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LOOOL, that's hilarious BR00. xD
Man I wish I had a story like this. @_@
Man I wish I had a story like this. @_@
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only physically, not psychologically lol XD
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I never had experiences like this maybe because i had good ability to figure out a person's character or maybe because i don't stick around a girl for long although i have good friends who are girls . most of whole the latter i think . Those are some experiences you had bro . now i think you can figure out easily if those type of girls tries to come to your life again .
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Well...
I was into this relationship with this one guy, he never treated me right. He wanted to have ***, and I was like "No, lets wait". And, always got mad at me for like stupid reasons. He broke up with me and tried to give me to his cousin, cause his cousin was going to beat him up if he couldn't have me. So, I told him "Is this it?" and he was like "Yeah. Go be with my cousin". So I put the hammer on him and his cousin.
I was like "You know what? You don't deserve me and I don't deserve your BS. I have been good to you and made sure I was faithful as hell. But you know, Time to let you go. You treat me wrong and don't know how to treat me right. You are of no use to me. And to your cousin, he ain't my type and I'm not going to be passed around in your family like some *****"
Till this day, he wants me. But hey, If can't treat me right when you have me. You don't get a second chance.
Trying to get my number and hit me up.
Ever since then, I don't mess with guys my age and stuff. I like them older and mature.
I may be jail bait. But we can wait till I'm older.
We can just secretly fall in love as friends then realize "OMG I TOTALLY LOVE YOU!"
I was into this relationship with this one guy, he never treated me right. He wanted to have ***, and I was like "No, lets wait". And, always got mad at me for like stupid reasons. He broke up with me and tried to give me to his cousin, cause his cousin was going to beat him up if he couldn't have me. So, I told him "Is this it?" and he was like "Yeah. Go be with my cousin". So I put the hammer on him and his cousin.
I was like "You know what? You don't deserve me and I don't deserve your BS. I have been good to you and made sure I was faithful as hell. But you know, Time to let you go. You treat me wrong and don't know how to treat me right. You are of no use to me. And to your cousin, he ain't my type and I'm not going to be passed around in your family like some *****"
Till this day, he wants me. But hey, If can't treat me right when you have me. You don't get a second chance.
Trying to get my number and hit me up.
Ever since then, I don't mess with guys my age and stuff. I like them older and mature.
I may be jail bait. But we can wait till I'm older.
We can just secretly fall in love as friends then realize "OMG I TOTALLY LOVE YOU!"
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My favorite is the second one.
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Well...
I was into this relationship with this one guy, he never treated me right. He wanted to have ***, and I was like "No, lets wait". And, always got mad at me for like stupid reasons. He broke up with me and tried to give me to his cousin, cause his cousin was going to beat him up if he couldn't have me. So, I told him "Is this it?" and he was like "Yeah. Go be with my cousin". So I put the hammer on him and his cousin.
I was like "You know what? You don't deserve me and I don't deserve your BS. I have been good to you and made sure I was faithful as hell. But you know, Time to let you go. You treat me wrong and don't know how to treat me right. You are of no use to me. And to your cousin, he ain't my type and I'm not going to be passed around in your family like some *****"
Till this day, he wants me. But hey, If can't treat me right when you have me. You don't get a second chance.
Trying to get my number and hit me up.
Ever since then, I don't mess with guys my age and stuff. I like them older and mature.
I may be jail bait. But we can wait till I'm older.
We can just secretly fall in love as friends then realize "OMG I TOTALLY LOVE YOU!"
"Give you" to his cousin? Dafuq? That family sounds shallow as hell Lol
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Wow I can't believe I missed this thread.
You went through some crazy ish my friend. Wow..
You went through some crazy ish my friend. Wow..
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Well...
I was into this relationship with this one guy, he never treated me right. He wanted to have ***, and I was like "No, lets wait". And, always got mad at me for like stupid reasons. He broke up with me and tried to give me to his cousin, cause his cousin was going to beat him up if he couldn't have me. So, I told him "Is this it?" and he was like "Yeah. Go be with my cousin". So I put the hammer on him and his cousin.
I was like "You know what? You don't deserve me and I don't deserve your BS. I have been good to you and made sure I was faithful as hell. But you know, Time to let you go. You treat me wrong and don't know how to treat me right. You are of no use to me. And to your cousin, he ain't my type and I'm not going to be passed around in your family like some *****"
Till this day, he wants me. But hey, If can't treat me right when you have me. You don't get a second chance.
Trying to get my number and hit me up.
Ever since then, I don't mess with guys my age and stuff. I like them older and mature.
I may be jail bait. But we can wait till I'm older.
We can just secretly fall in love as friends then realize "OMG I TOTALLY LOVE YOU!"
Guy or girl @_@
Not that it matters ;l
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damn, i laugh so hard at the first two stories. Honestly mate, let me tell you something about woman in general (no offense to any ladies here who isn't like this).
1. Woman lie, and they will base everything on their feelings, basically the masters of deceptions.
In the story when you describe that your first girlfriend would never leave a person unless she is with another or will be with someone else, that's is a true fact. A woman can leave you and base everything on their feelings making you feel like your doing something wrong, but in reality, they are talking to someone else and you my friend just became played for a fool.
2. Anytime you see a woman on face book posting relationship crap, which i am sure majority of you guys have seen, they are seeking attention and this is where they become easy targets for other dudes out there to slide in, get what they want and leave, see what i am saying? When it comes to attention and woman, any outside influence can bring problems with your relationship.
3. What most woman don't realize and the same can be said for men too, everything in a relationship will become repetitive. If the two cannot reconcile like two adults by talking and stop involving everyone else in their business the relationship is doom to fail. Every single relationship starts out with a butterfly, and every single relationship get's to a point where things become boring and dry...So for me when i see people constantly leave relationship after relationship it comes off to me as dumb because your going to end up with the same destination. It's what you do when you get there, defines the entire relationship.
4. What women don't seem to understand about men, and i am sure i am going to offend a lot of women here if i haven't done so already. If you have a man chasing you to be with you when all the odds are against both, do not take that for granted, because it's easy to say "I Love you" what's not easy and very rare, is for a man to actually go out there way and show you that they care for you emotionally without being flowered with gifts. Because 1, the gift's will stop coming when the relationship gets to a point which i've explained above and 2, without a man being emotionally involve with you the relationship is doom to fail, because he can easily go out and fine new Vagina-->Facebook<---main attraction these days.
Look man i understand what you feel, we've all been there, but from what you wrote i gotta say you gotta stop letting these woman have such a hold for guilting you in to doing things, because from what I've learn in my life and from other people relationship, the one who loves(cares) more always gets hurt.
women, for the love of god, don't be such an idiot and post drama or relationship quotes all over facebook.
1. No one cares.
2. Yes you have problems, welcome to the rest of the world. (there is kid starving in Africa, i don't see them coming on facebook posting, when's my next meal?
3. There are some guys out there who will take advantage of the situation, listen to your sad stories, slide there way in, Have *** with you, leave......Don't make yourself such a obviously target.(when you don't do this, you really show you have low self esteem.
Again OP, if you fine a girl that actually drama free which is rare in the 21th century, a girl that actually sit's down and talk to you, that understands you, share the same common views and life goals, then you go the distances for that girl, and you Fight for each other like your life depends on it.(As for the girl you dump in the park, i like that you told her face to face how you felt, but next time understand that breaking up is not a easy talks, to you leaving might seem like the best thing for you, but to her she just lost something she loves and adore and connects with. Like i said woman are emotional creatures, and i understood how she felt, but maybe the rape thing she did was too extreme?
As for myself, I've been in many relationships in my life, out of all of them i only had one serious one. That person i loved just a little too much, especially when they didn't deserve it after i thought about it rationally. What i can say is that my eyes have open up completely and now i see relationships for what they really is, just a big mess to filed the void in your heart of loneliness. As for being in Love it's as much as blessing as it is a curse, there is no greater pain (aside from childbirth) than a broken heart, feeling betrayed. People say time heal all wounds but that is just a misconception created by the public to fuel their denials. It never heals no matter how much you tell yourself, It's like have guilt in a way. The best thing a person can do which i've been doing is focus on your life, achieve success in your life, so you feel a sense of accomplishments. And always remember, what you do and how you treat people has a way of coming back to you...
Like i said, I've only completely been in love once in my life and that's because that girl was the first i ever let in my heart. I've grown up around woman, and I've always been told, woman will turn you in to a idiot if you show your caring side. 1. i didn't listen, i let this one girl in, loved her so much that i put my entire life on hold for her, without ruling out the possibilities that this girl would not be in love with me forever or some better looking guy would come along and i would lose this girl, or worst "drama" well, i Lost her to stupidity, and honestly looking back i now know she didn't deserve my love and affection, especially the things i was put through. When our relationship got to a bad place and i try to fix it even through i wasn't in the wrong, i felt like i was going mad, i thought to myself how can i love this person so much that does these childish to me, someone that didn't even respected me emotionally and physically. But you know what' it was good that this happen to me, I've learn, my walls are up and will remain up, i refuse to feel that pain again. (being hurt can make a person do some stupid shit, when you look back you ask your self wtf was you smoking) This is why i handle my next relationship is this way, my words " Look i am in to you and obviously you are in to me. we are in this relationship together, if you have a problem with me I don't expect to hear about it from your friends and pairs because it's between you and I, not 4,6 other people....I am with you not them. I will listen to the problem and try to compromise the best way i can, so we can work. And the biggest rule I have is, neither one of us go to bed upset at each other, i don't care how long it takes for us to be on the same page, i will respect your emotional opinions as you will do mine. When we talk about our problems, there shouldn't be any insulting each other, and if we have a child together, we will not involve that child in to our problems. If we cannot agree on those therms before the relationship goes further then deuces.
1. Woman lie, and they will base everything on their feelings, basically the masters of deceptions.
In the story when you describe that your first girlfriend would never leave a person unless she is with another or will be with someone else, that's is a true fact. A woman can leave you and base everything on their feelings making you feel like your doing something wrong, but in reality, they are talking to someone else and you my friend just became played for a fool.
2. Anytime you see a woman on face book posting relationship crap, which i am sure majority of you guys have seen, they are seeking attention and this is where they become easy targets for other dudes out there to slide in, get what they want and leave, see what i am saying? When it comes to attention and woman, any outside influence can bring problems with your relationship.
3. What most woman don't realize and the same can be said for men too, everything in a relationship will become repetitive. If the two cannot reconcile like two adults by talking and stop involving everyone else in their business the relationship is doom to fail. Every single relationship starts out with a butterfly, and every single relationship get's to a point where things become boring and dry...So for me when i see people constantly leave relationship after relationship it comes off to me as dumb because your going to end up with the same destination. It's what you do when you get there, defines the entire relationship.
4. What women don't seem to understand about men, and i am sure i am going to offend a lot of women here if i haven't done so already. If you have a man chasing you to be with you when all the odds are against both, do not take that for granted, because it's easy to say "I Love you" what's not easy and very rare, is for a man to actually go out there way and show you that they care for you emotionally without being flowered with gifts. Because 1, the gift's will stop coming when the relationship gets to a point which i've explained above and 2, without a man being emotionally involve with you the relationship is doom to fail, because he can easily go out and fine new Vagina-->Facebook<---main attraction these days.
Look man i understand what you feel, we've all been there, but from what you wrote i gotta say you gotta stop letting these woman have such a hold for guilting you in to doing things, because from what I've learn in my life and from other people relationship, the one who loves(cares) more always gets hurt.
women, for the love of god, don't be such an idiot and post drama or relationship quotes all over facebook.
1. No one cares.
2. Yes you have problems, welcome to the rest of the world. (there is kid starving in Africa, i don't see them coming on facebook posting, when's my next meal?
3. There are some guys out there who will take advantage of the situation, listen to your sad stories, slide there way in, Have *** with you, leave......Don't make yourself such a obviously target.(when you don't do this, you really show you have low self esteem.
Again OP, if you fine a girl that actually drama free which is rare in the 21th century, a girl that actually sit's down and talk to you, that understands you, share the same common views and life goals, then you go the distances for that girl, and you Fight for each other like your life depends on it.(As for the girl you dump in the park, i like that you told her face to face how you felt, but next time understand that breaking up is not a easy talks, to you leaving might seem like the best thing for you, but to her she just lost something she loves and adore and connects with. Like i said woman are emotional creatures, and i understood how she felt, but maybe the rape thing she did was too extreme?
As for myself, I've been in many relationships in my life, out of all of them i only had one serious one. That person i loved just a little too much, especially when they didn't deserve it after i thought about it rationally. What i can say is that my eyes have open up completely and now i see relationships for what they really is, just a big mess to filed the void in your heart of loneliness. As for being in Love it's as much as blessing as it is a curse, there is no greater pain (aside from childbirth) than a broken heart, feeling betrayed. People say time heal all wounds but that is just a misconception created by the public to fuel their denials. It never heals no matter how much you tell yourself, It's like have guilt in a way. The best thing a person can do which i've been doing is focus on your life, achieve success in your life, so you feel a sense of accomplishments. And always remember, what you do and how you treat people has a way of coming back to you...
Like i said, I've only completely been in love once in my life and that's because that girl was the first i ever let in my heart. I've grown up around woman, and I've always been told, woman will turn you in to a idiot if you show your caring side. 1. i didn't listen, i let this one girl in, loved her so much that i put my entire life on hold for her, without ruling out the possibilities that this girl would not be in love with me forever or some better looking guy would come along and i would lose this girl, or worst "drama" well, i Lost her to stupidity, and honestly looking back i now know she didn't deserve my love and affection, especially the things i was put through. When our relationship got to a bad place and i try to fix it even through i wasn't in the wrong, i felt like i was going mad, i thought to myself how can i love this person so much that does these childish to me, someone that didn't even respected me emotionally and physically. But you know what' it was good that this happen to me, I've learn, my walls are up and will remain up, i refuse to feel that pain again. (being hurt can make a person do some stupid shit, when you look back you ask your self wtf was you smoking) This is why i handle my next relationship is this way, my words " Look i am in to you and obviously you are in to me. we are in this relationship together, if you have a problem with me I don't expect to hear about it from your friends and pairs because it's between you and I, not 4,6 other people....I am with you not them. I will listen to the problem and try to compromise the best way i can, so we can work. And the biggest rule I have is, neither one of us go to bed upset at each other, i don't care how long it takes for us to be on the same page, i will respect your emotional opinions as you will do mine. When we talk about our problems, there shouldn't be any insulting each other, and if we have a child together, we will not involve that child in to our problems. If we cannot agree on those therms before the relationship goes further then deuces.
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While I was in a horrible relationship I went looking for advice and seen this site that would help in life issues and explained facts of what was going on and here is there response. That was one crazy relationship and it was hard to bring myself to end it but I had to for my sake and my sons. We met a lot of crazy people along the way this is just the answer to my craziest relationship of all.
ELDER RESPONSE: Thanks for your letter. You ask, “Should I give him another chance?” Only you can decide the answer to that, but if it were me, I’d say, “I don’t think so.” Here’s why.
The issue of race in a relationship makes no difference to me. Except that you brought it up, it seems to make no difference to you. The only person to whom it seems to matter is your boyfriend . . . and then only when he wants something. From your letter it appears he brings it up when he wants to make you feel bad or guilty or wants to be viewed sympathetically in order to get his way. For someone who professes to want no racial comments and statements in a relationship it appears he introduces them when it suits his needs.
When that doesn’t work and you finally break up, he begs and is the caring man you hope to see all the time . . . until you take him back and then the relationship becomes the frustrating, unfulfilling one that caused you concern in the first place. You may be correct when you say, “I am being sucked back in.”
Accusing you of having no morals; telling you that you are spiteful and vindictive; ignoring you; asking how you can live with yourself if you toss him out; accusing you of racial issues when you are angry with him. If those things are part of a continuing pattern, even though he professes to love you, I have to wonder whether he is in love or if he is simply taking advantage of you and your hospitality. He has no job, you pay the bills and buy him what he needs, he lived with his mother before he moved in with you. Has he ever had a job? Does he have skills and training to become employed? Is he motivated to find work? Those are important questions as you think of a continued future with him.
You say you love this man. The heart is going to do what the heart is going to do, and if you love him, you love him. However, I also see a lot of rational thinking in your letter. You will have to decide which is more important. You ask, “Should I give him another chance?” People write to us for advice and even though you are the one who must make the decision, here is my advice.
After your time with him, if you give him another chance, I think you can conclude that eventually he will be verbally uncomplimentary to you. You may also be able to conclude that he will not be contributing to the financial situation for you, your son, or your home. You have given him “another chance” several times. It may be time for him to become independent, support himself, determine other ways to interact with women in order to be a part of a mutually satisfying relationship.
The only issue that concerns me a little is the stalking and harassment after you break up. If this is only an annoyance, you may have to put up with it until he gets the message that you are not welcoming him back, he gets tired of the annoying behavior and moves on. If it is something more than simply annoying, and if you are concerned about safely, I advise you to contact an attorney or your local law enforcement agency and alert them to your situation.
Lastly, my impressions of you are that you are a very caring and loving person. You deserve to be loved and respected in return for the love and care you have for others. You have a son and are a wonderful humanitarian role model for him. Is your boyfriend an equally good role model?
I’m not sure another chance will lead to any changes. For your son’s sake and for your sake in being able to find a man with whom to happily share your life, you might want to consider that it would be better for all three of you if you moved on.
Best Regards,
ELDER RESPONSE: Thanks for your letter. You ask, “Should I give him another chance?” Only you can decide the answer to that, but if it were me, I’d say, “I don’t think so.” Here’s why.
The issue of race in a relationship makes no difference to me. Except that you brought it up, it seems to make no difference to you. The only person to whom it seems to matter is your boyfriend . . . and then only when he wants something. From your letter it appears he brings it up when he wants to make you feel bad or guilty or wants to be viewed sympathetically in order to get his way. For someone who professes to want no racial comments and statements in a relationship it appears he introduces them when it suits his needs.
When that doesn’t work and you finally break up, he begs and is the caring man you hope to see all the time . . . until you take him back and then the relationship becomes the frustrating, unfulfilling one that caused you concern in the first place. You may be correct when you say, “I am being sucked back in.”
Accusing you of having no morals; telling you that you are spiteful and vindictive; ignoring you; asking how you can live with yourself if you toss him out; accusing you of racial issues when you are angry with him. If those things are part of a continuing pattern, even though he professes to love you, I have to wonder whether he is in love or if he is simply taking advantage of you and your hospitality. He has no job, you pay the bills and buy him what he needs, he lived with his mother before he moved in with you. Has he ever had a job? Does he have skills and training to become employed? Is he motivated to find work? Those are important questions as you think of a continued future with him.
You say you love this man. The heart is going to do what the heart is going to do, and if you love him, you love him. However, I also see a lot of rational thinking in your letter. You will have to decide which is more important. You ask, “Should I give him another chance?” People write to us for advice and even though you are the one who must make the decision, here is my advice.
After your time with him, if you give him another chance, I think you can conclude that eventually he will be verbally uncomplimentary to you. You may also be able to conclude that he will not be contributing to the financial situation for you, your son, or your home. You have given him “another chance” several times. It may be time for him to become independent, support himself, determine other ways to interact with women in order to be a part of a mutually satisfying relationship.
The only issue that concerns me a little is the stalking and harassment after you break up. If this is only an annoyance, you may have to put up with it until he gets the message that you are not welcoming him back, he gets tired of the annoying behavior and moves on. If it is something more than simply annoying, and if you are concerned about safely, I advise you to contact an attorney or your local law enforcement agency and alert them to your situation.
Lastly, my impressions of you are that you are a very caring and loving person. You deserve to be loved and respected in return for the love and care you have for others. You have a son and are a wonderful humanitarian role model for him. Is your boyfriend an equally good role model?
I’m not sure another chance will lead to any changes. For your son’s sake and for your sake in being able to find a man with whom to happily share your life, you might want to consider that it would be better for all three of you if you moved on.
Best Regards,
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OP
Keep your head up towards the clouds. As far as a good girlfriend goes, you will reap the harvest eventually. Keep at it.
Keep your head up towards the clouds. As far as a good girlfriend goes, you will reap the harvest eventually. Keep at it.
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apart from being shy of women yea im shy if u saw what i looked like u be suprised but other than that haven't dated much cause my older bro had quite a few gfs each 1 ending and him seeming miserable
my younger sis been through 2 relationships and on her 3rd and she is becoming hysterical
my mother has had terrible love life as well btw i have 5 siblings and guess what 3 are on my moms side and 2 on mys dads side my older bro that i know i have 2 havent really met the other he is in canada has 2 sisters on his dads side
my younger sis has 2 sisters and a bro on her dads side and my younger bro a child has 1 bro on his dads side so yea
that many half sibs bad relationships i'm pretty much advoing that @#@%^@#^@$%!@!@# and its drama and will
stick to the benefits stuff or hook ups
p.s. i have also personally witnessed a friend during 1 summer go through a bad break up and relationship with his gf and other stuff and he had other bad things happen to him and he was a wreck that also strengthend my resolve to stay out of the relationship stuff and futher my belief that love is indeed false
my younger sis been through 2 relationships and on her 3rd and she is becoming hysterical
my mother has had terrible love life as well btw i have 5 siblings and guess what 3 are on my moms side and 2 on mys dads side my older bro that i know i have 2 havent really met the other he is in canada has 2 sisters on his dads side
my younger sis has 2 sisters and a bro on her dads side and my younger bro a child has 1 bro on his dads side so yea
that many half sibs bad relationships i'm pretty much advoing that @#@%^@#^@$%!@!@# and its drama and will
stick to the benefits stuff or hook ups
p.s. i have also personally witnessed a friend during 1 summer go through a bad break up and relationship with his gf and other stuff and he had other bad things happen to him and he was a wreck that also strengthend my resolve to stay out of the relationship stuff and futher my belief that love is indeed false
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Dude thats some hectic sh1t,
I can relate a little but this was kinda my own fault.
I met Jenny (who, ironically, was studying psychology) during my second year at university. I stayed in an apartment complex that was a boys only building and there was this gay dude Nigel who lived on the same floor as me. Me and my friends would sorta manipulate Nigel into "financing" the parties we held (we had a party once that lasted almost two weeks...complements of Nigel.). I met Jenny through Nigel and at first she seemed really reserved and mature and level headed.
Anyway, at one of those parties we were sitting outside and I mentioned to her that my brother committed suicide because of a girl, and that I wasn't really interested in going out with anybody because of that. She said she felt the same because of some issues she had with her ex. That conversation ended up with her suggesting that we try being friends with benefits.
So, I decide to play along thinking she's probably just joking or something. So I jokingly threw her over my shoulder and carried her to my room and whatnot. Long story short, she wasn't joking. After that I would call her whenever.
As the first month of being *** friends went on, I noticed she was trying hard to kind of not develop feelings. I liked messing with her a bit coz she looked really cute when trying so hard to not develop feelings. Anyway, she started asking weird hypothetical questions and I realised I needed to end things because it could only get complicated from here, but I never really got to it.
During that time Nigel told me about how Jenny once slashed her ex-boyfriend across the face with a broken beer bottle, to make him "ugly" so that other girls wouldn't bother with him and thus stay only with her. Some friends of mine, who's from the same hometown as her, showed me a photo of that dude on facebook to tease me stuff. The poor dude had a huge scar all the way from his forehead across his nose to his neck...with stitches and everything.
So, I'm thinking I better find a way to put an end to things before she turns me into a Frankenstein as well. We weren't really going out so I decided to just not call her over anymore and to stay away from any parties in the complex for a while.
But then she started bringing me food and other stuff or came with one of my friends as an excuse to come over. So I started staying away from my apartment as much possible or I pretended to not be home when she came over and if she called I would just say I'm not home.
This is where the crazy sh1t started. One day she started knocking on my door while calling my name over and over and over. I opened the door once and we ended up having *** again. But after that she came knocking almost every single day. Sometimes, several times a day. She once kept on knocking for almost an hour. Then she started hanging out permanently at Nigel's apartment, always standing in the doorway, keeping a lookout. I had to sneak in and out of my own apartment.
She started drinking everyday, getting sloshed before banging and kicking on my door.
Then one day she convinced the apartment manager to open the door for her. I considered hiding in the closet but on a whim I decided to sit down and just tell her that I'm afraid of developing feelings for her and that we should just be platonic friends again.
She started crying and got up and left. She left me alone but kept on drinking and partying hectically after that until she eventually turned back into her calm, reserved self.
Couple of months later I was flirting with a girl called Cat outside a club. We went to the side of the club to make out. And then I see Jenny coming around the corner with an empty Bacardi bottle in her hand. I managed to wrestle the bottle from her hand before she could break it on an oil drum. Turns out that the two of them were friends went to the club together.
I can relate a little but this was kinda my own fault.
I met Jenny (who, ironically, was studying psychology) during my second year at university. I stayed in an apartment complex that was a boys only building and there was this gay dude Nigel who lived on the same floor as me. Me and my friends would sorta manipulate Nigel into "financing" the parties we held (we had a party once that lasted almost two weeks...complements of Nigel.). I met Jenny through Nigel and at first she seemed really reserved and mature and level headed.
Anyway, at one of those parties we were sitting outside and I mentioned to her that my brother committed suicide because of a girl, and that I wasn't really interested in going out with anybody because of that. She said she felt the same because of some issues she had with her ex. That conversation ended up with her suggesting that we try being friends with benefits.
So, I decide to play along thinking she's probably just joking or something. So I jokingly threw her over my shoulder and carried her to my room and whatnot. Long story short, she wasn't joking. After that I would call her whenever.
As the first month of being *** friends went on, I noticed she was trying hard to kind of not develop feelings. I liked messing with her a bit coz she looked really cute when trying so hard to not develop feelings. Anyway, she started asking weird hypothetical questions and I realised I needed to end things because it could only get complicated from here, but I never really got to it.
During that time Nigel told me about how Jenny once slashed her ex-boyfriend across the face with a broken beer bottle, to make him "ugly" so that other girls wouldn't bother with him and thus stay only with her. Some friends of mine, who's from the same hometown as her, showed me a photo of that dude on facebook to tease me stuff. The poor dude had a huge scar all the way from his forehead across his nose to his neck...with stitches and everything.
So, I'm thinking I better find a way to put an end to things before she turns me into a Frankenstein as well. We weren't really going out so I decided to just not call her over anymore and to stay away from any parties in the complex for a while.
But then she started bringing me food and other stuff or came with one of my friends as an excuse to come over. So I started staying away from my apartment as much possible or I pretended to not be home when she came over and if she called I would just say I'm not home.
This is where the crazy sh1t started. One day she started knocking on my door while calling my name over and over and over. I opened the door once and we ended up having *** again. But after that she came knocking almost every single day. Sometimes, several times a day. She once kept on knocking for almost an hour. Then she started hanging out permanently at Nigel's apartment, always standing in the doorway, keeping a lookout. I had to sneak in and out of my own apartment.
She started drinking everyday, getting sloshed before banging and kicking on my door.
Then one day she convinced the apartment manager to open the door for her. I considered hiding in the closet but on a whim I decided to sit down and just tell her that I'm afraid of developing feelings for her and that we should just be platonic friends again.
She started crying and got up and left. She left me alone but kept on drinking and partying hectically after that until she eventually turned back into her calm, reserved self.
Couple of months later I was flirting with a girl called Cat outside a club. We went to the side of the club to make out. And then I see Jenny coming around the corner with an empty Bacardi bottle in her hand. I managed to wrestle the bottle from her hand before she could break it on an oil drum. Turns out that the two of them were friends went to the club together.