I need serious help..

[God Madara]

I'm a 19 year old and im in love with a 14 year old girl.. I dont think im a pervert since i havent had any kind of wrong thoughts about her. Everything about her is just amazing. I only see her 1 month in a year since she live near my vacation house. shes always visiting me when im there and we play games n such, talk for hours etc.. Im also good friends with her dad, hes a nice guy as well. I've tried dating other girls but i havent been able to find anyone as amazing as her.. What do i do?? Am i weird? I bet i am.. Any advice?

 

[Pavoneo]

Realistically? Move on. It's a ***** but you have to do it.

 

[Clouds]

Yes. You're weird. You don't need to have sexual thoughts about a minor to be creepy as ****.

Seriously... Im a nice guy but i have to agree with this ^ :l

 

[Cruciatus]

If you live in the U.S. and your state has consent laws, you ought to wait until she's sixteen to do anything, because in most states that's the age of consent.

It's not that weird. Five years isn't that big of a difference.

Its not weird. Only modern society says so. 150 years ago this match would be perfectly normal.

Depends on what society, really. In some countries, eight year old girls are still married off to 30 year old men.

Let's all keep in mind that the Virgin Mary probably had Jesus when she was 13.

 

[Snape Uchiha]

Its not weird. Only modern society says so. 150 years ago this match would be perfectly normal.

 

[Aomine]

You're not weird if she feels the same way about you, start dating her when shes like 17-18. Its only a 5 year difference, a lot of couples are older than one another, my parents are a good example. My dad is 46 and my mom is 38. As i said just wait till she gets older.

 

[Sir Blades]

Look I will try to help, that is weird not matter how you look at it man. That girls dad has put trust upon you , dont break that trust. and if you date that girl that man will make a living hell for you. This is a very tricky situation. That girl is too young and most likely inexperienced. I do hope you rethink what isnt love in to maybe similarities and chemistry you might be confusing to be love.

 

[Paramour]

Its not weird. Only modern society says so. 150 years ago this match would be perfectly normal.

It's not weird? He just said he only sees her one month in a whole year. She is a kid, dude. :l

 

[Hypemaster]

Be patient my child and endure.

Its not weird. Only modern society says so. 150 years ago this match would be perfectly normal.

This, it's society and culture that deems this as unacceptable. Personally I'd only date girls in my age range, but nothing is wrong with you.

Some cultures, 15 years old is considered being an adult for instance. It's society that deems when a person is an "adult".

 

[Aya San]

5 years isn't that big of a gap.

but if you only see her 1 month/ year move the **** on, it's creepy

 

[Corgi]

Edgar Allan Poe married his 14 year old cousin when he was like 21. Back in those days, it was completely acceptable (although, I think he lied and said she was 18 anyways, but that doesn't matter)

 

[Ciao]

Its not weird. Only modern society says so. 150 years ago this match would be perfectly normal.

Actually not even that long about. More like 50 years ago. Anyways, OP, from a biological standpoint its normal to be attracted to her. However, from a societal standpoint, its wrong.

 

[Netferarri]

Who the hell cares? If it's love, it's love -_-

Whatever you think is right, before this match would be good but just modern society thoughts that messed it up. Go for it dude.

 

[God Madara]

Look I will try to help, that is weird not matter how you look at it man. That girls dad has put trust upon you , dont break that trust. and if you date that girl that man will make a living hell for you. This is a very tricky situation. That girl is too young and most likely inexperienced. I do hope you rethink what isnt love in to maybe similarities and chemistry you might be confusing to be love.

I see i didnt explain myself clear enough.. I never said i wanted to date her as a 14 year old. I meant like could i wait till she gets older. >.<

 

[Blinkie Uchiha]

it's only a 5 year difference. when your 23 and she's 18 it'll be more appropriate until then I'm afraid society doesn't like it :/ my advice is keep looking.

 

[Joker]

It ain't weird, man. I'm 19 and I date 14 year olds all the time.

Challenge her at Naruto Storm 3. If you win, she has to kiss you, if she wins, you'll go streaking in the street in daylight. Then just f**kin' destroy her.

If she liked the kiss, then you guys are set.

If she didn't, then your friendship is ruined and she'll never talk to you again.

It would still be considered pedophilia this you yourself are considered an adult.

 

[Corgi]

It would still be considered pedophilia this you yourself are considered an adult.

Nah man, it's consensual. Besides, what the police don't know don't get you in trouble. Feel me?

 

[Shichi]

Who the hell cares? If it's love, it's love -_-

Whatever you think is right, before this match would be good but just modern society thoughts that messed it up. Go for it dude.

It ain't love if you only see her once a year and only for a month.

 

[Joker]

Nah man, it's consensual. Besides, what the police don't know don't get you in trouble. Feel me?

I understand where you're coming from, even if it is consensual i'm pretty sure it can still be considered pedophilia.

 

[Deleted member 87095]

You say that you only see her 1 time in a year, thats a little creepy. I think you should drop her off.
But to be honest and real, if youre that desperate, then you should wait til she gets 17+ and then start dating her. When both girl and boy are mature, then you dont see the age difference anymore, it just matter when youre teenager. I find it wierd with your situation, but everybody and their means yo kno.

If your so desperate, then date her when she get matured, if youre not desperate, then drop her