Help. I Need advice.

Legend Slayer

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Here's the thing , I'm in high school right now , 11th grade (second last year of high school). Last year my class got a new student. Apparently she's a girl and a month later I found I out that she liked me. I'm not very good at these "relationship" things so I'm constantly ignoring her. At the beginning of the year I could tell she doesn't like me anymore (she really doesn't). Even though were in the same class , we've only talked like twice for this whole year and those were short conversations. Anyway here's the problem , her friend told her that I'm talking bad things about her behind her back. She told her things like I said that she has problems and that she need therapy and things like that. I NEVER said this or anything even related to it. She was crying because these things (I think this is a bit of a overreaction). I tried to talk her but she refuses to listen to me. She would rather believe the bad things. Anyway I'm feeling guilty now. This happened on the last day of the semester and I'm only going to see her next semester so this makes things more awkward. What am I suppose to do in this situation? Any advice would be appreciated.
 

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Punch her in the throat to assert your dominance, then she'll listen to you. If a teacher tries to intervene, make the step on a Lego. You got this bruh.
 

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Point out the b*tch without making a scene, they want a scene, do your best to diffuse the problem by taking it up with her(Victim), while not giving the mess-starter the luxury of creating a scene.
 

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Gotta give her the D

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Been there. Keep trying to talk to her and tell her you didn't say anything of the sort. Your attempts, however, could be taken two ways.

1. You're just trying to get yourself out of deep shit, when you actually said it.
2. You legitimately didn't say it, and you're just trying to clear that up.

Pray to god it is taken the latter way.
 

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just talk to her and tell her you like her if she would like to go out to the theaters or something work for me
 

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I would try to explain your situation to her of how you weren't saying those things about her. That's a good start.
 

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Confront the troublemaker and make her explain in front of the girl.

-When you said it
-How you said it
-Proof that you said it
-Where you said it

If she can't provide a proper explanation, then she'll probably say she heard from someone else; in which case you ask who she heard it from, confront that person and make them explain. If that girl has any sense, she'll realize when things don't add up. That is of course if you care enough to put in that much effort.
 

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Walk up to that b*tch who started everything and tell her to reveal the truth to her friend and apologise to her and yourself.
 

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Punch that ****** that snitched on you then make him adimt that he's lying
 

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Ignore her. Cause if she really believes all those rumours, then she isn't worth it...
 
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