I don't know what to do..

[Aomine]

I apologize if this thread is in the wrong section but i really have to tell someone..

Last year i lost 3 of my close friends and every single time i cried for at least 2-3 weeks.. Last year was hell for me.. Then yesterday i lost my beloved grandmother and i was so depressed and sad.. i turned off my phone and every electronic i had and just sat next to my bed for hours and even thought about suicide.. I really don't know what to do.. I spoke with some of my closest friends about it and all the good things they said that i needed to hear didn't help at all.. What do you do in this kind of situation? This time is worse then all the rest put together because i was at her house the day before it happened..

 

[Ricardo]

Hey, i'm very sorry for your loss. I wish you the best of luck.

Try to think of something else. When i have all this negativity in my mind i just turn on my PC and play a game or watch a movie or something entertaining just to forget all these negative things. Just move on. People come, people go.

 

[The Pervy Sage]

I apologize if this thread is in the wrong section but i really have to tell someone..

Last year i lost 3 of my close friends and every single time i cried for at least 2-3 weeks.. Last year was hell for me.. Then yesterday i lost my beloved grandmother and i was so depressed and sad.. i turned off my phone and every electronic i had and just sat next to my bed for hours and even thought about suicide.. I really don't know what to do.. I spoke with some of my closest friends about it and all the good things they said that i needed to hear didn't help at all.. What do you do in this kind of situation? This time is worse then all the rest put together because i was at her house the day before it happened..

Death is a Natural part of life, everything that begins must end. But there is more to it that that with us humans. In this situation, Suicide is the worst thing you can do, i mean you say you have other close friends, you know how it feels to lose close friends, would you really want to put them through that?

But the way to get through hard times is to think what those you lost would want, your grandmother wouldn't want to have died knowing you'd been so upset and thinking like this, she'd die wanting you to be happy and live a full and exciting life. It's never right for you to lose those close to you and a young age and don't get me wrong i've lost a few family and friends, most recently my Uncle to cancer, but that happens, it's a harsh was to put it, but it's what happens in life.

My advice to you, is get out their and make them proud, enjoy life, of course you should mourn, it would be wrong not to, but don't waste your life in sadness, live it to the fullest, keep those you care about close, and treat every like it was your last

Drop me a PM if you ever want to chat. ^_^

 

[Deadlift]

Well, this describes my situation for the first 13 years of my life
I didn't well understand if you wanna gain some friends or rebuild the conacts with those you've lost.

In the first case, you have to stick in your head that you gotta be freaking positive, nice and empowered with a winner personality. Act that way with everyone you talk with. Believe me, it helps at the unbelievable.

In the second case, still act the way I described above, but you will have to do the first step in order to prove them your intentions are sincere. Apologize for everything you can have done wrong, 'cause pride is not helpful at all in this situation. But still you don't have to go servile or a crybaby, it's up to you to find the way to accomplish the both of the things.

EDIT: Didn't read OP properly.
Death is a natural part of life, and everyone has to deal with it. It's so sad, but ask yourself this: what do you think your beloved grandmother would like you to do in such a situation? To give up and surrender, or to stand up and face your life?

Condolences anyway

 

[Aomine]

Hey, i'm very sorry for your loss. I wish you the best of luck.

Try to think of something else. When i have all this negativity in my mind i just turn on my PC and play a game or watch a movie or something entertaining just to forget all these negative things. Just move on. People come, people go.

You know what? I think i'm gonna do that right away!

 

[Rohan]

Your life is not just your own, it consists of you, those who are here and those who are gone. The proof of this? Well if they are not a part of your life then why do you fell sad? Why do you fell despair? It's because a part of them lives on within you. It's not just spiritually, it's also physical as your grandmother's blood flows in on your viens.

Do not get consumed by sorrow and despair and think of suicide. Remember, by killing yourself you are also killing those who are a part of you and are gone.

So for your own sake and for thier sake, live your life to the fullest. Live in such a way that your friends can experience the life they never were able to experience through you.

Edit : Sucide is just an escape from your sorrow and it by nature is Selfish. Be Selfless and live for other's sake. And you will be forever happy.

 

[YellowFang]

Sorry for your loss, it's sad but imminent, you can't just escape this reality... Make a goal for your life and dive head-on in achieving it...

 

[Pukkake Pokayo]

Jesus Christ. That's horrible. Don't think of suicide anyway or you'll just inflict all of your pain on multiple people. You can't distract yourself forever. You just have to keep meeting new people and remember the old ones. Makes me feel lucky and appreciate how I haven't lost any of my friends.

Best of luck anyway. You'll never fully get over it ofc and their anniversaries will always be hard. Just try to surround yourself with other friends and positivity. It isn't just your loss. You've done well so far through so much.

 

[Claymantan]

Losing a loved one can be a traumatic experience, especially if you were going through a hard time already. Even if everyone has to deal with loss at some point, you need to take care of yourself because not everyone experiences it the same way, and you need to treat your feelings as legitimate. So don't shy away from talking about what you're going through with people close to you.

If your feelings are still paralyzing you after some time, it might be a good idea to seek professional help. No one just asks for suicidal thoughts, they just kind of happen (so don't do anything like guilting yourself for being "selfish" or whatever). Doesn't have to be a therapist; it can be your school's guidance counselor, an HR rep at your workplace, or you could mention it to your regular doctor. It's the same as seeing a doctor for any kind of illness, and it can just be a short-term or even one-time thing.

Just make sure you're doing whatever you need to do to feel comfortable and secure as you're going through this, whether that's playing a game to get your mind off of it like Magatsukami said, talking about your pain with people, or even some days where you might just have to take the L and be down. Personal projects and setting goals, like getting more exercise, writing, getting better at art, making schedules, etc. can help as well. Some people also might find comfort in reading the experiences of other people who are or who have experienced loss.

There are bad times and there are good times, the thing to do is to hold out for when things are good again and take the bad times as they come.

 

[Alice in Noodleland]

You need some professional advice. There's nothing wrong with that.
Or you need to go somewhere else and find the innerpeace you needed.

 

[123fire]

What about your mom and dad?

 

[Donald J Trump]

When I'm sad I like shoot dogs, umm, I like kick cats, chase fox with stick and sometimes even cook some pigeons. Very nice.

 

[Lyke]

Gotta accept it. My uncle and grandfather died on the same day a few weeks ago, there is nothing to do about it.

 

[Excālibur1]

Suicide is not an option at all costs. It may seem easy to you that will be rid of sorrow and other sad things but believe me, you will hurt a lot of other people you know. People who love you will face the same pain you are facing now if you suicide. Try and think about the positive side of life, you still got a long life to live. Do things like play games or something to get your mind of it. Just try and get over it.

The best way to get rid of stress is to talk with other people face to face, visit new and beautiful places and some meditation, listen to music you love, watch funny videos on YouTube, it might bring some peace to your mind.

 

[Legendary Saiyan]

Sorry for your loss. Suicide won't help at all. Just be strong and be optimistic. Help out relatives that also grieve if they are grieving of course.

 

[Prince Allah]

Wow.. Sorry for your loses, man, my advice is, just cry, man, let all your feelings out, holding up all that grief inside won't do you good, and please, don't go for suicide, that never solves anything, all you have to do now is live, live and continue to live.

 

[demon of the leaf]

I apologize if this thread is in the wrong section but i really have to tell someone..

Last year i lost 3 of my close friends and every single time i cried for at least 2-3 weeks.. Last year was hell for me.. Then yesterday i lost my beloved grandmother and i was so depressed and sad.. i turned off my phone and every electronic i had and just sat next to my bed for hours and even thought about suicide.. I really don't know what to do.. I spoke with some of my closest friends about it and all the good things they said that i needed to hear didn't help at all.. What do you do in this kind of situation? This time is worse then all the rest put together because i was at her house the day before it happened..

Bud we all lose people to death i lost my best friend on a drowning accident and a couple others lost 5 of my grand parents who were very dear in my heart nearly lost my sister to a suicide attempt. You need to not give up put your head up high and live each and everyday for them in their memory because giving up on life would dishonor them and also remember there is always a light at the end of the tunnel always a way to find hope while such memorys are numbing and painful remember the happy times and work your hardest toward a good future that will make your friends and grandparent smile with pride if you need an ear i will lend mine and help any way i can

 

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[Wabbit]

It is time for you to contemplate about life.
Stay away from drugs for a while they make you think suicide logical sometimes in these kind of situations.