-why exactly Gold digger GIRLS ...but not Gold digger Men????
This is actually somewhat interesting.
Typically speaking, it is older men who have accumulated wealth and influence throughout their career. While there are some younger men who fit the bill, the mechanic is still the same. Women are typically influential in terms of *** appeal while young. Obviously, young women are attracted to the wealth and influence of an older man - and bonus points if he is physically charming and still has a youthful appearance, himself.
Of course - not all women who are in such relationships are 'gold diggers.'
This is harder to pull off in reverse, though it does happen. Within certain circles, they are referred to as "cougars." An older woman, usually who has lost an older husband or otherwise, will end up with a much younger man. She is older, doesn't need money or influence, and can simply enjoy the relationship of a young, physically attractive man.
Generally, though, an older woman has children. This makes 'gold digging' difficult, as most of the inheritance is likely to go to the children specifically stated in a will or trust fund.
On the other hand, a man who is older who has any kind of money has often been single throughout much of his life. He has no children with another woman and no one else to gift inheritance to aside from siblings, family, or friends.
aren't Men exaggerating in blaming Girls and calling them Gold diggers???..i mean isn't it in the nature of girls to love appearances and looks while men dont care about these things so much?....also dont we all love money without exeptions?
Generally speaking, most people like to inflate the value of their wealth in their head several times over. This leads to the skewed perception that a girl was after money or resources that the guy never really had except in his fantasies.
I think the cases of 'true gold diggers' who are out for the money and nothing else are relatively rare. It is just an easy explanation to come up with when a relationship goes sour or when an immature girl simply has a fixation with gifts or things that cost money.
what do you think about Gold digger pranks on youtube??
... The what? I'll have to look that up, later, so I know what you're talking about.
i think most of them are full of lies and don't really represents a girl's true mentality...for exemple a man lures a girl with Buggati.. , then shows her a cheap car...then the girl ignores him and walks away....
I've seen that mentality at play before. It is especially more common along the west coast of America where fashion and appearances in the cities are high status symbols.
I don't think it is really an expression of gold digging, even though it is what many people in the rest of the country would consider shallow.
In those areas, and especially among younger women (as in barely out of being a teenager), their appearance reflects both their status and what someone else thinks of them. For example - giving someone a shirt is showing them what you think they are worth via the status conveyed by the shirt. Calling a limousine service for them is showing them that you think they are worth a limousine.
Showing up in a cheap car is showing them that you think they are worth a cheap car.
It's not so much that they are after riches, so much as they believe they are worth the types of displays their friends are seeing. It's a sort of culture where people rent cars for dates and other such things simply because they don't want to be the only guy/girl showing up in a sub-compact while everyone else is driving around in something fancy that a car person would know about (I'm not a car person).
Within the perspective of someone from the midwest - that is the behavior of a gold-digger.
Within the perspective of someone in that culture - that is just a guy who didn't understand the game.
So that might be part of it, as well.
Of course - I'm only forming my analysis off of that small bit of information you gave.
-these kind of pranks aren't necessary Gold digging... but could be interpreted differently : maybe the girl felt afraid ... or that she doesn't like jokes...or something like that..
There is that, too.
Within the midwest, it would be rude to pick someone up to bring them to dinner, then insist they need to take a taxi to get home. While it's not entirely the same parallel, people from lifestyles in cities and other places are often much quicker paced and border on managed chaos, many times. It's much more common for people to take a ride one place and have absolutely no expectation of that same person giving them a ride home or elsewhere. That person ends up having to leave early, or dashing off with another group of friends, or whatever. That is an accepted part of the culture.
You do that to someone who isn't part of that culture, particularly when visiting the city - and they are blindsided by something that is seen as rude, inconsiderate, etc.
My brother visited New York City a couple months ago.
"Everyone is so rude, and I was seriously about to punch some people. And then there were just these girls in the middle of Times Square who were naked... kids running around..."
Even the most crazy of cities in the midwest don't compare.
