How to reject a girl?

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How do I reject this girl? Okay.. so she is so obsessed with me, that it's creepy. She stares at me from afar when we're not in class and if we're in the same vicinity. In class, she turns around to stare at me every once in a while. That's just what she's been doing for the past two months. Now, yesterday I saw her and I went to the restroom to do my hair before class. I was in there for about 5 minutes. I then came out of the restroom, and she was still there waiting on me. Then she said something like "You have to go to class now.It's almost time for class." She seemed demanding as if it's her business if I go to class or not. Anyway, I said "I'll see you in class." Then I went the other way so I won't have to walk with her. How do I deal with this? I'm kind of afraid of this person. Her obsession for me is like Sakura's obsession for Sasuke, but 100x worse.
 

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I don't know...if she hasn't actually said anything about being interested I wouldn't try to "let her down" Even though I agree it seems like she is obsessed with you, it still makes you look kind of arrogant. Personally I'd just continue to avoid her as much as possible and when she does something to make you uncomfortable, let her know firmly. Otherwise sounds like the type of chick to keep doing it.
 

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Dude relax. Just be flattered that she finds you attractive and if she tries to make a move be polite when you turn her down. You gotta learn to be more classy
 

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A) fake your own Death

B) lure her into confort and stab her with Chidori. If it goes wrong refer to point A

C) Brutally mutilate yourself só she does not find you attractive anymore. Also refer to point A so you can become an urban legend.
 
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You can try putting a 9mm handgun between her eyes and removing the safety. I'm sure there's no mistaking the message that gets across, or at least it worked for those missionaries that won't ever be coming near me again.

Alternatively, you can politely explain to her that you're not interested, and don't post a dumb thread with an obvious solution while you're at it.
 

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How do I reject this girl? Okay.. so she is so obsessed with me, that it's creepy. She stares at me from afar when we're not in class and if we're in the same vicinity. In class, she turns around to stare at me every once in a while. That's just what she's been doing for the past two months. Now, yesterday I saw her and I went to the restroom to do my hair before class. I was in there for about 5 minutes. I then came out of the restroom, and she was still there waiting on me. Then she said something like "You have to go to class now.It's almost time for class." She seemed demanding as if it's her business if I go to class or not. Anyway, I said "I'll see you in class." Then I went the other way so I won't have to walk with her. How do I deal with this? I'm kind of afraid of this person. Her obsession for me is like Sakura's obsession for Sasuke, but 100x worse.
She haven't made any advances, get your head out of your ass.
You're not special, this is all probably your delusions.
 
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Just tell her you were never interested in her so that she would stop stalking you. You gotta get over the problem pretty quickly bud because there are worser relationship problems that will occur if you don't face the problem where it should be faced.
 

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Dude relax. Just be flattered that she finds you attractive and if she tries to make a move be polite when you turn her down. You gotta learn to be more classy
This^^

When you turn her down (if you end up doing that) be nice about it.

btw are you sure you don't have anything for her, some repressed love or something, sounds like it to me
 
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