God I hate being single

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As a man with no real close friends and no one that I hang out with and being a person that has never had a relationship, being single is the worst thing. I know people argue "You can do whatever you want whenever you want" but that is not true in my case. For I, not having access to any vehicle or much money or anyone to spend time with, can't do what I want whenever I want and even if I did have access to money and a car, I wouldn't have anything to do. I guess I just have a particularly lonely life as opposed to others in this situation and because of this loneliness, I have developed an introverted lifestyle which doesn't help with trying to make friends that really want to hang out with you. Again sorry for not posting Naruto stuff and the fact that I've basically been just dumping my problems on these forums
 

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As a man with no real close friends and no one that I hang out with and being a person that has never had a relationship, being single is the worst thing. I know people argue "You can do whatever you want whenever you want" but that is not true in my case. For I, not having access to any vehicle or much money or anyone to spend time with, can't do what I want whenever I want and even if I did have access to money and a car, I wouldn't have anything to do. I guess I just have a particularly lonely life as opposed to others in this situation and because of this loneliness, I have developed an introverted lifestyle which doesn't help with trying to make friends that really want to hang out with you. Again sorry for not posting Naruto stuff and the fact that I've basically been just dumping my problems on these forums

try having one night stands
 

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Only thing I have to say is .... Get out of your god damn home , get a job and speak with people !
Its that simple
What age are you ?
 

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Such is life.
 

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Being single could be great. For one, you don't tie yourself down to just one girl.[SUB]
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This is the wrong section but i wont be an ásshole about it. I can relate. You just have to throw yourself out there though. It isn't as hard as it may seem.
 

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As a man with no real close friends and no one that I hang out with and being a person that has never had a relationship, being single is the worst thing. I know people argue "You can do whatever you want whenever you want" but that is not true in my case. For I, not having access to any vehicle or much money or anyone to spend time with, can't do what I want whenever I want and even if I did have access to money and a car, I wouldn't have anything to do. I guess I just have a particularly lonely life as opposed to others in this situation and because of this loneliness, I have developed an introverted lifestyle which doesn't help with trying to make friends that really want to hang out with you. Again sorry for not posting Naruto stuff and the fact that I've basically been just dumping my problems on these forums

I feel your pain bro....:NO:
 

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Only thing I have to say is .... Get out of your god damn home , get a job and speak with people !
Its that simple
What age are you ?

See but that's the thing, what the hell would I talk to people about?
 

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I prefer being alone most of the time. You can either do something about your position in life or accept it. Either way is up to you and neither choice is wrong as long as you make it for yourself
 

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heres what you do. pick a friend that you like more than the others and just hangout with his group of friends as they are likely same minded individuals who you'll like. now you've got a group of friends. next go to parties with them and slowly get yourself into the habit of approaching people at parties and from there put your big boy underwear on and talk to girls until one takes you to the moon and back
 

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everyone on this sight is single. people who say they arent are little lying *******s
 

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Make some friends then. Don't over think things, you'll only over complicate them. The fact that you have "developed an introverted lifestyle" does not stand in the way of you going out to meet people, not unless you let it. There are tons of places you can go to, be it at school, work, a bar, or just anywhere. You're allowing your own fear to hinder yourself here.
 

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Aw, you poor thing. Gimme your address and I'll send strippers to your house just to cheer you up.
Nah jokes.
Try going out more. Who cares about the reason you're leaving the house, just try to go out more and be more social. Try to talk to more people, even if some of those people are those who you think you'd never form a good bond with. You never know. Life is pretty long and a lot of things can happen.

If you're a student or someone who works with other, try to develop a relationship with the people you are surrounded with. Talk, talk and talk. Be confident in what you are saying and doing. Don't take things to seriously and try to smile a bit more than usual. The fact is, people love to make friends with those who are funny and bright in personality.

In the worse case scenario, there's always counselling mate.
 

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I really think you should

f*ck her right in the p*ssy

But seriously I understand you trust me lol, Are you in college or adult working and what not? If college then find a study group, meet some new people,etc. Or even if your adult and not working simply go out more. Anywhere social, see if you can introduce yourself at a party, or even message an old friend on facebook to see if you wanna meet up. Doesn't even have to be an old friend just an old classmate or something. Anything to get your life a bit more socially active.
 
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I used to feel your pain, until i found my right hand and a certain website. lol
 
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