I need advice. T_T

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So, I've been talking to this girl for about 9 months.
We dated back when we first started talking but it didn't really work out and she dumped me.
But she would still message me every now and then saying hey and checking up on me.
Around January we got more intense but then we got in to a HUGE fight because I was playing a game with one of her ex's. Who was also my friend. And she said she hates me, I was pathetic, etc. After that I went to a behavioral hospital because I tried to kill myself. (No, it wasn't over her. I didn't elaborate because that wasn't the point of this thread.) I was there for 12 days and when I got out she messaged me all worried and stuff. That was two months ago and we've been talking sense. She said she never stopped liking me after she left me which is why she kept messaging me. But recently she said that she loves me. But if I even mention the idea of us dating she gets freaked out. I mean we talk all the time and she says she loves me so what's the big deal? She also said that she doesn't want me talking to other girls like at all because she gets jealous. But when I brought up the face that she talks to a lot of guys she said "I think we need to keep our options available." To which I replied "If you really do love me then you wouldn't even look at other guys as 'options'." She wouldn't elaborate further. A little bit ago I showed her a Millhouse quote: "Milhouse: You don't want me to be with you, you don't want me to be with someone else. How miserable do I have to be before you're happy?"
She got mad and started reading.
What do you think I should do???

Note: I know it is dumb to ask for this type of advice here but I figured it would be unbiased so I could get honest opinions.
 
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You tried to kill yourself over her? Man, we don't need these ***s!
 

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so basically she wants you on a leash like some dog while she flicks her pretty little hair and talks to however many boys she wants? obsessive, and hypocritical. it aint worth it bruh.
 

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wow... I'm not sure if you're making this up...
 

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Some women smh.

Walk away brah
 

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You tried to kill yourself over her? Man, we don't need these ***s!
Not because of her, I didn't elaborate because it wasn't about that.
so basically she wants you on a leash like some dog while she flicks her pretty little hair and talks to however many boys she wants? obsessive, and hypocritical. it aint worth it bruh.
I think you're right. :(
wow... I'm not sure if you're making this up...
Why would I type all that if it was made up? xD
 

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Leave her. Honestly, if she really loves you her actions should prove it, not her words.

I mean, maybe she just msged you..as a back up for when she needed someone.. girls can be *****es sometimes.. lol
 

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Not because of her, I didn't elaborate because it wasn't about that.

I think you're right. :(

Why would I type all that if it was made up? xD
Forget her, tell her you're done with her BS. Keep your pimp hand strong if she begs you, then piss on her couch and walk out.
 

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Find someone to date (if possible), not her. And don't talk to her and if you do just make sure it's nothing about dating/relationship stuff, especially since you were trying to kill yourself.
 

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The sorrowful part about how you almost killed yourself is funny,but the thing is she loves you but don't trust you surprise her one day with a gift or something special.
 
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In my opinion don't have anything to do with her. She doesn't know what love is and it sounds like she's playing games. Tell her you don't have time for childish crap. Also, don't try to kill yourself, for ANY reason, it's stupid.
 

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Just leave her ass. Simple.

No offense but she don't love you. Not to mention she seems kinda crazy. But then again..I don't think any kids from this generation know what love is. They just throw it around..
 

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You have a really serious problem there .

Just move on .
 

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Leave her. Honestly, if she really loves you her actions should prove it, not her words.

I mean, maybe she just msged you..as a back up for when she needed someone.. girls can be *****es sometimes.. lol
Good point. I think that is what it is.
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Thank you kindly.
Forget her, tell her you're done with her BS. Keep your pimp hand strong if she begs you, then piss on her couch and walk out.

Find someone to date (if possible), not her. And don't talk to her and if you do just make sure it's nothing about dating/relationship stuff, especially since you were trying to kill yourself.
Alright, I will try if you think it will help.

The sorrowful part about how you almost killed yourself is funny,but the thing is she loves you but don't trust you surprise her one day with a gift or something special.
Okay, thanks.
In my opinion don't have anything to do with her. She doesn't know what love is and it sounds like she's playing games. Tell her you don't have time for childish crap. Also, don't try to kill yourself, for ANY reason, it's stupid.

I didn't really like talking to people at the time so I didn't have a way to vent and it kinda built up I guess.
But I go to therapist and stuff again so I don't think that way anymore. At least not to that extent.
 

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Talk to another girl without her knowing and then date her.
 

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Hah, you are lucky, at least she was worried about you after your suicide. My ex didnt give a shiet when I tried to kill myself over her Lol ( I spent not 12 days but 2 months at psychiatry -_-)
 

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Hah, you are lucky, at least she was worried about you after your suicide. My ex didnt give a shiet when I tried to kill myself over her Lol ( I spent not 12 days but 2 months at psychiatry -_-)

You really did try to kill yourself for a girl ?

Holy crap , people nowdays .
 
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