Gay Marriages

[Jack Spicer]

Aslong as the child is happy & healthy & loved, that's all that matters.

 

[The Infernal Spirit]

well basically, there isn't going to be a biological child, afterall it's a gay marriage. yes i know, children can be adopted, well if the child is adopted, yes there are roles moms are needed to fill, so with a gay marriage, that wont be possible

So anyone who grows up in a single mother - father home is doomed to have a sub par life then ?
Or is it only a problem because the parents are gay or lesbian ?

Hypocrisy runs rampant.

 

[joodaa]

There may be problems but further investigations should occur to make a real decision to be honest

 

[Alice in Noodleland]

.Of course.The child will be placed in an uncomfortable situation,Since Gay Marriage was sensitive Issue over the past decades.
.The Young Child will question also his or her abnormality in this case.

If the Child seeks a Fatherly and Motherly love then the Gay Couple failed on raising The Child.
Because the Child's behavior will based upon how they were raised.

 

[Jin Hayami]

Meh I've got a lesbian friend that adopted. Her son talks about football and whooping other kids asses like 9 year olds. Then I compare him to my nephew who cried when I took him hunting and made him shoot a rabbit. I'm convinced she's a better male role model than my brother. Seriously. Im about to take that kid for a summer and man him the **** up.
So yeah I haven't experienced anything to say that a kid raised by a gay couple won't turn out normal like a straight couple.

 

[SakiBombJutsu]

agreed. I too have some wavering thoughts about gay parents, but I'm all for gay rights.

I'm not trying to be rude, but how can you be all for gay rights, but have wavering thoughts on gay parenting? Do gay people not deserve the right to a family?

 

[The Infernal Spirit]

Meh I've got a lesbian friend that adopted. Her son talks about football and whooping other kids asses like 9 year olds. Then I compare him to my nephew who cried when I took him hunting and made him shoot a rabbit. I'm convinced she's a better male role model than my brother. Seriously. Im about to take that kid for a summer and man him the **** up.
So yeah I haven't experienced anything to say that a kid raised by a gay couple won't turn out normal like a straight couple.

Thank you for adding in your voice to protest such illogical thinking however i would be quite upset if someone tried to make me shoot a rabbit as well.Have you considered the fact your brother does not want to cause unwarranted harm to animals for the sake of it ?

 

[Jin Hayami]

Thank you for adding in your voice to protest such illogical thinking however i would be quite upset if someone tried to make me shoot a rabbit as well.Have you considered the fact your brother does not want to cause unwarranted harm to animals for the sake of it ?

1. Its my nephew not my brother.
2. He was afraid of the gun.
3. I don't care if he was afraid. He needs to man up. My uncle had me breaking necks and cleaning his kills for him when I was his age.
4. If he doesn't quit being a wussy I'm gonna pay his tuition to Wentworth Military Academy. Where boys become...well angrier tougher boys lol.

 

[Prime Rib]

The kid most likely will turn out gay

 

[SakiBombJutsu]

The kid most likely will turn out gay

Yeah it's totally been established that being gay is an envriomental response

 

[Ƒālconer]

I think this is a ignorant excuse to spread anti-gay adoption sentiment. Be honest you obviously made this thread to be anti-gay right? Like Wang said about the parents, and its none of your business. People aren't the same, and people grow up differently. Some kids grow up just fine without a mother or a father and instead with 2 mothers or 2 fathers. Its just as normal with a mom and a dad as with 2 gay parents

 

[Wang]

The kid most likely will turn out gay

Oh no, then they might adopt kids too...it's a vicious cycle

 

[YowYan]

I'm not trying to be rude, but how can you be all for gay rights, but have wavering thoughts on gay parenting? Do gay people not deserve the right to a family?

You're right. My bad. I just thought for a moment that having 2 parents of the same *** might cause some issues in the child's progress which I dismissed myself a while ago, and now blatantly forgot about.

And with 'I'm all for gay rights', I also mean no authority should be allowed to determine what makes a family or not.

 

[Typhon]

This thread isn't about gay marriages but the affect on the child. It doesn't really matter if you think its right or not but this is what I want to say; as I said before its about the child.

The child of the gay couple would be disadvantaged in a way seeing as they won't be able to experience maternal love which so many people believe is different to a fathers love, or the other way around if the couple is female meaning that the child won't experience fatherly love. There are some things that only a mum can give and do for a child and the same for the dad. Of course this doesn't mean that the child is going to be depressed but it could just be more difficult for him.

What do you think ?
Keeping in mind I am talking about the child.

Love is love and as long as the parents care for the child and give him what he/she needs there's nothing wrong with it. There are millions of children who grow up with a single mother or a single father or no parents at all. There are millions of children who are raised by scumbag parents who abuse them.

Millions of kids out there would give anything to have two parents who cared for them, regardless of their gender.

 

[ThomasJeffersonwasasadist]

There's feminine men and butch women in the world. Genitals are just genitals.

 

[Rayder]

I think this is a ignorant excuse to spread anti-gay adoption sentiment. Be honest you obviously made this thread to be anti-gay right? Like Wang said about the parents, and its none of your business. People aren't the same, and people grow up differently. Some kids grow up just fine without a mother or a father and instead with 2 mothers or 2 fathers. Its just as normal with a mom and a dad as with 2 gay parents

Nope, I'm not anti gay at all. I don't agree with being gay and I never would become gay myself but I wouldn't mind having a gay person as a friend, as long as I felt comfortable in their presence. I'm just looking at the disadvantages for a child when having gay parents. As a few people said before bullying is a big problem and so is that missing maternal love. Some kids grow up fine without it and it is better to have gay parents then no parents at all but that wasn't really what I was talking about. :|

 

[Anorien16]

Many children have single parents that turn out fine.... also there are many 'Normal' families that give rise to anti socials . . . in the end it is the ability of the parents that matter.

 

[SakiBombJutsu]

Nope, I'm not anti gay at all. I don't agree with being gay and I never would become gay myself but I wouldn't mind having a gay person as a friend, as long as I felt comfortable in their presence. I'm just looking at the disadvantages for a child when having gay parents. As a few people said before bullying is a big problem and so is that missing maternal love. Some kids grow up fine without it and it is better to have gay parents then no parents at all but that wasn't really what I was talking about. :|

I'm going to go out on a limb here, but i'm guessing that you yourself have not had much interaction with the gay community. I want help you with a few things; First off stating you not anti gay, and then saying saying you don't agree with being gay, thats like saying your not anti black, but you don't agree with someone being black. Being gay is not a choice, and if your not gay your not just going to turn gay. You also state that you wouldn't mind having a gay friend. It sounds like you would be making an exception for them just because they are gay. Wouldn't it be better to just have a friend? Does it really matter if their gay/straight/black/latino... etc etc. Sorry if i'm coming off harsh. I want you make informed choices about people.
Back to topic, i think the only disadvantage to having parents of any kind is having bad parents.

 

[Jack Spicer]

i think the only disadvantage to having parents of any kind is having bad parents.

This right here. Quote of the thread. 100% agreement.