First off i wanna throw it out there, that starting a thread about how to get girls isn't really in any way shape or form *desperate*. However its kind of odd you would come to a naruto forum to get girl advice LMAO, thats to hilarious. Now onto the topic, If your looking for a girlfriend, that's something that will just have to happen bro honestly, you can persue and persue but you dont want to go so far out of your way to make something happen because then its not real and only a negative out come will come out *in high school anyway*. Now as for lust bro, theres SO many girls out there and so many different types, it doesn't matter if your the fattest ugliest person on the planet theres someone out there who will like something about you... Have you heard of a word called swag?? most people believe it to be a myth but i assure you my friend it is VERY real. maybe you should try it?? 'no disrespect idk how you dress'. Now idk if you approach girls that you think are pretty or what, but theres certain ways you have to approach and talk to different girls and it really all depends because it varies from female to female. And as someone stated earlier, befriend girls, preferably pretty girls... but just make it clear its only a friendship... One thing thats better then a wingman, are winggirls, girls and guys like to flirt, but on most cases a girl feels more comfortable on a chill level with another girl, and if a girl sits there and preaches good things about you saying *oh yeah hes really cool, hes a good guy* or whatever, that automatically means they're going to be just that much more comfortable around you. It all depends on you tho, your sense of humor, confidence, intelligence, common sense and being able to read a situation and a person. I know its a paragraph but it took 10 minutes out of my time to pass some advice out to a young man with lady problems, hope it helps!