Help I am depressed again U_U

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I suffer from two things, to be unmotivated and depression but it's a recurring thing with the depression. I think my depression stems on how people use to treat me in middle school like I was a piece of shit, oh and how my relationships with girls I like always seem to go wrong. I fell in love once but she she turned me down and went for friend right in front of me. I felt like complete crap I wanted to give up on trying for anything. This is where my Social Anxiety increase and me thinking shitty about myself. I won't lie I did think about suicide more then once but my will to not do something that will hurt others because of my foolishness stops me from ever coming close to even doing it ever. I will also be starting college next year but I feel so unmotivated to do my school work it's stressing me out.

-I need help now to. :'(
 

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College is best. In College, no one gives jack about you who are or who you were in middle school. Hell, even your graduating class is more mature and open to the adult you. Bottom line, they are too busy with work to even think about social tendencies. This means you can start over from the very beginning and make College friends.

If that isn't motivation enough to turn over a new leaf and go in smiling, I don't know what will :|
 

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Money does help but I think Ill still have my depression and my don't give a shit attitude by I agree to certain extent. This world is f up. I hope college is good. I hope I won't be stress out and fail and get kick out.

EDIT: The thing is I have friends now. It's just I have a very negative opinion about myself.
 

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Go talk to your parents instead of posting here...!
 

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Money does help but I think Ill still have my depression and my don't give a shit attitude by I agree to certain extent. This world is f up. I hope college is good. I hope I won't be stress out and fail and get kick out.
Don't worry so much bro, so long as you're going to college for something you enjoy the end result will be a positive one. Make friends, f**k bishes, get money.
 

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I suffer from two things, to be unmotivated and depression but it's a recurring thing with the depression. I think my depression stems on how people use to treat me in middle school like I was a piece of shit, oh and how my relationships with girls I like always seem to go wrong. I fell in love once but she she turned me down and went for friend right in front of me. I felt like complete crap I wanted to give up on trying for anything. This is where my Social Anxiety increase and me thinking shitty about myself. I won't lie I did think about suicide more then once but my will to not do something that will hurt others because of my foolishness stops me from ever coming close to even doing it ever. I will also be starting college next year but I feel so unmotivated to do my school work it's stressing me out.

-I need help now to. :'(

it's completly natural, not everyone is mature enough for high school at the same time and those of us that are not ready get hurt really bad. those people and that girl you talked about sounds like shitty people and i hope you agree with me at least now that you are better of without them. i remember i had the worst friends during highschool and i kept them for years because i thought thats what i should do, have friends and those friends otherwise i will be a loner and be ashamed. but i was completly wrong, if your friends make you feel bad just leave them and don't say a word to them again. i can assure you there are lots of great people that will treat you right in collage or outside of it, you just need to get out and find them.

you are not a piece of shit, you are more then what they made you feel, they are a piece of shit for thinking they are better then you. frankly they are just stupid for driving you away cause it's their loss, you don't have to pay them any attention, go out and get the life that will make you happy.

about the suicide thing, even that is a natural feeling, but remember that suicide is final. while you are alive there is a chance, no matter how small, that things will change for the better. even if it is an extremly small chance, it's higher then the 0% chance of ever feeling better if you kill yourself. i think you should cling to that small chance (that is probably higher then you think) and live and get the life you want with the friends and people that treat you well and you want to be with. but if you kill yourself you will never get them.

so go out, if you like anime and manga find a manga store or club, if you like comics find a comics store, if you like video games find people in your area that meet and play. it's really much easier then you think to find like minded people, you just need to think where to look (hint, you probably figured already, but school is not always the place to find them).

and one last thing, good luck! :)
 

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Dude I love you bro no homo. Wise and funny as hell.=D
On some real shit though, don't let what your Ex did influence you in a negative way, and dictate what you do in life. She was a *****, and had you stayed any longer it would've only made matters worse. Use her, and all those people who treated you like shit in school as motivation to strive to be a better person. If you don't want others to go what you went through then you have to set an example. I don't mean to sound cliche, but success really is the sweetest revenge. That's just my two cents.
 

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if you don't exercise or work out I'd advise to do that, it helps get rid of a lot of negative energy and help clear your mind out a little. And as far as high school goes, don't worry most of that sHit is irrelevant when you get to college.
 

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Have you considered not being such a whiny little *****?

I mean bloody hell, If I was your mum I'd beat you every day.
 
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Your the only person who can help yourself. You'll always stay the same if you always keep the same mind set, you can be whoever you want to be you just have to make the effort. Really depression and happiness are just two sides of the same coin, you couldn't know one without the other. You can switch your mindset by thinking positive thoughts, instead of negative ones. Don't keep re affirming to yourself that your depressed, as soon as the thought come in your head think of positive affirmations like "you know what it's really not that bad, or "why should I let myself get down about this? I don't have to feel this way".

Sure society can be tough but your not the only one who has it rough, everyone does. You being a baby about it is not only hurting yourself but those around you. You say you don't want to kill yourself because you'd be hurting others right? Well having a negative mood constantly gives off vibrations of the same and people around you will feel down when there around you. That's not fair is it? The only person who can help you with this is yourself, it's not going to be easy at first but practice makes perfect and I assure you it will make you feel better. You have to make the effort to make your life more enjoyable because no one else can.

As for motivation for school nobody at your age wants to be at school they just do it because they have to. As long as you keep thinking that your "unmotivated" you will be. Your clearly motivated, you posted this thread right? Your trying to help yourself that's motivation as well. Your mind and body is yours use it accordingly, it's your life and you can live it however you want.
 
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If you're going to college they might have a counselor who'll see you free and you can talk to them about anything. Get your money's worth.
 

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You're too young for depression, son. You have college ahead, still young, future ahead, still young, build up your personality, get educated, talk to people in real life not on internet, go to gym, wear good clothes.

Things will come an go with the flow... NarutoBase ain't do a shiz to you... no disrespect to NB
 

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You're too young for depression, son. You have college ahead, still young, future ahead, still young, build up your personality, get educated, talk to people in real life not on internet, go to gym, wear good clothes.

Things will come an go with the flow... NarutoBase ain't do a shiz to you... no disrespect to NB

I have a social life, NB is just a time wasting hobby. These post did help. I will try my damn hardest to change my mindset and report back with really good news when I start college.
 
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Go talk to your parents instead of posting here...!

Sage advice. Seriously seeking help on here is pretty bad. Talk about 1st world BS problems. Show some freaking respect to those facing real problems like they are in Syria.
 
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