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I will like to know what people think about mariage. Do you think gay marriage is alright is marriage right or do you think it's better to be single. I belive that gay marriage is not right. Yet i don't hate gay people. I think marriage is alright but not for anyone.
 

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If people want to marriage let them. Gay or Straight. it does not matter.

but can you explain why u think gay marraige is not right
 

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If people want to marriage let them. Gay or Straight. it does not matter.

but can you explain why u think gay marraige is not right
I will just copy-paste, lol

1) Being gay is not natural.

2) Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.

3) Gay marriage will change the foundation of society; we could never adapt to new social norms. Just like we haven't adapted to cars, the service-sector economy, or longer life spans.

4) Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn't changed at all;

5) Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed;

6) Straight marriages are valid because they produce children. Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children.

7) Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children.

8) Gay marriage is not supported by religion.

9) Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That's why we as a society expressly forbid single parents to raise children.

10) Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.
 
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I will just copy-paste, lol

1) Being gay is not natural.
As argued by B. Bagemihl in ‘Biological Exuberance’ -which is a commonly accepted book by all scientists- of the 2000 or so species whose *** acts have been studied in detail, same *** pairings are found in more than 450. Same *** pairings are found in virtually in every human social group and "all the major professional medical, psychiatric and psychological bodies in the western world now accept that being gay is as natural as being left handed".

2) Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.
No, it will encourage people to be honest and true to themselves which should be the main purpose in our lives. Also, it is possible that heterosexuals will once in their lives try homosexual *** just out of curiosity (their own free will) whilst short people can’t will themselves to be tall.

3) Gay marriage will change the foundation of society; we could never adapt to new social norms. Just like we haven't adapted to cars, the service-sector economy, or longer life spans.
This is a non democratic thought. Not so long ago black people didn't have equal rights with the white people, and when they finally got them, new norms for culture had to be invented and current ones had to be redefined- does that mean that black people shouldn't have gotten their rights to freedom and democracy ever?

4) Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn't changed at all;
Yes and that is the main problem why people either divorce more now or refuse to get married. In many countries of northern Europe for example, young couples decide to not get married at all even if they end up spending their whole lives together.
Also, as argued by C. Geertz in "The Interpretation Of Cultures" and by F. Engels in "The Origin of the Family, Private Property, and the State" the real reason why "marriage" as an institution was invented was actually political and not religious.

5) Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed;
That is a childish argument. Because there are more and more killers in every community, the human life becomes of a less value with each murder?

6) Straight marriages are valid because they produce children. Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children.
Couples who don't produce children are still considered legally valid. That is like saying that if someone was born with a genetic anomaly or with a disease isn't "human enough". And if the world needs more children we should all have more *** anyways ^^

7) Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children.
This is not yet proven by any statistic and children will grow up and make their own decisions as adults. You can't pre -define them nor pre- restrict them.

8) Gay marriage is not supported by religion.
So is premarital ***; should we all stop doing it? I know i can't.
And a true democratic society will see religion as a choice and not as a pre-set value commonly accepted by everyone.

9) Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That's why we as a society expressly forbid single parents to raise children.
So, all murders and rapists and pedophiles come from homosexual families? O_O

10) Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.
Being gay is not being crazy; Is accepting who you are deep to the core.
And no one is saying that legalizing gay marriage will solve all society's problems. However, it will be an act of a mature and democratic society run of active and equal individuals. Which should be the main goal imo.
 

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I not for it, but I'm not against it either.
Heres the deal, it is forbidden to get married in Church as a gay couple, the bible says its wrong and the Church is against it.
Why the hell would people want to go and get married where they are not wanted?
Why would gay people try and convince the Church and the law, and the bible to let gay people get married in Church, when all the 3 of the parties say no to gay marriage...

Stubborn, stupid and ignorant.
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I just don't get it :|
Gay people should go and get married, I'm not saying they shouldn't but why does it have to be in state church`? Whats so special about getting married in a church?
 
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I not for it, but I'm not against it either.
Heres the deal, it is forbidden to get married in Church as a gay couple, the bible says its wrong and the Church is against it.
Why the hell would people want to go and get married where they are not wanted?
Why would gay people try and convince the Church and the law, and the bible to let gay people get married in Church, when all the 3 of the parties say no to gay marriage...

Stubborn, stupid and ignorant.
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I just don't get it :|
But gay people don't ask for religious marriages, but civil ones; the ones performed by a government official and not a religious organization.
 

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I could care less if homos marry each other or not just as long as they get near me (specifically my azz) but marriage is crazy. and you learn alot of things.the most important is: Whenever shes wrong she is still right. i hate that fact but thats how it is.......... *sighs* why did i even post in this htread??? -_-
 

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Marriage is for those that are in love gay, straight, bi watever I think if you want to get married it should be out of love and love only I believe that marriage also is also not for everyone some ppl marry others out of insucirty or financial stuff or any other needs basically they are using marriage as a reason to gain something witch is wrong, but we still do it regardless becuase its natural for us to make mistakes right...plus being gay, bi, and the other stuff is narutral as well even though some ppl will act that way becuase of curiousity. I'm just saying if two ppl are in love let them be we can't help who we fall in love with right
 
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★ Rei ★;1929308 said:
As argued by B. Bagemihl in ‘Biological Exuberance’ -which is a commonly accepted book by all scientists- of the 2000 or so species whose *** acts have been studied in detail, same *** pairings are found in more than 450. Same *** pairings are found in virtually in every human social group and "all the major professional medical, psychiatric and psychological bodies in the western world now accept that being gay is as natural as being left handed".



No, it will encourage people to be honest and true to themselves which should be the main purpose in our lives. Also, it is possible that heterosexuals will once in their lives try homosexual *** just out of curiosity (their own free will) whilst short people can’t will themselves to be tall.



This is a non democratic thought. Not so long ago black people didn't have equal rights with the white people, and when they finally got them, new norms for culture had to be invented and current ones had to be redefined- does that mean that black people shouldn't have gotten their rights to freedom and democracy ever?



Yes and that is the main problem why people either divorce more now or refuse to get married. In many countries of northern Europe for example, young couples decide to not get married at all even if they end up spending their whole lives together.
Also, as argued by C. Geertz in "The Interpretation Of Cultures" and by F. Engels in "The Origin of the Family, Private Property, and the State" the real reason why "marriage" as an institution was invented was actually political and not religious.



That is a childish argument. Because there are more and more killers in every community, the human life becomes of a less value with each murder?



Couples who don't produce children are still considered legally valid. That is like saying that if someone was born with a genetic anomaly or with a disease isn't "human enough". And if the world needs more children we should all have more *** anyways ^^



This is not yet proven by any statistic and children will grow up and make their own decisions as adults. You can't pre -define them nor pre- restrict them.


So is premarital ***; should we all stop doing it? I know i can't.
And a true democratic society will see religion as a choice and not as a pre-set value commonly accepted by everyone.



So, all murders and rapists and pedophiles come from homosexual families? O_O



Being gay is not being crazy; Is accepting who you are deep to the core.
And no one is saying that legalizing gay marriage will solve all society's problems. However, it will be an act of a mature and democratic society run of active and equal individuals. Which should be the main goal imo.
★ Rei ★;1929314 said:
But gay people don't ask for religious marriages, but civil ones; the ones performed by a government official and not a religious organization.
Lovely, I agree with her ^^

All those reason you stated are just a way to restrict people not to live their lives as they think is right, because they see the life in different 'colors' then you.
 
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I could care less if homos marry each other or not just as long as they get near me (specifically my azz)
I don't know why are you assuming you're desireble...
With that kind of thoughts, not even girls would like to get closer to you. I know I wouldn't.

Btw, Rei, I though about writing the same thing as you did. I'm 100% with you on this one.
 

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I don't know why are you assuming you're desireble...
With that kind of thoughts, not even girls would like to get closer to you. I know I wouldn't.

Btw, Rei, I though about writing the same thing as you did. I'm 100% with you on this one.
Okay........do i know?....... i was only saying it like that cuz im homophobic
 

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Well, you might be racist too, but you should try to watch your language. That might be insulting for some people, after all we are on a public forums.
i offened that your example every you call it implied im racist. i have know that im mixed and i know better then most ppl what racism is. :p :flaw::(
 

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I not for it, but I'm not against it either.
Heres the deal, it is forbidden to get married in Church as a gay couple, the bible says its wrong and the Church is against it.
Why the hell would people want to go and get married where they are not wanted?
Why would gay people try and convince the Church and the law, and the bible to let gay people get married in Church, when all the 3 of the parties say no to gay marriage...

Stubborn, stupid and ignorant.
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I just don't get it :|
Gay people should go and get married, I'm not saying they shouldn't but why does it have to be in state church`? Whats so special about getting married in a church?
dats so cool it cool fly and walk on water..... i wish i could do that......i wish i had wings........its still cool
 

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★ Rei ★;1929308 said:
As argued by B. Bagemihl in ?Biological Exuberance? -which is a commonly accepted book by all scientists- of the 2000 or so species whose *** acts have been studied in detail, same *** pairings are found in more than 450. Same *** pairings are found in virtually in every human social group and "all the major professional medical, psychiatric and psychological bodies in the western world now accept that being gay is as natural as being left handed".



No, it will encourage people to be honest and true to themselves which should be the main purpose in our lives. Also, it is possible that heterosexuals will once in their lives try homosexual *** just out of curiosity (their own free will) whilst short people can?t will themselves to be tall.



This is a non democratic thought. Not so long ago black people didn't have equal rights with the white people, and when they finally got them, new norms for culture had to be invented and current ones had to be redefined- does that mean that black people shouldn't have gotten their rights to freedom and democracy ever?



Yes and that is the main problem why people either divorce more now or refuse to get married. In many countries of northern Europe for example, young couples decide to not get married at all even if they end up spending their whole lives together.
Also, as argued by C. Geertz in "The Interpretation Of Cultures" and by F. Engels in "The Origin of the Family, Private Property, and the State" the real reason why "marriage" as an institution was invented was actually political and not religious.



That is a childish argument. Because there are more and more killers in every community, the human life becomes of a less value with each murder?



Couples who don't produce children are still considered legally valid. That is like saying that if someone was born with a genetic anomaly or with a disease isn't "human enough". And if the world needs more children we should all have more *** anyways ^^



This is not yet proven by any statistic and children will grow up and make their own decisions as adults. You can't pre -define them nor pre- restrict them.


So is premarital ***; should we all stop doing it? I know i can't.
And a true democratic society will see religion as a choice and not as a pre-set value commonly accepted by everyone.



So, all murders and rapists and pedophiles come from homosexual families? O_O



Being gay is not being crazy; Is accepting who you are deep to the core.
And no one is saying that legalizing gay marriage will solve all society's problems. However, it will be an act of a mature and democratic society run of active and equal individuals. Which should be the main goal imo.
How come you strongly support gay people o_O? Gay's are gay most of the time for being a *** addict and personaly not caring where they stick it. the marriage isnt right.
 

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How come you strongly support gay people o_O? Gay's are gay most of the time for being a *** addict and personaly not caring where they stick it. the marriage isnt right.


Ignorance is bliss.

Oh how I wish I could be that ignorant. :(


Homosexuality occurs in nature as well, something those anti-gay marriage people may not realize. Better go tell those Bonobo chimps that homosexuality is unnatural, they're doing it all wrong.
 

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I not for it, but I'm not against it either.
Heres the deal, it is forbidden to get married in Church as a gay couple, the bible says its wrong and the Church is against it.
Why the hell would people want to go and get married where they are not wanted?
Why would gay people try and convince the Church and the law, and the bible to let gay people get married in Church, when all the 3 of the parties say no to gay marriage...

Stubborn, stupid and ignorant.
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I just don't get it :|
Gay people should go and get married, I'm not saying they shouldn't but why does it have to be in state church`? Whats so special about getting married in a church?

As Rei said earlier, the movement is to legalize government recognized marriage so same *** couple can get the same legal rights as everyone else. This really has no effect on whether a church will marry them or not. Church's can marry whomever they want, they can deny straight couples too. Even if gay marriage is legalized Churches have no obligation to wed the couples.

But as for getting married in a church, just because the bible is against homosexuality doesn't mean that a gay person can't be religious. Theres plenty of other stuff in the bible that they can follow closely. So if they happen to be strongly religious they may want to get married in a Church. But as I said before, thats not a legal issue. Thats completely up to the Church.
 
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