trollkingx
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someone who doesnt say that they get pusssy. thank you for being honest my friend
God I hate being single
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Yusuke Urameshi
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1. What age are you? Getting a job can help in making friends. Or school, if you go to one.
2. Don't use your "introversion" as a crutch. You also seem to think that because you're an introvert, you can't be social. An introvert simply means people wear you out and you need time alone, or time with good friends/people you like. I can empathize, though. I'm an introvert. Just try to find a good group of guys and develop a bond with them.
3. Don't be afraid to talk to people.
4. Yes, being single does suck. After having a girlfriend and then not, I miss having someone that aren't my guy friends that I can do things with.
2. Don't use your "introversion" as a crutch. You also seem to think that because you're an introvert, you can't be social. An introvert simply means people wear you out and you need time alone, or time with good friends/people you like. I can empathize, though. I'm an introvert. Just try to find a good group of guys and develop a bond with them.
3. Don't be afraid to talk to people.
4. Yes, being single does suck. After having a girlfriend and then not, I miss having someone that aren't my guy friends that I can do things with.
Commander Axe
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Yea, my problem being having nothing to talk about. Because more often than not the people that I could strike up a conversation with would have no interest in what my interests are. (Mostly sports, fashion, gossip, or New Netflix shows)
trollkingx
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Commander Axe
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Quite a common problem, so talk about their interests. Whatever they like bring it up and try to find at least some some common knowledge on said topic. Once you talk about someone's interest they eventually switch over to talk about your interests.
Sasori no Kami
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Easy, go to a high quality brothel ( asain, Indian, black, white, ECt.) and they don't charge as much as you think. $100 in the U.S minimum, but if you had $, you could could travel overseas and pay 10% of that amount 
. Prostitution is your best friend. Great service ( talking, massage, and/or well serviced ***). You can sit back and have your banana sucked if you want. Have it your way . Trust. They are there to make sure you have the best time you can possibly have there. Pleasure pleasure pleasure. You'll get over your lonely phase this way and most likely will never turn back.
. Prostitution is your best friend. Great service ( talking, massage, and/or well serviced ***). You can sit back and have your banana sucked if you want. Have it your way . Trust. They are there to make sure you have the best time you can possibly have there. Pleasure pleasure pleasure. You'll get over your lonely phase this way and most likely will never turn back.
Try working out. It doesn't have to be at a gym or even with weights. Also try playing sports if it interests you or try some thing like dancing. I'm an introvert as well and I mostly keep to myself but there must be something you enjoy that requires you to be with people (eg. Team sports). As for girls, try tinder? You might be surprised. If you're in school join a club, if you're at uni join a club, if you're at work talk to other workmates about work and go for drinks with them.
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You dont come to the Kingdom of Deaf, and complain about being Deaf. If you catch my drift.
your introversion is the problem, try to get out as much as you can, even if its hard, if you try hard and long enough, you might find it worth your time in the long run.
I dont write a long and detailed answer because at the end of day I think you know you have to get out more, but you dont have the will for it, I cant give you the will, only you can fix your life.
but if there is anyhing in particular you need to know, perhaps someone here has the right experience to give you the answers you seek.
your introversion is the problem, try to get out as much as you can, even if its hard, if you try hard and long enough, you might find it worth your time in the long run.
I dont write a long and detailed answer because at the end of day I think you know you have to get out more, but you dont have the will for it, I cant give you the will, only you can fix your life.
but if there is anyhing in particular you need to know, perhaps someone here has the right experience to give you the answers you seek.
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I would say I relate but I really can't since I've always been an outgoing person.
-Leave the house, no matter what it is you're leaving to do; it doesn't matter. A house is a prison if you never leave.
-Get a job where you work with other people. It really introduces you to a whole new group of people.
-If you are in school/college, meeting people is even easier. Join a study group, talk to people next to you, play a sport, anything.
-Work out if you have nothing else to do. Body and mind are connected, as crazy as it may seem the state of your mind and mood will improve with your physical fitness. Eat healthier and sleep more too. It doesn't seem like this has anything to do with social anxiety at all but it does.
-Dating online is always an option if you're looking for someone
-Leave the house, no matter what it is you're leaving to do; it doesn't matter. A house is a prison if you never leave.
-Get a job where you work with other people. It really introduces you to a whole new group of people.
-If you are in school/college, meeting people is even easier. Join a study group, talk to people next to you, play a sport, anything.
-Work out if you have nothing else to do. Body and mind are connected, as crazy as it may seem the state of your mind and mood will improve with your physical fitness. Eat healthier and sleep more too. It doesn't seem like this has anything to do with social anxiety at all but it does.
-Dating online is always an option if you're looking for someone
Tons of people share those interests.
BlazeRelease
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Do NOT have one night stands Lol
But you seem like a good person. Don't worry I was single all the way until I was about 16, then met someone. Still with him.
You may feel lonely but it will get better, you'll meet someone, so you should reserve yourself for them.
And don't worry about dumping your feelings here, there are people who enjoy helping others, as unlikely as it seems. Besides it's better than the shitty vs threads everywhere.
Miss Consultant
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You just said you don't have friends? well I guess, the problem is "you" not them because you dont want to open yourself and make friends which is Not good.
You've reminded me of my little brother. The only difference is he can talk at least with mom and dad and he is very close to them although Ive notice he have few friends.
Dude, If I were you I'll stop being like that and start to speak with anyone like your dad or mom even your sister or brother. If you are not close with them, well.. thats really a big problem... but if you do, then start telling them regarding your condition so that they can help or assist you. Besides, no matter what we say I'll bet you wouldn't do it.. just remember this,...
"You are the only one who can help your self, no one can do it unless you are willing to do so."
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