Gay Marriage Regular Marriage No Marriage

[fingerblaster69]

Hmm wow. Surprised to see people reactions to gay marriage. Hardly anybody has talked about no marriage which I get why. Also I want to say not to post anything offensive like H**O or F****T. Yeah i know I put it in stars don't bash it I'm not like this in real life just doing it just so nobody says anything stupid and I get banned or anything bad to mess up my stats.

 

[leenox]

yow man..we hv to accept the fact tht gay/les marriage is legal in SOME country..so we juz hv to respect their(gay/les couples) right...is not us(human) to jugde others...

 

[Kazamori]

@Rei
Nice opinion ^^

I'm not against gay or lesbians, they really can do what they want,it's their life,aslong as it doesn't go over the line. They are all like us ,humans. But just like in a class, different kid is denied by others.
People are afraid.

Mariage seems a bit wrong, cuz my country doesn't have it, yet. But if I accept all people with differences, I accept their mariage too .

 

[Rei]

Btw, Rei, I though about writing the same thing as you did. I'm 100% with you on this one.

Nice +1

How come you strongly support gay people ? Gay's are gay most of the time for being a *** addict and personaly not caring where they stick it. the marriage isnt right.

Hm. I think it's cause I don't classify people before supporting them. There aren't types of people for me but just people in general. Plus, I am an anthropologist so...

Ignorance is bliss.

Oh how I wish I could be that ignorant.

lolz

@Rei
Nice opinion ^^

I'm not against gay or lesbians, they really can do what they want,it's their life,aslong as it doesn't go over the line. They are all like us ,humans. But just like in a class, different kid is denied by others.
People are afraid.

Mariage seems a bit wrong, cuz my country doesn't have it, yet. But if I accept all people with differences, I accept their mariage too .

Yeah I know what you mean; in my country it isn't allowed either. But sooner or later the EU will force us to accept these marriages.
I liked your reply before cause you gave me the chance to speak out my arguments ^^

 

[Caliburn]

I don't give much value to a marriage and I don't have anything against gay or lesbian people marry with each other. If they want to do marry then go ahead.

A lot of people are against gay-weddings, but I don't see those people making a fuss against celebrity-weddings which are IMO ten times worse. They marry like 4-5 times or something, only a few months after they know each other and a few months after the marriage they already divorce.

You aren't a celebrity if you haven't divorced at least once. If they can make such a mockery of a marriage, then let gay people marry. They at least take it a lot more serious.

It's possible that 'gayness' is something that is manifested in the body of gay-people. However gayness is pretty common in nature, it's an occurrence that is noticable with a lot of different species and even with humans it has been there for at least 2500 years. There were even rumours that Alexander the Great was bisexual.

The right question isn't whether gay-marriages are unnatural or not, but that marriage itself is natural. After all as gayness is something that appears in nature frequently, it's normal. However something like a marriage is more unnatural than anything else.

 

[ninryu]

1) Being gay is not natural.

not true.

2) Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.

you born like that, it's not possible.

3) Gay marriage will change the foundation of society; we could never adapt to new social norms. Just like we haven't adapted to cars, the service-sector economy, or longer life spans.

the world need to accept the differents, that the only way we all could live in peace.

4) Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn't changed at all;

so slavery, but you want it to change, right?

5) Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed;

no. marriage is still staying with the one you chose forever.

6) Straight marriages are valid because they produce children. Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children.

so infertile people shouldn't marry? and there's enough people in the world, believe me.

7) Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children.

as I said before, you born like this, you can't raise someone to be gay. and statistics show most of the gay people came from straight families.

8) Gay marriage is not supported by religion.

f*ck this.

9) Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That's why we as a society expressly forbid single parents to raise children.

completely wrong. it has no basis at all.

10) Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.

oh, come on, there's a big different between gay marriage and marrying your dog.

I think people should marry with the one they love and love them. the end.

 

[Typhon]

I will just copy-paste, lol

1) Being gay is not natural.

2) Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.

3) Gay marriage will change the foundation of society; we could never adapt to new social norms. Just like we haven't adapted to cars, the service-sector economy, or longer life spans.

4) Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn't changed at all;

5) Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed;

6) Straight marriages are valid because they produce children. Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children.

7) Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children.

8) Gay marriage is not supported by religion.

9) Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That's why we as a society expressly forbid single parents to raise children.

10) Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.

I think Kuro may have been being sarcastic.....

 

[Kazamori]

lol, I don't think that way =p I just copied some thoughts from net and wanted to see what u all think

 

[..Chill.. Klitz]

lol, I don't think that way =p I just copied some thoughts from net and wanted to see what u all think

Where exactly did you get that, it's so absurdly flawed, it looks like it was written by a 12 year old bible basher, or it was written as a sarcastic joke against said bible basher(s)

for example:
"in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall" - seriously...?

"Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children." - With our population rising by roughly half a billion a year, i think not.

"Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children." - Where do you think homosexual people came from in the first place, i mean, seriously, do you think they just appeared, ugghh.

I truly hope this was a joke, but sadly there are actually people out there that are this stupid.

People being gay shouldn't be a problem for anyone, how does it affect others that two male or female persons should choose to spend their lives together, they're not forcing anyone else to watch them, be with them, or have anything to do with them, it's just absurd that people are so against something that doesn't even affect them.

 

[leenox]

Where exactly did you get that, it's so absurdly flawed, it looks like it was written by a 12 year old bible basher, or it was written as a sarcastic joke against said bible basher(s)

for example:
"in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall" - seriously...?

"Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children." - With our population rising by roughly half a billion a year, i think not.

"Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children." - Where do you think homosexual people came from in the first place, i mean, seriously, do you think they just appeared, ugghh.

I truly hope this was a joke, but sadly there are actually people out there that are this stupid.

People being gay shouldn't be a problem for anyone, how does it affect others that two male or female persons should choose to spend their lives together, they're not forcing anyone else to watch them, be with them, or have anything to do with them, it's just absurd that people are so against something that doesn't even affect them.

yup..i agree with u...i think is better tht we all juz MYOB....

 

[Musashibo]

I will like to know what people think about mariage. Do you think gay marriage is alright is marriage right or do you think it's better to be single. I belive that gay marriage is not right. Yet i don't hate gay people. I think marriage is alright but not for anyone.

Marriage is such an annoying topic. It is, without a doubt, a topic which will always be swayed back and forth. Either way I'll just give me opinion.

Straight or Gay couples should have the right to get married in a normal fashion. Marriage is the union of a man or woman, or of two that truly are in love. No matter the sexes they should have the same right as normal couples.

Now I am a very high supporter to same *** couples, marriage, and even the quality life of being homosexual. People that are true to themselves, like Rei said, will go further in life and if acknowledging what side of the sexual preference you are on is one of those moments then so be it.

Mugi has a real good point in which it is impossible to make religious unions possible for same *** couples. They hate it, and will never resist to put a stop to it. The church is no place to break the rules that people will never bend for them. Like stated however, same *** couples want at least government official marriages to happen.

Being straight, gay, or even bi-sexual makes you no different from another person other than being more honest or not ashamed of your sexual preference. You are still a human of this earth and should be equal in the chance of being married.

All in all, marriage should be allowed for any type of couple that wants it. Church isn't the only place to get married, and if anything is to happen to society it would be that everyone would better understand homosexuals and how society in the past has treated them like a plague. =/

you born like that, it's not possible.

Also, to this statement... WTF? Your not born gay or straight, or if anything I do not believe that 100%. You are born a human being and your sexual preference is determined by who you are with, how you live your life, and what you go through puberty. You do not become gay or straight when you are born. You become a baby in this timelime and your sexual path will be there waiting when your ready to take a step. Man or woman, a person will always have a preference and it will depend on that spark at first sight of the man or woman you might love.

 

[Pesh]

Also, to this statement... WTF? Your not born gay or straight, or if anything I do not believe that 100%. You are born a human being and your sexual preference is determined by who you are with, how you live your life, and what you go through puberty. You do not become gay or straight when you are born. You become a baby in this timelime and your sexual path will be there waiting when your ready to take a step. Man or woman, a person will always have a preference and it will depend on that spark at first sight of the man or woman you might love.

I cant agree with you either. Its the same as your personal taste, what makes you love a person for example, its not like you decide which person to fall in love with, is it?
And I think I read somewhere there was some kind of hormone or something which was the reason for homosexuality.
Yet, you are right, you might be born with it, but you decide which path to go.

 

[Musashibo]

I cant agree with you either. Its the same as your personal taste, what makes you love a person for example, its not like you decide which person to fall in love with, is it?
And I think I read somewhere there was some kind of hormone or something which was the reason for homosexuality.
Yet, you are right, you might be born with it, but you decide which path to go.

Love plays a great part in what your preference would be. That is why I said it depends on the people you are with, how you do things, and what happens to you with them. I didn't say that there is a soul mate system, or the perfect match that you will find through the teen years to young adult years.

No one can truly just say how love is caculated, understood, and how things work. It just happens, whether you like it or not. Of course depending if you want it or not will make it take longer, or perhaps make it never occur. I know many people that say that they can live without ever going into a serious relationship or even never get married. I can truly believe some of them through their actions and what they do, but some seem to say that due to the moment since they never found that spark that sets things in motion.

I could try my best to describe love, how you can find it, and how it would work out for a person; but it doesn't matter since it will always be speculation.

I never knew, read, or heard that before. If there is a hormone in one's body that sways the preference then things might be different in some ways, but I still stick to my ideals and thoughts to people that choose their preference rather than be forced by birth.

 

[Pesh]

Love plays a great part in what your preference would be. That is why I said it depends on the people you are with, how you do things, and what happens to you with them. I didn't say that there is a soul mate system, or the perfect match that you will find through the teen years to young adult years.

No one can truly just say how love is caculated, understood, and how things work. It just happens, whether you like it or not. Of course depending if you want it or not will make it take longer, or perhaps make it never occur. I know many people that say that they can live without ever going into a serious relationship or even never get married. I can truly believe some of them through their actions and what they do, but some seem to say that due to the moment since they never found that spark that sets things in motion.

I could try my best to describe love, how you can find it, and how it would work out for a person; but it doesn't matter since it will always be speculation.

I never knew, read, or heard that before. If there is a hormone in one's body that sways the preference then things might be different in some ways, but I still stick to my ideals and thoughts to people that choose their preference rather than be forced by birth.

Alright, Ill give you another example, Rei stated earlier that there are animals that are homosexual too, then how do they choose it if they are not rational beings as human are?

I never said I wanted to change your opinion, Im just showing you the other side ^^

 

[Musashibo]

Alright, Ill give you another example, Rei stated earlier that there are animals that are homosexual too, then how do they choose it if they are not rational beings as human are?

I never said I wanted to change your opinion, Im just showing you the other side ^^

Animals are different. I will explain this since this is a lot simpler. If you know, and I am truly sure you do, men are attracted to curves. This is completely obvious, but I am not making this a joke. Legs, thighs, stomachs, chest, face, ect... it doesn't matter what, as long as it has the type of curves and if it's there.

For animals, it is similar, but different. Senses, as in smell and sight, are playing a big role for animals. They do not choose for gay or straight due to socializing, or anything of the sort. They are attracted to males or females of their species through smell most of the time. Aura if you will, for lack of a better term, will make the male or female (mostly male >.>) choose it's mate since it is attracted to that aroma.

Smell isn't the only thing that animals do to choose their mates. A sense of evolution is also a part of an animals preference. The harder beak, more vibrant feathers, tougher skin, more wins under it's belt... Whatever that would make the next generation better to survive and to continue this process. I must say that males that go together, in the animal kingdom, will most likely fail to make a great change in their evolutionary chain, but things happen. Females for animals will usually be worse off since it doesn't truly work perfectly due to their species' mating rituals/reproduction.

All in all, animals don't mate for love or to "get some". They do it to survive the next day, the next year, the next generation of their species. Good example, but different logic. You can place the "Survive" title on our preference as well, I suppose, but it's completely different since we have a more complex world and the ability to judge others. >.>

Also I never said you were trying to change my opinion, I was just saying that I would still stick to my opinion even if you are born with a hormone that is supposed to sway your preference. ^^

 

[Pesh]

Animals are different. I will explain this since this is a lot simpler. If you know, and I am truly sure you do, men are attracted to curves. This is completely obvious, but I am not making this a joke. Legs, thighs, stomachs, chest, face, ect... it doesn't matter what, as long as it has the type of curves and if it's there.

For animals, it is similar, but different. Senses, as in smell and sight, are playing a big role for animals. They do not choose for gay or straight due to socializing, or anything of the sort. They are attracted to males or females of their species through smell most of the time. Aura if you will, for lack of a better term, will make the male or female (mostly male >.>) choose it's mate since it is attracted to that aroma.

Smell isn't the only thing that animals do to choose their mates. A sense of evolution is also a part of an animals preference. The harder beak, more vibrant feathers, tougher skin, more wins under it's belt... Whatever that would make the next generation better to survive and to continue this process. I must say that males that go together, in the animal kingdom, will most likely fail to make a great change in their evolutionary chain, but things happen. Females for animals will usually be worse off since it doesn't truly work perfectly due to their species' mating rituals/reproduction.

All in all, animals don't mate for love or to "get some". They do it to survive the next day, the next year, the next generation of their species. Good example, but different logic. You can place the "Survive" title on our preference as well, I suppose, but it's completely different since we have a more complex world and the ability to judge others. >.>

Also I never said you were trying to change my opinion, I was just saying that I would still stick to my opinion even if you are born with a hormone that is supposed to sway your preference. ^^

Well, yet, they are meant to be attracted to the opposite gender which means there are always anomalies in the nature, which is the same for all kinds. It's true that people have the power to decide for themselves, but there are things that makes us choose differently. You cant put everything on personal decisions

Sorry I dont write as much as you but im not good in writing and expressing myself in words

 

[Musashibo]

Well, yet, they are meant to be attracted to the opposite gender which means there are always anomalies in the nature, which is the same for all kinds. It's true that people have the power to decide for themselves, but there are things that makes us choose differently. You cant put everything on personal decisions

Sorry I dont write as much as you but im not good in writing and expressing myself in words

I am completely fine about that. You don't need to write a bunch to tell what you want to say. Most of that was explaining anyways.

I indeed can, and will, put that all reasons why you are straight or gay is upon yourself. You are set in motion from birth to death on what you do throughout your life which will make your choice for you.

There are always situations, differences, and other factors that will sway your choice left and right. I completely agree to that. There is nothing more able to be said than telling a person what are the pros and cons of the *** or person in question.

Though it still comes to the point of you choosing. This is all up to you. If you want, need, or rather be with the opposite *** or not. Factors of how you choose, how they look, how people would react, and so on is great and possibly deal breaking for you choice in life. This is still a personal choice, a life size decision that only you can make. Some people can never make the choice or decide to have best of both worlds. It will always be up to you.

 

[Pesh]

I am completely fine about that. You don't need to write a bunch to tell what you want to say. Most of that was explaining anyways.

I indeed can, and will, put that all reasons why you are straight or gay is upon yourself. You are set in motion from birth to death on what you do throughout your life which will make your choice for you.

There are always situations, differences, and other factors that will sway your choice left and right. I completely agree to that. There is nothing more able to be said than telling a person what are the pros and cons of the *** or person in question.

Though it still comes to the point of you choosing. This is all up to you. If you want, need, or rather be with the opposite *** or not. Factors of how you choose, how they look, how people would react, and so on is great and possibly deal breaking for you choice in life. This is still a personal choice, a life size decision that only you can make. Some people can never make the choice or decide to have best of both worlds. It will always be up to you.

Completely agree with you lol

 

[Cirus]

I will like to know what people think about mariage. Do you think gay marriage is alright is marriage right or do you think it's better to be single. I belive that gay marriage is not right. Yet i don't hate gay people. I think marriage is alright but not for anyone.

Marriage is a religious term for religious unions. Which is what it always has been. Governments don't have the right to marry people, but do have the right to do civil unions. I believe that people who have same *** relationships should have equal rights and be treated the same as all other couples under the law. Still, if they want to get married then they shouldn't go to government, but rather the churches to have opinions changed.

 

[Taboo]

Well from how I see it, it actually aint our business to control other people's lives? I mean, from the moment we start telling someone that what he is doing is wrong we are attacking his freedom, arent we? Everyone is free to choose how to live his life. Now, when they start pushing their live's into ours, thats when I have a problem with them. Im not against gay people, but as soon as they start showing off (like those gay parades) thats when I have a problem with them. Why shouldnt we make a straight parade?
Gay people should continue their lives as they were, and stop pushing their place where they arent wanted. The truth is there will always be people who will hate them, and showing off will only trigger more hatred.
Anyways, I aint against marriage, I think its cool, if two people love each other, why not marry?