I need serious help..

[Sir Blades]

I see i didnt explain myself clear enough.. I never said i wanted to date her as a 14 year old. I meant like could i wait till she gets older. >.<

Yes wait until she is MUCH older. But she will probably loose interest once she gets older. probably......

 

[Shichi]

I see i didnt explain myself clear enough.. I never said i wanted to date her as a 14 year old. I meant like could i wait till she gets older. >.<

ahh I get where you're coming from now. I thought you met pedophilia at first. But it's completely okay if you wait till she's say 18. She'll be legal and then the age gap (it's only five years so no biggie) would be completely normal. U_U

 

[-Punk-]

Meh the gap is weak but since she is underage , i'm sure people will ***** , just keep hanging out with her as much as possible ......maybe when she gets a little older try dating her(if you still into her) , but you can be friends with her now i guess & what you guys do in the end it's between you & her.

 

[Thundergod123]

I'm a 19 year old and im in love with a 14 year old girl.. I dont think im a pervert since i havent had any kind of wrong thoughts about her. Everything about her is just amazing. I only see her 1 month in a year since she live near my vacation house. shes always visiting me when im there and we play games n such, talk for hours etc.. Im also good friends with her dad, hes a nice guy as well. I've tried dating other girls but i havent been able to find anyone as amazing as her.. What do i do?? Am i weird? I bet i am.. Any advice?

If you think u want to **** her then its weird but if you like her then i don't know, it just depends on her.
Its hard to explain, however if you really really really love her then make a move. I can see 5 years is a difference, but as i said we never know.

 

[Narutoverse]

As Blinkie Uchiha said, just wait 4 more years if you can till she is 18 and everything will be good.
I have a friends who's parents have a 6 year age gap but when you are bother over the age of 18 the age gap isn't seen as much of a problem anymore.

As for whether it is normal or not, i'd say it is pretty normal atleast but not on a society level, got another friend who is 16 and goes out with a guy who is 19. But naturally her parents flipped at her.

 

[Ōkami]

Well it would be kind of awkward when you're talking with your mates and you say you have to pick up your girlfriend from her Junior high school.

 

[Joker]

OH, I have a solution. You said she looks perfect right? Throw acid on her face, and hope it works. Problem solved.

 

[Thundergod123]

I see i didnt explain myself clear enough.. I never said i wanted to date her as a 14 year old. I meant like could i wait till she gets older. >.<

Good idea,... most guys probably start dating young girls for no reason and want to hang around all the time and start thinking about to **** her,lol.

 

[Deviation]

The best thing you can do now is be her friend. Get to know her and develop a nice good relationship. Believe me she will be more willing to go out with you because she will know who you are and since you are older she may trust you more. If you really love her, be her friend and when she is of age, date her.

 

[Steven Segal]

people will call you a pedophile ..
Don't go out with under legal age ..
She's still kid while you are young man ..

Take an advice from someone old and wise like me and leave her alone ..

Only time will make you forget your love and pain ..

 

[Thundergod123]

it's only a 5 year difference. when your 23 and she's 18 it'll be more appropriate until then I'm afraid society doesn't like it :/ my advice is keep looking.

Well, you are kinda right becuase girls growing up and knows they're body is better than anyone and they have a lot of experience about love.

14 years is too young but around 17 or 18 as you said then yes or maybe.

You say that you only see her 1 time in a year, thats a little creepy. I think you should drop her off.
But to be honest and real, if youre that desperate, then you should wait til she gets 17+ and then start dating her. When both girl and boy are mature, then you dont see the age difference anymore, it just matter when youre teenager. I find it wierd with your situation, but everybody and their means yo kno.

If your so desperate, then date her when she get matured, if youre not desperate, then drop her

Second this....

 

[ShiningStar]

If you are planning to wait, then it wouldn't be that bad. In fact, it wouldn't be bad at all. I don't see why people would complain when he said he'd wait, and when there are age gaps even worse than that around the world.

 

[sleepinsleuth]

i say wait 3-4 years to date. and maybe ask her father. although, it's true she could drop interest. man life sucks. just today i went on this online article about a woman stripping at the presidents cup (or whatever), and right next to the pictures was a link for an article on a babysitter raping babies.

 

[-Tremendous-]

My advice if you truly love her wait till she is 18 and tell her about your feeling not right now cause that it's just sick!

 

[BusinessManTeno]

You only see her 1 month in a year? umm.. How long have you been liking her?
To me its.... Eh... Its difficult. In todays society your looked at as being a perv tbh.
but Love has no boundary. She has yet to live life just chill..
look for more bishes