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I hate it.... I have no friends in real life and I have ADHD and I have anger issues and I have Anxiety attacks all the time.

I have to go to a therapist and a psychologist.. It annoys me so much. I just want to talk to Narutobase because I have noo one to talk too :( What do you think I should do?

I even take medication for all of these each
 
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Put simply, the best cure for depression is happiness...
Are you on antidepressants? I'm not one to encourage medicating your problems away, but if your depression is severe, you might need them.
Also, remember that things have to get bad before they get better. Life will start looking in your favor eventually, and when it does, it'll be worth the wait. I'm always here to talk if you need it. ^_^
 
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I hate it.... I have no friends in real life and I have ADHD and I have anger issues and I have Anxiety attacks all the time.

I have to go to a therapist and a psychologist.. It annoys me so much. I just want to talk to Narutobase because I have noo one to talk too :( What do you think I should do?

I even take medication for all of these each
I had depression aswell, and the only advice I can give you is try to go out and make friends and be active. A lot easier said than done, trust me I know. If you need help/advice or just someone to talk to just VM me.
 

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The life we all live in is real. Friends are friends, it doesn't matter what the barrier may be. You have people that care about you, heck i care about you even though i might not know you. Don't look at the negative side of things, look at the positive. Life is full of challenges that we must all surpass, and surpass them we will. If you ever need to talk though, I'm here for you.
 
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Do you have any interests or hobbies that make you happy? I would suggest just doing them. Friends don't matter they all just leech off each other and use you until you longer served the purpose they've set you up to. Your life matters so try your best to live it and just please yourself. It will get better
 
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I hate it.... I have no friends in real life and I have ADHD and I have anger issues and I have Anxiety attacks all the time.

I have to go to a therapist and a psychologist.. It annoys me so much. I just want to talk to Narutobase because I have noo one to talk too :( What do you think I should do?

I even take medication for all of these each
a hundred things you can do.

1. Work out. Get a GYM membership. New York Sports Club offer student memberships. If not go to Planet Fitness
2. Change your diet. Cut the sugary shit out.
3. Get the **** off Narutobase
4. If your therapist isn't doing CBT, REBT or EMDR with you fire them. Talk therapy is useless if you're not making a change.
5. I don't know how old are you. If you're younger than 18, suck it up and deal with it. Improve your self esteem. if you're older than 18, go and get laid.
6. Run
7. Get a new hobby (photography, biking, knitting, gaming, programming, etc.)
8. Watch the following people on Youtube: etthehiphoppreacher, metal motivation or dsims motivation
9. Meetup.com - Join the site and meet groups of your interest. I'm pretty sure they have anime nerds
10. Travel to somewhere new. Do something for yourself once

I could go on.

But seriously.

You need to surround yourself with positive people. You hang with winners, you become a winner.
also check out Dr. Burns feeling good.
 

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a hundred things you can do.

1. Work out. Get a GYM membership. New York Sports Club offer student memberships. If not go to Planet Fitness
2. Change your diet. Cut the sugary shit out.
3. Get the **** off Narutobase
4. If your therapist isn't doing CBT, REBT or EMDR with you fire them. Talk therapy is useless if you're not making a change.
5. I don't know how old are you. If you're younger than 18, suck it up and deal with it. Improve your self esteem. if you're older than 18, go and get laid.
6. Run
7. Get a new hobby (photography, biking, knitting, gaming, programming, etc.)
8. Watch the following people on Youtube: etthehiphoppreacher, metal motivation or dsims motivation
9. Meetup.com - Join the site and meet groups of your interest. I'm pretty sure they have anime nerds
10. Travel to somewhere new. Do something for yourself once

I could go on.

But seriously.

You need to surround yourself with positive people. You hang with winners, you become a winner.
also check out Dr. Burns feeling good.
What a douchey response. You clearly don't understand what anxiety attacks or depression is.
 

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No one is born alone in this world, you will eventually find friends. Trust me :p That should sound kinda familiar since you're a OP fan :D
 

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Don't accept the "facts" you've been told by all your therapists/psychologists that you have ADHD and depression as limitations. Perceive them as challenges and envision the triumph you will feel in overcoming them. At least this is what I do - I'm a fierce competitor. Do want you want, but I suggest you start hanging with people in real life with similar interests to yours, they're always out there.

And don't get too down on yourself - we all go through struggles and get through them. Best of luck! =D
 

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Surround yourself with the color pink. It's proven to calm nerves and generally make people feel better. :p Also, because we're talking about depression, the aforementioned note is probably no help. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for the next month, dude. :heh:
 

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Surround yourself with the color pink. It's proven to calm nerves and generally make people feel better. :p Also, because we're talking about depression, the aforementioned note is probably no help. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for the next month, dude. :heh:
I say smoke weed instead, it's proven to calm your nerves a lot better than a color an it has to be better for you than all those chemicals he's putting into his body via medication
 

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I say smoke weed instead, it's proven to calm your nerves a lot better than a color an it has to be better for you than all those chemicals he's putting into his body via medication
look at the cool kid, HE SMOKES WEED!? instant friend request.

But seriously, weed is not for everyone, you shouldn't just push it on a person.

As for OP, create a facebook and interact with people in your area, I think that would help and since you're already on your computer most of the time I am sure it wouldn't hurt.
 

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look at the cool kid, HE SMOKES WEED!? instant friend request.

But seriously, weed is not for everyone, you shouldn't just push it on a person.

As for OP, create a facebook and interact with people in your area, I think that would help and since you're already on your computer most of the time I am sure it wouldn't hurt.
Lol I'm not trying to make myself look cool, this is the Internet I could give less than a single f*,& and I'm not pressuring him into doing anything I'm just stating facts. And I have most of the stuff he has ADHD and Anxiety but I mean life is gonna be tough no matter what that's a given.
My real advice to this kid is to get back on his feet no matter what life throws at him because in the end success and happiness isn't about how many friends you have, it's about getting back up one more time than you've been knocked down, and throughout his life he will meet new people and learn new experiences. That is all.
 

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Lol I'm not trying to make myself look cool, this is the Internet I could give less than a single f*,& and I'm not pressuring him into doing anything I'm just stating facts. And I have most of the stuff he has ADHD and Anxiety but I mean life is gonna be tough no matter what that's a given.
My real advice to this kid is to get back on his feet no matter what life throws at him because in the end success and happiness isn't about how many friends you have, it's about getting back up one more time than you've been knocked down, and throughout his life he will meet new people and learn new experiences. That is all.
who cares what he said, we took down Vampy. :scorps:
 

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if that is the case then base can be a very good place for you ,i am also here to escape reality,
make some close friends to whom you can talk about anything you will feel better
 
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