Rasens Lackey
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So, I've been talking to this girl for about 9 months.
We dated back when we first started talking but it didn't really work out and she dumped me.
But she would still message me every now and then saying hey and checking up on me.
Around January we got more intense but then we got in to a HUGE fight because I was playing a game with one of her ex's. Who was also my friend. And she said she hates me, I was pathetic, etc. After that I went to a behavioral hospital because I tried to kill myself. (No, it wasn't over her. I didn't elaborate because that wasn't the point of this thread.) I was there for 12 days and when I got out she messaged me all worried and stuff. That was two months ago and we've been talking sense. She said she never stopped liking me after she left me which is why she kept messaging me. But recently she said that she loves me. But if I even mention the idea of us dating she gets freaked out. I mean we talk all the time and she says she loves me so what's the big deal? She also said that she doesn't want me talking to other girls like at all because she gets jealous. But when I brought up the face that she talks to a lot of guys she said "I think we need to keep our options available." To which I replied "If you really do love me then you wouldn't even look at other guys as 'options'." She wouldn't elaborate further. A little bit ago I showed her a Millhouse quote: "Milhouse: You don't want me to be with you, you don't want me to be with someone else. How miserable do I have to be before you're happy?"
She got mad and started reading.
What do you think I should do???
Note: I know it is dumb to ask for this type of advice here but I figured it would be unbiased so I could get honest opinions.
We dated back when we first started talking but it didn't really work out and she dumped me.
But she would still message me every now and then saying hey and checking up on me.
Around January we got more intense but then we got in to a HUGE fight because I was playing a game with one of her ex's. Who was also my friend. And she said she hates me, I was pathetic, etc. After that I went to a behavioral hospital because I tried to kill myself. (No, it wasn't over her. I didn't elaborate because that wasn't the point of this thread.) I was there for 12 days and when I got out she messaged me all worried and stuff. That was two months ago and we've been talking sense. She said she never stopped liking me after she left me which is why she kept messaging me. But recently she said that she loves me. But if I even mention the idea of us dating she gets freaked out. I mean we talk all the time and she says she loves me so what's the big deal? She also said that she doesn't want me talking to other girls like at all because she gets jealous. But when I brought up the face that she talks to a lot of guys she said "I think we need to keep our options available." To which I replied "If you really do love me then you wouldn't even look at other guys as 'options'." She wouldn't elaborate further. A little bit ago I showed her a Millhouse quote: "Milhouse: You don't want me to be with you, you don't want me to be with someone else. How miserable do I have to be before you're happy?"
She got mad and started reading.
What do you think I should do???
Note: I know it is dumb to ask for this type of advice here but I figured it would be unbiased so I could get honest opinions.
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