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Ouch, that must hurt. I also had one who cheated on me or recently, met one of my-ex the other day with her new boyfriend (she was very friendly though
)...That party thingy that you had was really rough thoughI decided to concentrate on my studies though. I'm no more dating since some time till High school finishes. I'm 17 and I suggest that you concentrate on you hobbies, studies and enjoys with your friends. Believe me, girls will keep coming but school's life should be enjoyed at its max with your friends as you won't met most of them surely in the later. Anyways, Dating at Highschool leads to not very good school results as well...
With the high unemployment, better have good results
Don't worry, if a girl flirts with you, just ignore her a bit and keep friendly with her. If she truly likes you, she'll come more often towards you and surely won't cheat on you. More will come, believe me. Take me as example, I'm no desperate to find a girl. I'm no more in them in the mood (to say it like that
) to impress them. I'm very friendly and if they want to come with me, then I'm fully open to them whether as friend or boyfriend.Believe me, remaining without girlfriend hurts more than being rejected...
I agree! If a girl don't like you and you'll be over-freindly or over-protective, you'll hurt yourself and your chances.
I learned that and I think you should also do that.
Kagome is right.
I'm also young but I've agree on this part also...I said the same thing back when I was a freshman. Now im a senior who wishes I still had my freshman problems instead of these. Enjoy your sophmore and junior years while you still can! Trust me man
Ouch, that must hurt. I also had one who cheated on me or recently, met one of my-ex the other day with her new boyfriend (she was very friendly though
I decided to concentrate on my studies though. I'm no more dating since some time till High school finishes. I'm 17 and I suggest that you concentrate on you hobbies, studies and enjoys with your friends. Believe me, girls will keep coming but school's life should be enjoyed at its max with your friends as you won't met most of them surely in the later. Anyways, Dating at Highschool leads to not very good school results as well...
With the high unemployment, better have good results
Don't worry, if a girl flirts with you, just ignore her a bit and keep friendly with her. If she truly likes you, she'll come more often towards you and surely won't cheat on you. More will come, believe me. Take me as example, I'm no desperate to find a girl. I'm no more in them in the mood (to say it like that
Believe me, remaining without girlfriend hurts more than being rejected...
I agree! If a girl don't like you and you'll be over-freindly or over-protective, you'll hurt yourself and your chances.
I learned that and I think you should also do that.
Kagome is right.
I'm also young but I've agree on this part also...
yeah i really have to pay attention to my studies. as soon as im graduated i need to get accepted to a good college, and your right being with my friends and doing my hobbies is whats really important.
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Darthlawsuit
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Instead of looking for a girlfriend you could just become friends with some girls. Girls have friends and become friends with those friends. More females you know the better a chance you have. Don't go at it aggressively unless you know exactly what you want. Just be passive about it and eventually stuff will happen.
Also figure out if you want a LONG term relationship or just someone for the moment. The two are very different and if your looking long term and the candidate is looking short term there may be some problems.
Or... You could do what my friend did.... He was dating 15 girls a semester by doing the shotgun method (the more women you ask out the higher chance one will say yes). After about 7 semesters of going through girlfriends every week he eventually hit one that stayed with him.
Also converting to the dark side of the force is very helpful. Being able to "pursuade" women comes in handy.
Also figure out if you want a LONG term relationship or just someone for the moment. The two are very different and if your looking long term and the candidate is looking short term there may be some problems.
Or... You could do what my friend did.... He was dating 15 girls a semester by doing the shotgun method (the more women you ask out the higher chance one will say yes). After about 7 semesters of going through girlfriends every week he eventually hit one that stayed with him.
Also converting to the dark side of the force is very helpful. Being able to "pursuade" women comes in handy.
LuckyBastard
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Ok here is what I do all the time and I get the ladies ^_^ I always just act normal, Usualy have a toothpick in my mouth, and put my hands in my pocket and start walking. I honestly didn't think that would work when I was little but it does xd . I also act all funny which helps me out too. So best adv ice is to be yourself, act normal, don't try hard to get a gf, and lastly just wait for someone to actually like you themselves. From what have read bout you so far it seems you hav had a hard time. let all the pressure go, enjoy your life, my cousin didn't care bout girls in highschool, now he's in college and he has everyone following him. ^_^
haha wow really? the old tootpick trick, never thought that would work. Yeah if i always try to get a girl who doesnt like me for me then ill never be happy. and thats what i really want. I'll just not care
thank you
Its mean something not everything. Mostly personality and character. If your not ugly then theres no problem being confidence ^^lol no its okay, he was probobly just joking, but i know im not an ugly guy