[Discussion] How do I stop caring?

[HENI]

How do I stop caring what people think about me? It seems like their opinions hold me back from my potent capabilities.

 

[SumnNarutoRelated]

1. Understand that the majority of people are plebs

2. Rejoice in the fact that you are not a pleb

3. Or lament the fact that through this experiment you have in fact, too learned that you are a pleb

4. Embrace your plebeian nature or shed yourself of it

5. Ascension or Descension occurs thereafter

 

[Reraru]

Idk tbh..

 

[The Amazing Spider Man]

Ignore everything and everyone and live life for yourself. Understand that the human race itself is stupid as hell and 80% of the population are hypocritical @ssholes. Love yourself fam. The world is yours.


P.S. Be a good person and good shall come to you in return is what I believe.

 

[Wparker6804]

How do I stop caring what people think about me? It seems like their opinions hold me back from my potent capabilities.

Split it into 4 things:
1) If they're right & it's positive, good (show gratitude for those who acknowledge you)
2) If they're right & it's bad, fix it (set pride & anger aside to make yourself a better person for the sake of others & yourself)
3) If they're wrong & it's good be honorable & state the truth (honesty is the first step to seeing & embracing reality--which is something you might be having trouble with)
4) If they're wrong & it's bad then tell them the truth. If they don't listen then ignore them. (don't let the sins & foolishness of others tear you down)

If someone's wrong, knows that they're wrong, but continues to do so for their own comfort, preference & satisfaction that's their choice. But they're fools rejecting reality for how they like/want things to be--in this case, bringing you down. I've had problems with people doing this to me as long as I can remember. And it can be tough. But don't look at people like that with anger or humor--look at them with concern;otherwise you'll end up coaching yourself into anger & falling for their ruse.

The only thing that comes close to certainty in our future is the opportunity we have to make ourselves better than who we were the day before.

 

[The Work]

You do whatever you want.

Then if someone asks you why just tell them cause I want to and I don't care for your opinion.

And you will slowly start not caring.

But don't go killing people or whatever

 

[Bling Kai]

Peoples opinions are just that opinion. Not facts that hold any irrefutable and evidential meaning. People also generally really aren't important enough to hold thier opinions over your own.

Well that's the way I see things. I've never really valued the opinions of others over my own though I never really felt anybody else was all that important anyway.

 

[Reboryushon]

Do you want to be like them ? They are weak if they speak about you. Their weakness is your strength, unless you are an idiot or a teenager with behaviour issues, then what elders say to you might be right and you need to get your stuff together and mature from their tips.

 

[Dantee]

Smoke weed everyday

 

[The Amazing Spider Man]

Smoke weed everyday

Black ignorance.

 

[Joon]

You don't. You're going to always care. It's human nature. However, don't let them shape your life.

 

[Waltz]

Just by living, people hurt others without even realizing it. So as long as humanity exists, hate will also exist and when a man learns to love, he must also bear the risk of hatred. ​

 

[Fountain]

That's easy, stop caring

 

[Dantee]

Black ignorance.

How so?

 

[Mari Makinami]

Dunno, I never cared to begin with

 

[-immortal-]

Just by living, people hurt others without even realizing it. So as long as humanity exists, hate will also exist and when a man learns to love, he must also bear the risk of hatred. ​

I guess we did learn something about naruto

 

[Sheele]

I don't care at all lol.

 

[Akasha]

By starting to care about yourself and becoming slightly selfish.

edit; better to say, starting to love yourself

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

Make love with Kishi's picture.

 

[Donald J Trump]

Most of these people commenting don't understand. It's nbot as easy as they make it sound it to be.

I have 2 tips.

1.Be a little more selfish, all you get is your life,you were born and you will die. Now it's up to you to chase your dreams. You can waste it away caring about others opinions or you can enjoy it.

2. Look at a video called pale blue dot. It's only a few minutes long but its humbling.
Understand the size of the universe and compare that to our lives.Our worries. We were born in this possibly infinite bubble yet we worry about minor things compared to it.

Start and End. You fill in the middle yourself.