[Discussion] How to not miss someone

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My real life Kira will be away for a while and we have no means to communicate.
I'm a quite sensitive person when it comes to those things, so I never know how to handle them.
What's the best piece of advice you can get me?
 

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Kira?

Well anyway, if you miss this person you might try writing to them everyday, you may not be able to send the letters but you can give them to that person when you do see them again. This may help alleviate the feeling of isolation from them.

Write notes of things you want to tell them, conversations you want to start with them.

And ignore the trolls, they seems to have had too much sugar tonight
 
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Well, you can't really stop missing someone. Try sending letters, or messages if possible. If you really cannot reach that person, try doing things to distract yourself from it. The more you concentrate on it, the more you'll miss them. It isn't a bad thing to miss someone, it means that you care and want their company, but it does hurt to have someone close leave even temporarily. I hope I've helped, even if just a little.
 

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well its easy,just lett me know your real life name and the person you miss.I guarantee ,both of you will be in the same place :rolleyes:
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My real life Kira will be away for a while and we have no means to communicate.
I'm a quite sensitive person when it comes to those things, so I never know how to handle them.
What's the best piece of advice you can get me?

first of all, ignore the insecure douchebags who judge people out of their own insecurities..aka the orange hokage...

second of all, you must love your self before you can truly love another, if you do not love your self, you can not be content with nothing, if you rely on anything, human or object, for happiness, that happiness has the ability to be taken away, when it is taken away you will feel as you say, missing someone, you need to be able to be happy on your own, so that you can love more fully, because if you can be content on your own, you will not worry about the pain that can be caused from your happiness leaving, there fore you will be able to love others greater.
 
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Found other things to keep you mind off that person or find new people to hang out with (and not saying to be their friend and compare them to Kira).
 

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first of all, ignore the insecure douchebags who judge people out of their own insecurities..aka the orange hokage...

second of all, you must love your self before you can truly love another, if you do not love your self, you can not be content with nothing, if you rely on anything, human or object, for happiness, that happiness has the ability to be taken away, when it is taken away you will feel as you say, missing someone, you need to be able to be happy on your own, so that you can love more fully, because if you can be content on your own, you will not worry about the pain that can be caused from your happiness leaving, there fore you will be able to love others greater.
If you watched death note. You would've gotten that reference....
 

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There is only one way to keep in contact between 2 humans
put your message in a bottle and release into the sea or ocean.
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Try and keep yourself distracted with other activities, and try to shut him out of your mind. Best and most simple advice I can give.
 
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By saying he's your Kira, do you mean to say that it's only a one-sided relationship?

Anywho, plenty of fish in the water. You're young, break-ups happen, who cares and enjoy life. Get a couple of shots in and you're good.
 

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I know this is not the best advice you can get, but when I know that a person is leaving, I distance myself from them, and convince myself that I don't like the person. That way, when they disappear from my life, I don't care anymore.
 

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do not worry i am there for you...Lol
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By saying he's your Kira, do you mean to say that it's only a one-sided relationship?

Anywho, plenty of fish in the water. You're young, break-ups happen, who cares and enjoy life. Get a couple of shots in and you're good.

lol I just realized those are Noble Knights in you avy/sig.

OT: Texting maybe? o_O
 

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Try not to think about him but it's difficult. I can't say anything tbh.
 
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