Lightbringer
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Like I always say, bad experiences make for good stories.
Well these are my horrible relationships....and I swear this is all true
I promise you won't regret reading this, it's pretty crazy
First Ex "Morgan":
Second Ex "Gina":
Third Ex "Rachel":
Epilogue
There is more to tell, but these are with girls I only hooked up with and not dated.....which is a story for another time.
After my horrible experiences with women, I've never tried to get into another relationship. I've been single for 5 years.
There was only ONE girl in my life that was normal and that I really think I loved, her name was Samantha, but I didn't date her.
It was last year and only lasted a semester of college until she left for good. But every moment with her was something that I wished would last a lifetime.
Well these are my horrible relationships....and I swear this is all true
I promise you won't regret reading this, it's pretty crazy
First Ex "Morgan":
She was to this day one of the hottest girls I've met, although currently she gained some weight ya know. Anyways, we used to do bad things together: sneak into movies, steal, public indecency, etc. Well, she was kind of crazy, she used to carve my name into her arm.
She was the type of girl to get into a relationship right after a breakup, which is what she did with me. But later on, she would pester me about going out with her again; so I kinda kept it to "friends-with-benefits" for a while until one day we're hooking up at my house and she asks me if I would go out with her again.
At the time, I was also seeing someone else, Christa, that I was more interested in and planning to ask her out.....although I was a bit nervous to do so because Christa was somewhat of an arsonist.
So I said no to Morgan, saying it was because I was hurt the first time she broke up with me. Her response.........she started slamming my wall with her fist from anger, so I went into the other room and contemplated on what to do.
"Do I let her put a hole in my wall and leave her with a bloody fist or I go out with her again?"
I flipped a coin lol and it landed on heads......which meant I go out with her again.
So we went out for the second time for only two weeks.....she asked if we could take a break because she was sexually confused and wanted a girlfriend......at the time I didn't know what "a break" meant so I just assumed she broke up with me and started meeting other girls.
She would later on stalk me and every girl I dated or hooked up with, getting close to them and spreading rumors about me so I would eventually go back to her.
She was the type of girl to get into a relationship right after a breakup, which is what she did with me. But later on, she would pester me about going out with her again; so I kinda kept it to "friends-with-benefits" for a while until one day we're hooking up at my house and she asks me if I would go out with her again.
At the time, I was also seeing someone else, Christa, that I was more interested in and planning to ask her out.....although I was a bit nervous to do so because Christa was somewhat of an arsonist.
So I said no to Morgan, saying it was because I was hurt the first time she broke up with me. Her response.........she started slamming my wall with her fist from anger, so I went into the other room and contemplated on what to do.
"Do I let her put a hole in my wall and leave her with a bloody fist or I go out with her again?"
I flipped a coin lol and it landed on heads......which meant I go out with her again.
So we went out for the second time for only two weeks.....she asked if we could take a break because she was sexually confused and wanted a girlfriend......at the time I didn't know what "a break" meant so I just assumed she broke up with me and started meeting other girls.
She would later on stalk me and every girl I dated or hooked up with, getting close to them and spreading rumors about me so I would eventually go back to her.
Second Ex "Gina":
For a while after my first ex, I was seeing other girls but wasn't really successful with them. The one I came close to dating turned me down after she got raped while passed out drunk......and went out with the guy WTF?
So I became a little depressed and desperate for someone else in my life. So I started talking to Gina online and met up with her. Soon after, we took things off fast........had some fun, and got into a relationship.
But she wasn't really my type of girl, so I broke up with her after 3 weeks.....which isn't that long.
I broke up with her in person, because I felt it was the more honorable thing to do. I've never broken a girl's heart before, so I was not sure of how to go about it.
We met at a playground and I told her the news and gave her legit reasons for why I wanted to end the relationship; I wasn't happy, we didn't have much chemistry, she did things that went against my moral beliefs, etc.
I said I was sorry and offered to still be friends with her. She cried for 2 hours, literally, and I hugged her, holding her in my arms throughout that time, repeating that I was sorry.
What happened next I didn't anticipate. She screamed at me that I better go out with her again and started smashing her head on the brick wall of the building next to us. I pulled her away, everyone at the playground was staring toward us, she was bleeding, and I just left because "Screw This".
a few minutes later, I get a call from her white trash best-friend saying that I used her, raped her, beat her, etc and that she told everybody. I was shocked.
So a week later, I'm at the mall with a girl that was only my friend, and that I knew before my ex. My ex saw me and thought I was dating her, so she tried to get someone 4 years older to fight me.
I was 15 at the time.....and I didn't want to fight him because if I did win, I would have to deal with his friends who were the local drug-dealers of almost all the schools in the area and one of them just got out of prison for stabbing someone.
Long story short.....I managed to get out unharmed and broke all contact with Gina.
So I became a little depressed and desperate for someone else in my life. So I started talking to Gina online and met up with her. Soon after, we took things off fast........had some fun, and got into a relationship.
But she wasn't really my type of girl, so I broke up with her after 3 weeks.....which isn't that long.
I broke up with her in person, because I felt it was the more honorable thing to do. I've never broken a girl's heart before, so I was not sure of how to go about it.
We met at a playground and I told her the news and gave her legit reasons for why I wanted to end the relationship; I wasn't happy, we didn't have much chemistry, she did things that went against my moral beliefs, etc.
I said I was sorry and offered to still be friends with her. She cried for 2 hours, literally, and I hugged her, holding her in my arms throughout that time, repeating that I was sorry.
What happened next I didn't anticipate. She screamed at me that I better go out with her again and started smashing her head on the brick wall of the building next to us. I pulled her away, everyone at the playground was staring toward us, she was bleeding, and I just left because "Screw This".
a few minutes later, I get a call from her white trash best-friend saying that I used her, raped her, beat her, etc and that she told everybody. I was shocked.
So a week later, I'm at the mall with a girl that was only my friend, and that I knew before my ex. My ex saw me and thought I was dating her, so she tried to get someone 4 years older to fight me.
I was 15 at the time.....and I didn't want to fight him because if I did win, I would have to deal with his friends who were the local drug-dealers of almost all the schools in the area and one of them just got out of prison for stabbing someone.
Long story short.....I managed to get out unharmed and broke all contact with Gina.
Third Ex "Rachel":
Out of all my ex's she was by far the most maddening. Unlike the other ex's, I never really argued with them. It was just circumstances that followed after the break up. But with her, our whole relationship was an argument.
The first week of dating was absolute bliss....we hangout, watched movies together, played games, whatever.
Then out of no where she starts telling me I'm a horrible boyfriend and that I don't do enough for her, that I don't treat her right, etc.
She tells me to call her best-friend because she understands what she's talking about. So I call her best-friend.
Her best-friend tells me she doesn't know what she's talking about and that Rachel's really really really really really bi-polar lol.
I think to myself........"Oh God"
So later on, we kept on dating, but I only saw her twice a week. She texted me 24/7 though....I would have to lie that I'm going to bed in order for her to stop.
She would sometimes call me, saying her guy friends were slapping her butt and stuff.....but I've always heard that it's important for a boyfriend to accept his girlfriends guys friends....if that makes sense.
But she was telling me these stories on purpose......she later reveals that she told me them in order to make me jealous.
I was dumbfounded......why would she want me to be jealous if I am dating her and infatuated?
She also became best-friends with Morgan, my first ex......
First of all, I have no idea how she even found out I was dating Rachel. I didn't post anything on myspace; I also didn't tell any of my friends and Rachel had no association with anyone Morgan knew or vice-versa.
Well I warned Rachel about Morgan and told her the same story I told you, that she was stalking who I'm with and spreading rumors about me, but she later believed what Morgan said about me cheating on her.
She even showed Rachel a picture on myspace where I commented on a girl's picture calling her gorgeous.....before I dated Rachel.
This is stupidity at its finest.
So one day, I'm working on a school project that's due next day; so I tell Rachel that I might not get to respond to all of her texts.
So she texts me and I try to text back as much as I could. Then I get a call from her saying that I'm ignoring her and that I don't care about her.
which leads into a HUUUUGE dumb argument.
I explained to her the situation, but she wouldn't listen. I said that we only saw each other twice a week which didn't bother her, even though I wanted to see her more and I could have, but she insisted only twice......but not texting for a day makes me a bad boyfriend.
She said we've never been on any dates, but we have. We went to movies, restaurants, bowling, and other things.
But she said those weren't dates.....so I asked her what are dates then.....and I swear she said it was for me to figure out.
So I came up with some suggestions.
Museum? No
Ice Skating? No
Park? No
Movies? No
Dinner? No
Bowling? No
Then she finally tells me what she wants.
She says she wants to go to the beach.......it was winter
She then said she wanted to go camping..........it was winter and we don't have any gear or the money to get them
She said let's go to a concert then.......I said, HELL YEAH!
to which she responded, "No, you won't like the band"
IDGAF if I don't like the band, as long as it makes you happy. Anyways we broke up after 2 months
never in my life did I want to hit a girl until I met her.......I was 16.
The first week of dating was absolute bliss....we hangout, watched movies together, played games, whatever.
Then out of no where she starts telling me I'm a horrible boyfriend and that I don't do enough for her, that I don't treat her right, etc.
She tells me to call her best-friend because she understands what she's talking about. So I call her best-friend.
Her best-friend tells me she doesn't know what she's talking about and that Rachel's really really really really really bi-polar lol.
I think to myself........"Oh God"
So later on, we kept on dating, but I only saw her twice a week. She texted me 24/7 though....I would have to lie that I'm going to bed in order for her to stop.
She would sometimes call me, saying her guy friends were slapping her butt and stuff.....but I've always heard that it's important for a boyfriend to accept his girlfriends guys friends....if that makes sense.
But she was telling me these stories on purpose......she later reveals that she told me them in order to make me jealous.
I was dumbfounded......why would she want me to be jealous if I am dating her and infatuated?
She also became best-friends with Morgan, my first ex......
First of all, I have no idea how she even found out I was dating Rachel. I didn't post anything on myspace; I also didn't tell any of my friends and Rachel had no association with anyone Morgan knew or vice-versa.
Well I warned Rachel about Morgan and told her the same story I told you, that she was stalking who I'm with and spreading rumors about me, but she later believed what Morgan said about me cheating on her.
She even showed Rachel a picture on myspace where I commented on a girl's picture calling her gorgeous.....before I dated Rachel.
This is stupidity at its finest.
So one day, I'm working on a school project that's due next day; so I tell Rachel that I might not get to respond to all of her texts.
So she texts me and I try to text back as much as I could. Then I get a call from her saying that I'm ignoring her and that I don't care about her.
which leads into a HUUUUGE dumb argument.
I explained to her the situation, but she wouldn't listen. I said that we only saw each other twice a week which didn't bother her, even though I wanted to see her more and I could have, but she insisted only twice......but not texting for a day makes me a bad boyfriend.
She said we've never been on any dates, but we have. We went to movies, restaurants, bowling, and other things.
But she said those weren't dates.....so I asked her what are dates then.....and I swear she said it was for me to figure out.
So I came up with some suggestions.
Museum? No
Ice Skating? No
Park? No
Movies? No
Dinner? No
Bowling? No
Then she finally tells me what she wants.
She says she wants to go to the beach.......it was winter
She then said she wanted to go camping..........it was winter and we don't have any gear or the money to get them
She said let's go to a concert then.......I said, HELL YEAH!
to which she responded, "No, you won't like the band"
IDGAF if I don't like the band, as long as it makes you happy. Anyways we broke up after 2 months
never in my life did I want to hit a girl until I met her.......I was 16.
Epilogue
There is more to tell, but these are with girls I only hooked up with and not dated.....which is a story for another time.
After my horrible experiences with women, I've never tried to get into another relationship. I've been single for 5 years.
There was only ONE girl in my life that was normal and that I really think I loved, her name was Samantha, but I didn't date her.
It was last year and only lasted a semester of college until she left for good. But every moment with her was something that I wished would last a lifetime.
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