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Poor little thing. :(
Worrying about mind-blowing stuff in this young age.

I tell you what,11 year olds,love strictly platonically
Platonic love is a chaste and strong type of love that is non-sexual.
So,as long as you stay on that,you can always ask her out,her knowing your feelings to her,makes it 9/10 easier. :D
 

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Ok,there's this girl in my school and she's really cool,whenever I see her,I can't stop staring at her,she's so pretty,I have been liking her for about two years and we have a pretty messed up relationship,she knows I like her but I wanna get over her.............U_U :| :cool:
From the way you have worded that above quote i.e. bits in bold.....do you talk to her...I mean have conversations and stuff or do you just see her and gawk at her from a distance...O.O cause that might be your problem....

our relationship is twisted,I can't approach her,she hates me.............
Right so you CAN'T approach her.....lets see you see her you think shes amazing.....you STARE at her....you say you have a MESSED UP relationship.....


Uchiha Riyo by any chance are you following/stalking this girl and the reason you "can't approach her" is that she has a restraining order????

she says I'm annoying which is true but now I'm trying to be emo.......I'm cool
Right WAIT you want to get over her....but your trying to be emo to what....impress her...win her back.....repel her more??? Make up your mind.

And also the bit in bold these 2 words should never be in the same sentence.

Don't worry about girls just yet. Give it another year or two.
What he said.

DO worry about stalking/following/harrassing girls at a young age...early signs of a future serial killer there.....

Calm it down Riyo....calm it down.... lol :rolleyes:
 

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I know a smart move!! pull down your shorts in front of her to impress her =D
CRAP TENDO!!!

This one's indeed a funny thread!!!

But can't laugh over emotions, right? You see, do the things you want to do BUT be mindful and take responsibilities of your actions. You may even feel now like - Wow! This is true love! - sure, go ahead and think of it that way but then again BMATR - be mindful and take responsibilities.
Check on her friends and try to see what kind of person she is. Girls like to feel they are important to you. However, if she's as old as you or even younger, well if she doesn't like you then, woe on you. Girls and boys your age tend to stick hard to what you like or what you don't. So, why not put your emotions into something else and excel on it - who knows, you might even catch her attention. And if by that time, you still feel the same towards then, hola! its your gain. :)
 

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Ok,there's this girl in my school and she's really cool,whenever I see her,I can't stop staring at her,she's so pretty,I have been liking her for about two years and we have a pretty messed up relationship,she knows I like her but I wanna get over her.............U_U :| :cool:
Don't worry about girls just yet. Give it another year or two.
Hey Riyo, Gama is right you are still young to think about the ladies, now this doesn't me how you feel about is fake or not important, what it means is that you should have more important things in life right now for example studies and books.

And if you think girls look pretty now wait till you get a bit older they look even prettier, who cares what she thinks (the truth of the fact is I don't think she's mature enough to understand what love is) and you don't have to be emo to be cool.

Oh Tendo, be nice to the kid, remember how you felt when you were his age, and not everyone's gifted with the ladies like you :p
 

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@The shikimaru dude-No,what I mean is that I can't approach her is because I'm nervous,sure I know where she lives(not exact place,her friends told me,don't think I asked though)but I don't stalk her............
 

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dude! try not to talk to her, she will be curious, and then she will slowly look for you

BTW when is the last time you talked to her?

if it's almost a yr. forget about what i said....



can you play the guitar? if you can. NICE, she'll think your cool, just don't play EMO songs. girls hate it...
 

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Lol your 11 years old, my advice : lay down the groundwork, be her friend but don't try anything for about a year or so. Then that's when you get with her, that's if she has no boyfriend and you are sTill good friends. Those relationships last longer, and you will now what's she is like and stuff.
 

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ok dude,
try to listen to me on this one...
here is how to do it,
Delete
Delete. Forget. Format. Erase. Basically, get her out of your head and out of your memory. If you know that the relationship breakup is for good, then there is absolutely no point in spending hours on end crying over spilt milk. Sure, you will feel miserable in the first few hours following the breakup (or the day after), and in most cases, you will continue to feel that way for some time at least. But after a certain point, it is time to move on. There is no other way out.
Dispose
Dispose off all the stuff that you have that reminds you of her. It could be some of her possessions, things that she may have gifted you, letters, poems, photographs, anything. Pack all these things in a big carton and stow it away in the attic. On the contrary, if you were in a really meaningful long-term relationship, and she either dumped you or cheated on you, then I wouldn't exactly be averse to the idea of you throwing that 'carton of memories' in the garbage container, or shredding it to pieces, or for that matter, even torching it!

Distract
In spite of all your physical efforts of erasing your relationship memories by getting rid of the physical evidence (in the form of photos, letters, gifts, etc.) there will definitely be a lot of emotional baggage that needs to be taken care of. The best way to do so, is by distracting yourself from her and all your past relationship memories. Delving into the past and dreaming about 'what ifs', etc. is not going to help matters whatsoever. All of that is now part of your past. Getting stuck in past memories will only cause you more hurt, and will make it all the more difficult to get over the girl.

Discover
This is probably one of the best ways to get over a girl. Discover yourself. It is time to reinvent yourself and move on in life. Engage yourself in some interesting activity. Take up your favorite hobby. Take a break from routine life and head out with a group of friends to some faraway travel destination. A new place, with new surroundings, and new people, can help in keeping your mind away from painful memories of the past. It can create a somewhat favorable environment for your heart to heal, and for you to emerge out of this phase as a stronger individual, with a renewed zest for life. Read more on moving on after a break up.
 
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