i need advice

[Haven]

dont u got pearents to ask questions like this not a bunch of strangers on the internet

well actually i do have parents. Asking advice from people is normal and helpful, i may not know them but i can tell that majoriy of the people on the site are good people. if you dont like the thread then gtfo.

 

[KSM]

dw ask all u need brova

 

[Rei]

yeah i shouldve put that sorry, im 16, im a sophmore. Idk why but highschool has been great but i cant seem to get a girlfriend... a girl actaully asked me to freshman prom last year and i was so happy but when we went to the dance she asked me to get drinks and when i came back she was dancing with another guy and i was left alone the whole night with the drinks. And after that the begging of sophmore year the girlfriend i had was cheating on me and i got her flowers on our 6 month anniversery and she said "where am i supposed to put these" and she threw them on the ground... but we broke up 7 months ago and i cant get a girlfriend

Stop trying too hard, things should come naturally. There are no patterns or plan of actions that work each time, be yourself and the right person will show up sooner or later.
And, a word of a woman's advice...do not get flowers to your gf for your 6th month anniversary. Never again.

 

[Scary Yamato]

Stop trying too hard, things should come naturally. There are no patterns or plan of actions that work each time, be yourself and the right person will show up sooner or later.
And, a word of a woman's advice...do not get flowers to your gf for your 6th month anniversary. Never again.

seriously? No flowers? weird...

Rei's right. If it's right, it's right. If it's wrong, you will know it. It sounds like you are a nice guy who just eneded up with the wrong girls.

 

[Master of The Dark Hadou]

yeah i shouldve put that sorry, im 16, im a sophmore. Idk why but highschool has been great but i cant seem to get a girlfriend... a girl actaully asked me to freshman prom last year and i was so happy but when we went to the dance she asked me to get drinks and when i came back she was dancing with another guy and i was left alone the whole night with the drinks. And after that the begging of sophmore year the girlfriend i had was cheating on me and i got her flowers on our 6 month anniversery and she said "where am i supposed to put these" and she threw them on the ground... but we broke up 7 months ago and i cant get a girlfriend

Ouch!!! Dern!!! That's rough, dude!

If you really want a girlfriend, I have some really good advice that will help you in life & perhaps with this gal trouble (It might take a while, you'll have to be patient):

First, like was previously stated be yourself- you don't want to attract any girl who isn't that much interested in you for you. (Just a waste of time).

Next, be kind....(Take this one if you want it) Being kind might be taken as a sign of weakness by the foolish idiot, but the smart girl will see it for what it really is and respect you for it. (and hopefully you don't want to attract any dum gal.)

Next, if you have alot of immature public tendencies (cut them down abit, Girls don't like a lot of immaturity -- I get deeper into that psychology later)

Next, Make yourself marketable, clean, & fresh -- Dress dencently, keep yourself clean, smelling nice, looking good.

Then the most important, the life advice, & finally the most cliche thing:

GET YOUR BOOKS!!! BE SMART!!! BE INTELLIGENT!!! SUCCEED IN SCHOOL!:

I will now explain why,

Women, have providential need to be taken care of. When women look at guys that ask themselves the question can this guy protect me, and can he provide for me? This is why some girls go after the bad, mean guys.....First cause they feel like this is a guy who could protect me, (if some harsh situation comes along).....and second, because girls like to look at those guys like projects that they can work on... and make better, turn into that good guy.

Now back to the books, get your books because like stated Women want to be provided for. Now don't No Women (And I am pretty sure any girl will attest to this) want a stupid, good for nothing guy. When your smart you have options in the job market as well as life because you know things not every average Joe does. And in order to be successful you have to be a smart.

If a girl asked an intelligent guy, what he wanted to be when he got older And he said something like, "I want to be an Electrical Engineer"(Just throwing out a successful profession). A blinker goes off in the back of the girls mind that goes like O.O . "Maybe I should look more into what's his face, he gonna be successful and would have enought to be able to take care of me." (Girls probably don't think like that verbatum)

Being able to provide and sustain are the natural by products of success... That's why it's of important to get your books. Also the intelligent factor helps because, it makes you more distinguished, and different because not everybody is smart because it's not that easy to acheive.

You don't have to show off your intelligence because it'll show itself off. Like when you talk speak proudly, & with intelligence , and that is attractive. Our when you take a test....You don't have to show off your grade, but if someone ask you can politely tell them.....And if your A+ to B making ratio is high enough...eventually that will show...And word will spread.....

That's just my advice, take it if you want..... It might take a while but eventually the results will show.

 

[Anduril]

thanks guys. it sucks big time. i try not to seem desprate i know thats a big turn off for girls.

A piece of advice ...
Stop looking for a girlfriend just be cool go on chatting to girls an all like usual but dont be hasty to have another gF
Just relax for a while..........
and when u look back u will have a line of girls ready to go wherever u want

 

[-Yard-]

Ouch!!! Dern!!! That's rough, dude!

If you really want a girlfriend, I have some really good advice that will help you in life & perhaps with this gal trouble (It might take a while, you'll have to be patient):

First, like was previously stated be yourself- you don't want to attract any girl who isn't that much interested in you for you. (Just a waste of time).

Next, be kind....(Take this one if you want it) Being kind might be taken as a sign of weakness by the foolish idiot, but the smart girl will see it for what it really is and respect you for it. (and hopefully you don't want to attract any dum gal.)

Next, if you have alot of immature public tendencies (cut them down abit, Girls don't like a lot of immaturity -- I get deeper into that psychology later)

Next, Make yourself marketable, clean, & fresh -- Dress dencently, keep yourself clean, smelling nice, looking good.

Then the most important, the life advice, & finally the most cliche thing:

GET YOUR BOOKS!!! BE SMART!!! BE INTELLIGENT!!! SUCCEED IN SCHOOL!:

I will now explain why,

Women, have providential need to be taken care of. When women look at guys that ask themselves the question can this guy protect me, and can he provide for me? This is why some girls go after the bad, mean guys.....First cause they feel like this is a guy who could protect me, (if some harsh situation comes along).....and second, because girls like to look at those guys like projects that they can work on... and make better, turn into that good guy.

Now back to the books, get your books because like stated Women want to be provided for. Now don't No Women (And I am pretty sure any girl will attest to this) want a stupid, good for nothing guy. When your smart you have options in the job market as well as life because you know things not every average Joe does. And in order to be successful you have to be a smart.

If a girl asked an intelligent guy, what he wanted to be when he got older And he said something like, "I want to be an Electrical Engineer"(Just throwing out a successful profession). A blinker goes off in the back of the girls mind that goes like O.O . "Maybe I should look more into what's his face, he gonna be successful and would have enought to be able to take care of me." (Girls probably don't think like that verbatum)

Being able to provide and sustain are the natural by products of success... That's why it's of important to get your books. Also the intelligent factor helps because, it makes you more distinguished, and different because not everybody is smart because it's not that easy to acheive.

You don't have to show off your intelligence because it'll show itself off. Like when you talk speak proudly, & with intelligence , and that is attractive. Our when you take a test....You don't have to show off your grade, but if someone ask you can politely tell them.....And if your A+ to B making ratio is high enough...eventually that will show...And word will spread.....

That's just my advice, take it if you want..... It might take a while but eventually the results will show.

tldr

 

[Scary Yamato]

Ouch!!! Dern!!! That's rough, dude!

If you really want a girlfriend, I have some really good advice that will help you in life & perhaps with this gal trouble (It might take a while, you'll have to be patient):

First, like was previously stated be yourself- you don't want to attract any girl who isn't that much interested in you for you. (Just a waste of time).

Next, be kind....(Take this one if you want it) Being kind might be taken as a sign of weakness by the foolish idiot, but the smart girl will see it for what it really is and respect you for it. (and hopefully you don't want to attract any dum gal.)

Next, if you have alot of immature public tendencies (cut them down abit, Girls don't like a lot of immaturity -- I get deeper into that psychology later)

Next, Make yourself marketable, clean, & fresh -- Dress dencently, keep yourself clean, smelling nice, looking good.

Then the most important, the life advice, & finally the most cliche thing:

GET YOUR BOOKS!!! BE SMART!!! BE INTELLIGENT!!! SUCCEED IN SCHOOL!:

I will now explain why,

Women, have providential need to be taken care of. When women look at guys that ask themselves the question can this guy protect me, and can he provide for me? This is why some girls go after the bad, mean guys.....First cause they feel like this is a guy who could protect me, (if some harsh situation comes along).....and second, because girls like to look at those guys like projects that they can work on... and make better, turn into that good guy.

Now back to the books, get your books because like stated Women want to be provided for. Now don't No Women (And I am pretty sure any girl will attest to this) want a stupid, good for nothing guy. When your smart you have options in the job market as well as life because you know things not every average Joe does. And in order to be successful you have to be a smart.

If a girl asked an intelligent guy, what he wanted to be when he got older And he said something like, "I want to be an Electrical Engineer"(Just throwing out a successful profession). A blinker goes off in the back of the girls mind that goes like O.O . "Maybe I should look more into what's his face, he gonna be successful and would have enought to be able to take care of me." (Girls probably don't think like that verbatum)

Being able to provide and sustain are the natural by products of success... That's why it's of important to get your books. Also the intelligent factor helps because, it makes you more distinguished, and different because not everybody is smart because it's not that easy to acheive.

You don't have to show off your intelligence because it'll show itself off. Like when you talk speak proudly, & with intelligence , and that is attractive. Our when you take a test....You don't have to show off your grade, but if someone ask you can politely tell them.....And if your A+ to B making ratio is high enough...eventually that will show...And word will spread.....

That's just my advice, take it if you want..... It might take a while but eventually the results will show.

Thats good advice. Women do like to be taken care of and provided for. Even the most independant woman likes to take the back seat every now wand then and let you take the reigns.

My experience in highschool showed me that in the first 2 years, the girls are interested in status, and will go for the cool/popular kids. After being with those jokers for a while, they will start to look at the good guys who they can actually be happy with. Just be yourself, handle your business, but also remember to socialize. If people don't know you they won't know you are available. You dont have to flirt constantly or spit game at every girl you see, just speak the way you normally would with your buddies. Read the girl's feedback and if she seems interested sprinkle in some game.

 

[Rei]

seriously? No flowers? weird...

Rei's right. If it's right, it's right. If it's wrong, you will know it. It sounds like you are a nice guy who just eneded up with the wrong girls.

I am all for flowers really, but I don't think they are the right gift for every occasion. Most girls I know would want something more on their 6th month anniversary.
My ex gave me for my birthday 300 roses 3 years ago...no matter how much I loved the gift (I truly did), after 4 days his present was 'dead'.

 

[Scary Yamato]

I am all for flowers really, but I don't think they are the right gift for every occasion. Most girls I know would want something more on their 6th month anniversary.
My ex gave me for my birthday 300 roses 3 years ago...no matter how much I loved the gift (I truly did), after 4 days his present was 'dead'.

thats true. 6 months does warrant something on a "grander" scale. but still flowers are a good way to accompany that gift. I nromally like to give something that will last along with a perishable like flowers or candy.

I found that the "just because/ no reason" flowers normally provoke a positive rsponse.

 

[Kushan]

yeah i shouldve put that sorry, im 16, im a sophmore. Idk why but highschool has been great but i cant seem to get a girlfriend... a girl actaully asked me to freshman prom last year and i was so happy but when we went to the dance she asked me to get drinks and when i came back she was dancing with another guy and i was left alone the whole night with the drinks. And after that the begging of sophmore year the girlfriend i had was cheating on me and i got her flowers on our 6 month anniversery and she said "where am i supposed to put these" and she threw them on the ground... but we broke up 7 months ago and i cant get a girlfriend

Dude....I know it looks like the end of the world right now, but trust me things will sort themselves out, just be yourself and a word of advice from personal experience; girls seem to fall for guys who doesn't "want them" or actively chase them.

There's no set recipe on how to get a girl, and in most cases a little bit of confidence goes a long way, alter how you present yourself, for example when you enter a room have a smile on your face, dress smart and according to occasion, walk up tall etc

I am all for flowers really, but I don't think they are the right gift for every occasion. Most girls I know would want something more on their 6th month anniversary.
My ex gave me for my birthday 300 roses 3 years ago...no matter how much I loved the gift (I truly did), after 4 days his present was 'dead'.

I had to read the thread that brought Rei out to play

 

[Passion]

Stop trying too hard, things should come naturally. There are no patterns or plan of actions that work each time, be yourself and the right person will show up sooner or later.
And, a word of a woman's advice...do not get flowers to your gf for your 6th month anniversary. Never again.

^ This really works.

I tried with a girl a year ago, got rejected. I waited a year, did nothing and now I'm stuck with a girl that cannot stay away from me.

All thanks to Rei.

 

[Jokey]

^ This really works.

I tried with a girl a year ago, got rejected. I waited a year, did nothing and now I'm stuck with a girl that cannot stay away from me.

All thanks to Rei.

Since you've told it to me on Msn, i've just couldn't stop loling at that.

Seriously was it just like BOOM.

 

[Passion]

Since you've told it to me on Msn, i've just couldn't stop loling at that.

Seriously was it just like BOOM.

It came when you least expected it. It's scary how fast it happened

 

[Scary Yamato]

^ This really works.

I tried with a girl a year ago, got rejected. I waited a year, did nothing and now I'm stuck with a girl that cannot stay away from me.

All thanks to Rei.

It seriously does work. throughout highschool, I just did my thing and later found out that a ton of girl had the hots for me. My girl told me there are girls that wont talk to her anymore because she "took me off the market". We ran into one of those girls later and it was hilarious because she was all nice and polite to me and totally snubbed my girl. I laughed my ass off.

 

[Passion]

It seriously does work. throughout highschool, I just did my thing and later found out that a ton of girl had the hots for me. My girl told me there are girls that wont talk to her anymore because she "took me off the market". We ran into one of those girls later and it was hilarious because she was all nice and polite to me and totally snubbed my girl. I laughed my ass off.

Awesome. I just find it so hard and tiresome for a first-timer guy to have serious talk with her.

Yes, I am the not-so-social guy with few words. I never talk of myself without someone asking something about me

 

[Scary Yamato]

Awesome. I just find it so hard and tiresome for a first-timer guy to have serious talk with her.

Yes, I am the not-so-social guy with few words. I never talk of myself without someone asking something about me

You have the quiet cool ^_^

 

[uhmightuh]

Personally, I think girls are attracted to the guys who don't necessarily try too hard but they try enough. A guy who carries himself well, as well as talks to a girl in a respectful manner. No girl likes to be disrespected. If you show you're sensitive in caring but not in the "I'd have to take care of him" way it can actually be pretty sexy. "Confidence is the best accessory." Embrace girls with common interests. Good luck!

 

[Mugiwara]

Is it just me that get all the crazy chicks that are all like "I want to have your babies, lets get married"?

Rei, remember the girl you told me to stay away from? I've been avoiding her for the past 8 months now