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How could you find your father? I've never known him, but I'm a junior and he was illegal from El Salvador. Is there anyway I could locate him or anything like that
 

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yeah, go to google and search for him.
 

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Step 1: Become white rapper
Step 2: Rap about whatever you want
Step 3: Become famous because of talent and flipping false accusations back on the haters
Step 4: Dad will write you letters, ignore them all
Step 5: Drug abuse, almost OD, relapse, almost OD
Step 6: ????
Step 7: Profit

OT: Are there any records whatsoever of your father? Can you get a name from your mother or anything? If you can get a name, I think maybe City Hall or the magic of Internet search even can help.
 

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If he's hiding why contact him? Surely if he wanted to be seen he'd stay in contact with your Mom, I wouldn't be bothered with him to be honest.
 

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yeah, go to google and search for him.

5000030405840358409358 steps ahead of ya. Thanks for the response although it wasn't useful.

Step 1: Become white rapper
Step 2: Rap about whatever you want
Step 3: Become famous because of talent and flipping false accusations back on the haters
Step 4: Dad will write you letters, ignore them all
Step 5: Drug abuse, almost OD, relapse, almost OD
Step 6: ????
Step 7: Profit

OT: Are there any records whatsoever of your father? Can you get a name from your mother or anything? If you can get a name, I think maybe City Hall or the magic of Internet search even can help.

Try typing in Juan Figueroa on the internet and see how many people come up. That's how difficult it is.
 

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You know NB isn't going to help you know. ...........
 

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If he's hiding why contact him? Surely if he wanted to be seen he'd stay in contact with your Mom, I wouldn't be bothered with him to be honest.

It'd be nice to see what he looks like. He tried to but my mom wasn't having it.
 

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Try a locating spell or something LOL

If you really want to find him, get the information from your mom, i bet she knows quite some things about him, then begin your trip in search of him.
 

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It'd be nice to see what he looks like. He tried to but my mom wasn't having it.
Then be up front with your mom and ask for answers, either she denied your father access to you because she doesn't want you to get hurt, or there's some resentment. She should respect your wishes and atleast send you a picture.
 

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5000030405840358409358 steps ahead of ya. Thanks for the response although it wasn't useful.



Try typing in Juan Figueroa on the internet and see how many people come up. That's how difficult it is.

Hmm you said he's an illegal. Do you know of any potential documents or records that may exist pertaining to him? Employment history, residence. etc? When your mom wasn't having it, was there any attempt at contact by him? If so, that could potentially be used.
 

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Then be up front with your mom and ask for answers, either she denied your father access to you because she doesn't want you to get hurt, or there's some resentment. She should respect your wishes and atleast send you a picture.

For sure.
 

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Hmm you said he's an illegal. Do you know of any potential documents or records that may exist pertaining to him? Employment history, residence. etc? When your mom wasn't having it, was there any attempt at contact by him? If so, that could potentially be used.

Yeah I feel you on that shit, but my mom is a closed book on it. She gets pissed if I ever bring the subject up. So it's a solo deal on my part.
 

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Yeah I feel you on that shit, but my mom is a closed book on it. She gets pissed if I ever bring the subject up. So it's a solo deal on my part.

What about other family members? Any known relatives on your dad's side that you can get in contact with or relatives of your mom that's willing to help?
 

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What about other family members? Any known relatives on your dad's side that you can get in contact with or relatives of your mom that's willing to help?

Nah don't know shit.

My grandma is the only one and she didn't have much info.
 

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Nah don't know shit.

My grandma is the only one and she didn't have much info.

****, you really are stuck fam. I hate to say it, but as far as I know how to advise, meeting this man might be a long shot.
 

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to accurately help you we need to know all that you know about him like his hometown, his name, everything your mom and other family members know about him etc.

I mean it sounds like you don't have much to go on but just chase down every possible lead you can possibly think of and keep chasing bro. Good luck to you, if you find more information then do some more threads or message some of us, including me, personally for help if we can.
 
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Why don't you just go travel around the world and look for him? I'm not being sarcastic by the way. I'm serious.
 
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