How do u deal with death?
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Scary Yamato
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it's tough man, trust me. Try not to mourne the fact that they are gone, but be happy that you had the time that you did with them. That's what helps me.
Despite what people say, you never truly get over it, you just learn how to handle it. It's okay and even normal to feel sad and angry. its part of grieving.
Despite what people say, you never truly get over it, you just learn how to handle it. It's okay and even normal to feel sad and angry. its part of grieving.
I had someone close die, it was hard. I just felt very sad. There was many problems just before death but I feel glad I actually got to know this person. I keep memories. I just feel a bit happy to talk about this.
Death?I assume that you don't know what death means if you haven't experienced one,and especially a death from a member of your family.
"Death is the beggining and not the end",at least this is what Socrates used to say,and I agree with him.
Did you know that in some of the Third World countries in Africa,peaple are happy when someone dies,because they thing tha the real life begins after death.
It is hard for us to accept death,not for the deads.
DON'T WORRY,DON'T EVEN GRIEF!
My grandmom died and after 5 days my uncle was killed.My uncle,the one that died was in ED. for 5 months,and after my grandmom was hospitalised they were in the same room.Irony,eh?
I am 16 years old.I had my birthday at 12 of January.I have a friend that he had in 13 of January.
It was 31 of December,some minutes before the year change,and we were eating in my house with my family.Suddently the phone rang.His moher was dead.The funeral was the following day,on 1 of January.It was his wrost birthday.
I know what death means.I have to say even more for friends and for me.
It is natural to cry,but don't.Just don't.Personally I didn't cry when all that happened with my grandmom and stuff.Iwas just staring walls and as throwing rocks in some random cats xD
Anyway.I said what I wanted to say.
I couldn't say it any better.
But crying and being sad all the time doesen't help. As said, it's hard and nothing wrong to show your respects by tears. But it's more important to me, to remember the good times and just go on and cherish those memories and stop being depressed and sad all the time.. And theres nothing wrong to wipe those tears and give the person gone, a big smile
Ofc sometimes it's good to drop a tear or two but myself, I can't remember the last time I've cried. I cry inside, if you may.I've lost alot of close friends in numerous ways and I've learned how to handle it.
Music helps and taking a deep breath and picturing your friends smiling. Thinking about the loss makes it worse. Atleast for me.
That's just life and it's really important that you start to realize the immortality of yourself aswell others. I mean, people die all the time all around the world. Why do we get sad only when someone close to us leaves? Shouldn't we share the same respect to others that lose their lives, even though we don't know them but don't they deserve it aswell?
That's what life is and we just have to go with it
Death Is Only The Beginning.
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My father died a long time ago. I didn't handle it well. I had too much time to be self destructive. I was aimless, I was angry, and I was isolated. I ended up making mistakes that I'm still paying for now.
My best advice to those who are grieving is this. Surround yourself with the people who love you and share your grief. Realize that you are not alone, and everybody feels your pain. Talk about it. Be honest and open. Keep yourself busy and act as if you're making your loved one proud. The best way to keep them at heart is to do good and achieve their hopes for you.
My best advice to those who are grieving is this. Surround yourself with the people who love you and share your grief. Realize that you are not alone, and everybody feels your pain. Talk about it. Be honest and open. Keep yourself busy and act as if you're making your loved one proud. The best way to keep them at heart is to do good and achieve their hopes for you.
noisemagician
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I am sorry but i disagree
griefing is healty and nessesary!
And death is the end, thats why you have too celabrait his/her life!
It gonna be a hard and painfull procces..,
But you will learn to deal with it!
Good luck with it !
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Mephistopheles
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Several people who were close to me died, one was killed by a car accident, one by a heart attack, one of cancer, one committed suicide. I handled it quite well, but since half of them happened when I only was 13 (two years ago) I cried a lot. To be honest, I'm still not completely over the 2 of the 4 deaths. I only was glad for the one that committed suicide that her sorrow was finally over, and the one with cancer that the pain and struggle were over.
When someone close to you dies it is never a happy happening. Under some circumstances you should be glad for the deceased one that they don't have to be in pain or sorrow. But life goes on, no one can live forever.
When someone close to you dies it is never a happy happening. Under some circumstances you should be glad for the deceased one that they don't have to be in pain or sorrow. But life goes on, no one can live forever.
kanesannin
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Death is an inevitable part of each of our lives, asking how to deal with it is like asking how to deal with the sun, or with the air(bad examples i know)....all im trying to say is you have to accept it and move on. When you lose someone close to you( m talking from firsthand experience) its like the whole world has stopped or come to a standstill, time slowly heals the pain of their loss but as somebody above pointed out you cherish the memories you shared with that person for the rest of your life.
As there's life there's death and this is the truth of life, when someone close to us passes away, as SY and so many others have said, people never get over the death but they learn to live and cope with it, grief and the sadness you feel due to the death is self pity, knowing the fact that this person you're so close to is not going to be there in your life sharing the happiness and the memories of days to come. There are many formulas to the solve this problem and to each their own is true, but my personal experience and view is that you hold their memory and remember all the good things you shared with them when they were alive, live your life achieving your full potential so that the life you have is not at a loss.
The person who has passed away has moved on, there's no life left the body decays and end of the day the only thing that remains are memories, honour that and you honour the person; remember some people die young some people die old it's not important how long you live but how you lived, some people although they breath it's as if their dead, living empty pointless lives and sometimes it's wise versa.
The person who has passed away has moved on, there's no life left the body decays and end of the day the only thing that remains are memories, honour that and you honour the person; remember some people die young some people die old it's not important how long you live but how you lived, some people although they breath it's as if their dead, living empty pointless lives and sometimes it's wise versa.
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1- Express your sadness in all ways possible.
2- Increase your daily fapping rate.
3- In case your sadness isn't gone yet, talk to people.
4- Live.
5- Decrease your daily fapping rate.
2- Increase your daily fapping rate.
3- In case your sadness isn't gone yet, talk to people.
4- Live.
5- Decrease your daily fapping rate.
To deal with it?!I want to die!
I am not an emo or a depressed person,I just want to die i order to gain "the after death fame" or how the Ancient Greek peaple used to say it:"υστεροφημία"
Trust me you cannot understand fully this world if you are not a Greek,and I don't want to be mean or nything,but you just can't.
I haven't cry for a death and I will not.Wht?Beucase even though I am not religious,I believe that life starts after your death.And in a very strange way,your after death life starts in the real world.
DeathPulse16
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I accept it and compose myself as much as possible. You'll never truly get over it but, you don't want the grief to take over your life either. To be honest, i believe everyone has their own way of dealing with death. It's a matter of finding the way that suits you best. Something that always helps though is to keep yourself busy, whether that's working or hanging out with people you get along with. In time things will get better. Just never forget that person or persons, be thankful for the time you had with them, the memories and the incredibly fun times.
TheOrangeSage
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I helped a suicidal girl for over a year, it was odd because , she was very attractive, got asked out a lot, but because of reasons she wanteded to die, so every.day I had.to help her, she came real close to dieing many times(some times I really thought she was and I almost ended it ), then she said.she loved me and we had a year long relationship of love and pain, she's still alive, but I have.been a major suicidal mess, currently I'm doing much better and am moving on helping others with suicide problems. My advice is to not dwell one the regrets and bad things that happened, but cherish the good moments you spent with them, so sorry for the long post
), then she said.she loved me and we had a year long relationship of love and pain, she's still alive, but I have.been a major suicidal mess, currently I'm doing much better and am moving on helping others with suicide problems. My advice is to not dwell one the regrets and bad things that happened, but cherish the good moments you spent with them, so sorry for the long post
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I keep good and bad memories of that person and move on wih my life. It wouldn't help to sit and cry for the rest of my life. I like to think they moved on to a better place. I guess it sounds a bit corny but its true.
