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July 29, 2008

So today I was talking to my friends on the phone and they were all talking about their love life. Listening to all their conversations really got me thinking and made me look at my own life. I'm single and alone but will I ever find that special someone in my own life. With all these thoughts racing through my mind, I needed to go somewhere to find sanctuary in a place where I could think and gather my thoughts. I went to the mall and as I was walking through the several stores, I heard a sales clerk talking about how in life you only get one great love and maybe two if your lucky. Then i thought to myself, is this true? In life are we looking for that one perfect someone and should we wait or not? Then I thought about my friends and their love lives. I wondered if that was just a waste of time since if you only et on true love, it would most likely not be in high school. So my question, do we all really only get one true love and life and are the rest just flings and useless? Are our short relationships equivalent to shopping. When we shop we buy something and we like it at first but over time we get bored of it and it ends up in the back of our closet or in charity, is that how relationships are if there is only one true love destined for each of us?​
 
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that's a very deep peice of writing and i think most of it is true... still with the short flings the company would be nice but you will find someone really special to you... just don't worry about it.
 
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Ah, girl, that's tricky...It depends on how you define "true". Usually people believe that true love is the "one and only that'll last forever". For me, that's not true. All relationships are true if there are based on true feelings. And from my experience I can tell you that you'll love surely more than once... As I have.
And another thing. If you are searching for your soul mate, please know that you'll never find him that way. You must firstly let "him" become you soul name and let yourself become his. Stop searching, these things hit you! Until then have lots of friends and fun!
 
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Ino_Yamanaka said:
July 29, 2008

So today I was talking to my friends on the phone and they were all talking about their love life. Listening to all their conversations really got me thinking and made me look at my own life. I'm single and alone but will I ever find that special someone in my own life. With all these thoughts racing through my mind, I needed to go somewhere to find sanctuary in a place where I could think and gather my thoughts. I went to the mall and as I was walking through the several stores, I heard a sales clerk talking about how in life you only get one great love and maybe two if your lucky. Then i thought to myself, is this true? In life are we looking for that one perfect someone and should we wait or not? Then I thought about my friends and their love lives. I wondered if that was just a waste of time since if you only et on true love, it would most likely not be in high school. So my question, do we all really only get one true love and life and are the rest just flings and useless? Are our short relationships equivalent to shopping. When we shop we buy something and we like it at first but over time we get bored of it and it ends up in the back of our closet or in charity, is that how relationships are if there is only one true love destined for each of us?​
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nice ino good job and the last thing u sead i agree with you
 

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July 29, 2008

When I got up this morning, I walked around when I saw my old yearbook sitting on the bookshelf. It had been awhile since I ever looked in there and I decided what was the harm. When I opened it up I saw all my graduation pictures, etc. and then i saw this one girl I remember I always competed against. I remember in the third grade we always tried to beat each other at everything and since then it continued. This school year we competed to see who got higher grades, better clothes, etc. Classic high school rivalry but then I thought, is rivalry really a bad thing or a good thing? To me, rivalry actually pushes us to do our best because we do not want to be outdone. Rivalry makes us try harder and really give our best effort but the problem is there is no real reward, we only try hard in rivalry so we don't get beat. And then I remembered this past school year, this girl and I competed over grades and we tried hard JUST to beat each other. We did the best in the class but we weren't doing it because we loved the class and wanted to learn, we did it solely because we wanted to beat the other. Rivalry I feel can be bad as well know because I did better than many people in that class just because of rivalry but I got the best grade while people that really tried hard and loved to learn recieved an adequate grade. I felt somehwat guilty that I did better than them when I really didn't care about the final grade, I only cared about beating my friend when all these other students focused and really wanted to earn a high grade but ended up being satisfied and not overwhelemed by happieness. So rivalry, is it a good thing because it causes us to do our best or is it a bad thing because we only do our best to compete and not to actually enjoy what we are doing which could end up taking away from others?​
 
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