen, girls want to be music or video stars, but when we grow up, we (well most of us) learn what is important... Thats why our child's wishes remain child's wishes :D
 

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When we are little kids, the common question asked is what do you want to be when you grow up. It seems easy back when we are young, doesn't it? We all say we are gonna be a fireman, astronaut, president, or something else. I was recently looking at career options because it is time for me to be thinking about my interests and what career path I plan on pursuing. Then I thought, are we as kids just told what we want in order to make us happy? I mean our parents are always encouraging but as we grow up we learn how unlikely it is that we will stick to the career choice we said when we are younger. This then got me thinking about how many of us actually keep to our word. I mean how many of us when we grow up actually become what we said we want to be when we grow up? There aren't many children that turned out exactly how they imagined themselves when they matured because of fate. This brings up my question, does fate determine our lives and is there really a point in figuring out what we want to do with our lives if fate has already has a pre-determined path for us all? We all have a place in this world and a specific purpose but is it possible for us to change our fate? Or do our attempts to change our fate/destined path actually not change it because our attempts to change are actually a part of our fate? Does fate completely control out lives and if not, how can we change it?​
Oh yes... Parents were making us happy when tehy encouraged(Typed right?) us to be firemen, astronaut etc. AND they wanted us to have a good job(with enough earnings) and have good future! The thing that you arent in the work you were heading is just lack of studying!!! 'coz if you have good DIBEITTRHEDHSCPCS[document issued by an educational institution testifying that the recipient has earned a degree or has successfully completed a particular course of study] You'll get the work you want! (And good manners always helps you!)
Fate...
Fate brings up the thing that if there isn't one you don't have any purpose! But if the fate exists can it be changeable? I think its possible BUT in very rare situations it really works! 'coz who wants to pick up fight with the all-and-mighty if you would want to change the things that will happen? (Ok everyone but still...) 'coz its always The-creator-of-the-heavens-and-the-earth against you... YOu see my point?
I think YES fate really controls us(and fate is controlled by the all-and-mighty) BUT you can change it! How? Try to be connected to the upstairs-man or try to do good things and they could be revarded (Now speaking of karma)!!!
 

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When we are little kids, the common question asked is what do you want to be when you grow up. It seems easy back when we are young, doesn't it? We all say we are gonna be a fireman, astronaut, president, or something else. I was recently looking at career options because it is time for me to be thinking about my interests and what career path I plan on pursuing. Then I thought, are we as kids just told what we want in order to make us happy? I mean our parents are always encouraging but as we grow up we learn how unlikely it is that we will stick to the career choice we said when we are younger. This then got me thinking about how many of us actually keep to our word. I mean how many of us when we grow up actually become what we said we want to be when we grow up? There aren't many children that turned out exactly how they imagined themselves when they matured because of fate. This brings up my question, does fate determine our lives and is there really a point in figuring out what we want to do with our lives if fate has already has a pre-determined path for us all? We all have a place in this world and a specific purpose but is it possible for us to change our fate? Or do our attempts to change our fate/destined path actually not change it because our attempts to change are actually a part of our fate? Does fate completely control out lives and if not, how can we change it?​
well, fate doesnt control our lives
but you cant change it
if you have a question i can answer it..
by asking the souls..
 

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Hey Ino,

that's another tricky question. Remember: The right answers come only when the questions are right!
So, fate, ha? Yes, there is fate. Everyone has it's own and some things are destined to happen while some are doomed from the beginning. But this isn't happening because someone else better or more powerful than us has determined that. Our fate is decided by us, and us only, by our own actions and feelings. Cause to think for someone's misfortune is just the same as hitting him, or torturing him.
It's your thoughts and your feelings that define your life. And that's why I prefer the word "Carma". Cause I am really trying hard to be a good person, I sacrifice every day many things and I believe that when I will be able to except my true self and my true feelings all the goods things will come to me...I'm not afraid of fate, cause I create it.
 

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I eated seven cookies today. I bit my computer by accident and I stole Gaara's eyeliner and then punished myself for it. I also got a new box to live in. I destroyed the Konoha Bar and eated many people. I feel sorry and repented.

Tobi is a good boy.^^​
LOL

Ino, this is good so far but it seems a lot like that show "*** and the City"
I don't watch it but one time i couldn't go to sleep and it was on so I decided to see what it was about.
The girl kept doing things like this and sounded almost exactly like you do right now and its like you almost became her in these blogs.^^
Just stating my mind.
 
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Ino, this is good so far but it seems a lot like that show "*** and the City"
I don't watch it but one time i couldn't go to sleep and it was on so I decided to see what it was about.
The girl kept doing things like this and sounded almost exactly like you do right now and its like you almost became her in these blogs.^^
Just stating my mind.
that is such a nice compliment!!!! i love that show and she is like my inspiration
 

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Even when you are surrounded by people and friends or family, why is there still a feeling of lonlieness or emptiness? Is there some spiritual component missing because even when there are so many people with me, why would I feel so alone in the world?
 
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Even when you are surrounded by people and friends or family, why is there still a feeling of lonlieness or emptiness? Is there some spiritual component missing because even when there are so many people with me, why would I feel so alone in the world?
maybe there is someone missing in your heart or something is wrong for you maybe you dont fell confortable with your family or friends well there can be many possiblities
 
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