Gay Marriages

[Rayder]

This thread isn't about gay marriages but the affect on the child. It doesn't really matter if you think its right or not but this is what I want to say; as I said before its about the child.

The child of the gay couple would be disadvantaged in a way seeing as they won't be able to experience maternal love which so many people believe is different to a fathers love, or the other way around if the couple is female meaning that the child won't experience fatherly love. There are some things that only a mum can give and do for a child and the same for the dad. Of course this doesn't mean that the child is going to be depressed but it could just be more difficult for him.

What do you think ?
Keeping in mind I am talking about the child.

 

[Adebayo]

well basically, there isn't going to be a biological child, afterall it's a gay marriage. yes i know, children can be adopted, well if the child is adopted, yes there are roles moms are needed to fill, so with a gay marriage, that wont be possible

 

[AMIIIT]

I think he'll be bullied a lot.

 

[TheItachiUchiha]

Hmm very interesting you have a good point. It does seem necessary to have a father and mother figure.

 

[The Infernal Spirit]

I know plenty of children who grew up to be well adjusted individuals whom had two same *** parents.
You need to stop taking the so called "studies" that are biased towards gay and lesbian couples seriously and more with a grain of salt.
Kids of gay parents do not grow up socially inept.There are plenty of children who already grow up in unstable homes.It is the treatment of the child NOT the sexual orientation of the parents.

 

[The Infernal Spirit]

I think he'll be bullied a lot.

That would be a reflection of the poorly raised kids who bullies the child.

 

[Temporary Account]

Constant bullying.

 

[muutobirama3rdraikagemizu]

agreed

 

[Wang]

I would much rather have gay parents than no parents or terrible parents

 

[SakiBombJutsu]

I think your opening up a can of worms. That being said i don't think it really matters. I live in Seattle, and have friends that were raised in the scenario your talking about. College educated, stable relationships, some are complete morons. No real difference.

 

[Pavoneo]

Meh, giving and receiving love is the same regardless of gender in my opinion.

 

[Obitorulez]

Gay parents> No parents

 

[AMIIIT]

That would be a reflection of the poorly raised kids who bullies the child.

Yeah, that's what a bully is..

 

[SonictheHedgehog]

Agreed. I won't give my opinions on gay mairrage so I don't start a flame war.

 

[The Infernal Spirit]

Instead of worrying about the childs parents worry about the spreading of ignorance and intolerance :sy:

Children need love and nurturing,Guidance and compassion and knowledge that will help then grow and mature into a well rounded human being.

 

[The Infernal Spirit]

Yeah, that's what a bully is..

The thread is regarding the well being of a child of gay parents your talking about ignorant kids who use violence against others.
He is wondering if two same *** figures care of children is different then non same *** couples.
He is not talking about the effects of bullying.Your way off topic.

 

[YowYan]

Gay parents> No parents

agreed. I too have some wavering thoughts about gay parents, but I'm all for gay rights.

 

[Aertes]

Usually in gay couples there is always a person who holds the female character (sensitive,caring,affectionate etc,etc) and the one who holds the male character (provider,protective etc,etc). Children can find maternal and paternal features in both of them and rely to them.The gender doesn't play such a huge role especially for very young children since their perception for the gender and it's traits it's not clear.So no I don't think they will lack any kind of love.

 

[Pavoneo]

Usually in gay couples there is always a person who holds the female character (sensitive,caring,affectionate etc,etc) and the one who holds the male character (provider,protective etc,etc). Children can find maternal and paternal features in both of them and rely to them.The gender doesn't play such a huge role especially for very young children since their perception for the gender and it's traits it's not clear.So no I don't think they will lack any kind of love.

This is exactly how I feel about the topic at hand.

 

[SakiBombJutsu]

well basically, there isn't going to be a biological child, afterall it's a gay marriage. yes i know, children can be adopted, well if the child is adopted, yes there are roles moms are needed to fill, so with a gay marriage, that wont be possible

As more, and more women are moving to lives outside of being just a house wife (not an insult ladies, my mom was a house wife, and she did a fine job) so kids are growing up without moms by their side more so now than in the past. I'm not saying a gay man is going to do a better job, but i believe it's situational thing you can have a terrible mom that does nothing for you, same as you could have a gay dad/mom that would be dedicated and caring to have in that role.