How to Friend Zone

[kimb]

write her name in the death note
should do the trick

That's always an alternative, I got my man Yagami Light on speed dial, I'm sure he wouldn't mind doing me this one favor. (jk)

You can only blame yourself I don't see this ending very well

You're right about that. I honestly should have been up front in the first place.

First of all, two things:

1.

Not the smartest move from you, some people tend to take such things the wrong way. And the way you described the situation and the things she wrote you afterwards, she is either very immature or very crazy. Like "she'd love you forever and she'll always be your one and only."

2.

Your guy friends are stupid *******s.
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So, how could you solve this? If I were in your situation, I'd be honest. Just tell her that you didn't mean that "I love u 2" the way she probably took it and that you don't have romantic interest in her. But be polite while doing so. Don't know if a "normal" friendship would work afterwards, that's depending on her and how she deals with this situation.

Just don't use her or lie to her.

This helps a lot, and yeah, my guy friends are stupid *******s, but they're my stupid *******s =D

Give her Minamoto's number so she could fall for his sexiness.

10/10 advice, you should do this professionally. lol

Hahaha he last time that happened to me I was chatting with some random girls on the train and when I had to get off one of them asked my number. I wasn't interested but pretended to be, gave my number and later on just said; "Sorry, I didn't want to bring it to you in front of your friends but I have a gf". Always works if they don't know you personally.

I remember trying to do that with a co-worker while I was still talking to my gf, and didn't end well. I ended up having to cut off my co-worker cause because she was trying to get involved in my life outside of work, but I didn't want my gf to know. She ended up finding out anyway and I lost my gf and the co-worker. This was a long time ago, and I regret the whole situation. Lesson learned: Don't cheat.


Thanks to everyone who dropped a response, it really helped me process the situation and gave me confidence to face my friend... well, most of it did. Some of yall just sound like horny teenagers, lmao. Thanks for making me laugh tho.

 

[minamoto]

Hahaha he last time that happened to me I was chatting with some random girls on the train and when I had to get off one of them asked my number. I wasn't interested but pretended to be, gave my number and later on just said; "Sorry, I didn't want to bring it to you in front of your friends but I have a gf". Always works if they don't know you personally.

Dude plz can u change ur sig cuz it's ruining teh flow of my thoughts.....

 

[~Ethereal~]

write her name in the death note
should do the trick

Bahaha, HARSH!!! OT: You're going to get a generic "say I don't love you and be friends", I think you should create some distance and when you're ready you should do what you feel is right.

 

[Yami Silver]

I'm stressing out over this situation and I don't know what to do. I've tried asking my friends, but they're all giving me bad advice. To start from the beginning me and this girl met back in high school and we've known each other for 3 years. I knew her because me and her brother were like close friends, but we became cool and started texting each other sometime early this year.

We used to text each other every once in a while and the convos were pretty basic, but she eventually started texting me everyday. I'd invite her to go out with my group of friends and I'd run into her on campus since we go to the same uni. Everything was cool, but then one day we were texting each other on snapchat and out of nowhere she told me that she loved me. I was surprised at first, but then I started thinking maybe she meant it in like friendly way, or not in a serious way, so I responded with a quick "i love u 2', but with poop emoji's. I meant it in a joking way and I didn't make things awkward by leaving her hanging. I switched the subject and I thought everything was cool, but then she started getting serious with me again and she told me that she'd love me forever and she'll always be my one and only. This was 3 days ago and I haven't texted her back since.

Now I'm stressing out because I don't know what to do. She clearly knows I haven't texted her because of what she sent me, and I can't keep ignoring her text cause I'm going to end up seeing her on campus on Monday which is going to be MAD AWKWARD! My guy friends tell me that I should just smash, but I can't take advantage of her like that. My girl friends tell me I should ask her out, but I'm not interested in her. I don't know how to tell her that I'm not interested without crushing her heart, cause I still want to stay friends. Wtf should I do??

Friendzone her. Literally go up to her and tell her you want to be her friend and no more. Nobody can look down on you for that. Your guy friends sound like pricks and your girl friends sound like drama loving *****es. Do what you think is best. She might understand and you might make good friends. Worst case scenario she flips out and cries of embarrassment. If that does happens it's not your fault and she's being a drama queen. Just do you.

 

[YowYan]

Dude plz can u change ur sig cuz it's ruining teh flow of my thoughts.....

Hehehe trippy and thought provoking, isn't it. That's the kind of response that would make keep This sig xd

 

[Darth AniCetuS]

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