[Help] I have some serious love problems...

[YowYan]

Do you speak that from experience that you know or you speak out of your mind because if you have tried it then you know if you haven't tried it your words are dust in the wind.

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check it out people can become addicted to it from excessive use.

I live in Holland :3
And I smoke with friends or when i have sore muscles or insomnia. I smoke weed maybe once every month, I never crave it. I don't do ciggarettes or anything else.

Well duh. Excessive use. Anything can be abused. I smoke with moderation. If you smoke excessively, your body will produce less dopamine which makes you lazy and unproductive. But that's because people don't use it for the right reasons.

 

[The Mentalist]

I live in Holland :3
And I smoke with friends or when i have sore muscles or insomnia. I smoke weed maybe once every month, I never crave it. I don't do ciggarettes or anything else.

Well i have never smoked weed or used drugs, that is how i was raised by my parents and i am grateful to them; you should be carefull with weed overuse can cause addiction.

 

[The Mentalist]

Dear me, some of the members here are so ignorant and naive "Duuuuuude, it's only weed, chiiiiiiilllll" :|


Long-term Marijuana use causes addiction. It also causes problems of the heart, lungs and brain, not to mention weakening the Immune System.

^^^ Exactly my point using marijuana will cause addiction(overuse),some people believe it wont happen to them until they realize it is already to late.

 

[YowYan]

Well i have never smoked weed or used drugs, that is how i was raised by my parents and i am grateful to them; you should be carefull with weed overuse can cause addiction.

No, it can't. That's all in your head. A century of anti-marijuana propaganda has stupified you kids.

 

[The Mentalist]

No, it can't. That's all in your head. A century of anti-marijuana proganda has stupified you kids.

Well i guess it is everyone's own choice to do what they want,my personal beliefs are that you can get addicted.

 

[Zorø]

Weed aint that bad baby.....just smoke a little with him and you'll forget you will get in trouble with your parents you wouldn't even care XD

 

[Naked Snake]

"Serious love problems"

You said that you just started dating him and he's "nice" and "cool" yet you put love in the title?

It's weed, if you loved him you would at least try to talk it out.

 

[Hikari Uchiha Senju]

"Serious love problems"

You said that you just started dating him and he's "nice" and "cool" yet you put love in the title?

It's weed, if you loved him you would at least try to talk it out.

And what's wrong with that? I like him so I had made that title...
I tried to just a while ago, and he told me that he has some big personal problems. Honestly, I feel sad because I would like to help him, but I don't know how... :|

 

[Naked Snake]

And what's wrong with that? I like him so I had made that title...
I tried to just a while ago, and he told me that he has some big personal problems. Honestly, I feel sad because I would like to help him, but I don't know how... :|

First of all, I don't think you love him since you said that you just started dating.

Secondly, the problem doesn't seem to be very serious at all imo.

When I entered I thought it was going to be quite serious.

I understand though but I think you're making too big a deal out of it.

Talk to him about it. :3

 

[EnDash]

i will start by telling you a small story about my grandparents.

my grandmother hates smoking, her father smoked like a chimney and she decided to never merry a smoker. when she met my grandfather he was smoking and she told him she isn't going to kiss a smoker on the lips, so he stopped. after a couple of months they got married (diffrent times). the day after their marriage my grandfather opened up a cigarette pack, light one up and started smoking. my mother told him to stop and he told her it's already too late, and she should learn to live with it.

they are happily married... relatively, their one of those those couples that that the more they love each other the more they argue. their at it for 70 years now, my grandfather never stopped smoking, my grandmother never stopped loving him.

what should you take from this? that people don't really change. chances are your boyfriend isn't going to either. so either you love him enough and it doesn't bother you too much to live with his addiction, or it bothers you too much or you love him too little to live with it. it may be taking it too far but it's part of who he is, so you can't accept him but not his addiction.

 

[Jin Hayami]

Actually, we are dating for a really short time, yea... more than 6 days tho XD Honestly, I don't think he would care about my opinion... I'm too afraid to tell him anything. Idk how, he'll react.

That is an exponentially larger problem in a relationship than your boyfriend smoking pot.
The weed isn't a big deal. Like at all. You'll realize as you get older that the majority of your peers will smoke weed recreationally.
As long as this dude keeps his nose clean and isn't stupid about it you have nothing to worry about. Even then probation isn't a big deal either.
When you catch him snorting something or sticking a needle in his arm then you have a problem.

 

[Velencia]

This probably isn't the very best place to ask for advice. lol

this and if he treats you good, you should be fine...

 

[LED ZEPPELIN]

tell your friends you're a TDI. phrase it this way "im a tdi."

if you're lucky, you'll find someone smart who will love you but if i told you what tdi meant you'd be really pissed off.