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At times like this you need some meth.
 

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I've told her multiple times
I understand what your saying though

And she said she likes you but she doesn't know what she wants?That's a lie,or she's trying to decide if you're worth it,just "grab a hold of your co*k"and do what a man would do,this is for all you scared lil ****'s(pardon my expression) IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU AND FRIENDZONES YOU,MOVE ON.Don't become too atached on a girl,and btw dude my method it's not risk free(you could lose her)but if you do,then you know she was not worth it.
 

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If you don't rode for the ship then the ship will leave you.

Other words, go for it and don't make same mistake as I once did. Better be a No than a never.
 

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I have the same problem I have known this girl for 2 years and I am her best "boy" friend but if I ask her out I think she would feel weird and I don't think she loves me
Same exact thing as me
I'm not trying to say I Love her but maybe from other people's perspective that what it looks like
 

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So you both like each other... but she's confused on what to do? I'm not really sure on what to say.
 

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And she said she likes you but she doesn't know what she wants?That's a lie,or she's trying to decide if you're worth it,just "grab a hold of your co*k"and do what a man would do,this is for all you scared lil ****'s(pardon my expression) IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU AND FRIENDZONES YOU,MOVE ON.Don't become too atached on a girl,and btw dude my method it's not risk free(you could lose her)but if you do,then you know she was not worth it.

Calm down there preacher
Not once did I say that I was going to wait for years until she finally recouperated my feelings
That's ****ing pathetic
 

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just act like sasuke, she will love you ;)
 

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She's probably testing you seeing if your boyfriend material if you cater to her every whim you just turned her off completely and she will make excuses for why she doesn't want to go out with you because if you do everything she wants she knows your desperate girls can sense this, and what you need to do is instead of answering back her call or emails as quickly as possible just take a couple days to answer her and she will be calling or emailing you because she starts getting attracted to you because she see you in a different light hope this helps!
 

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You must be 14 years

I no help kids

I help 18+
 

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Has anyone on this site ever been friend zoned before

Cuz right now I am

I've known this one girl for a few months and I really really like her
And I mean she is the only girl in my short life that I've ever actually had these types of feelings about
And the really sucky thing is is that she knows how much I like her and she does have feelings for me but she's not sure if she wants to have a relationship

And before anyone says that it's just cuz I'm young and there are other girls
Someone has to relate to understanding when you first had the same type of feelings for Someone and didn't want to lose them

Just asking for advice

You have to spend time with her, ask her for coffee or something for starters, then talk with her, idling at home and writing things in nb wont help you dude.. and like somebody else alrdy stated up there, if you dont rush, somebody else WILL spend time with her and get her most likely.. gl with the chick, just go out there and do it.! ->
 

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I can relate to your story, seeing as I am one of those kind of girls who are afraid to rush into relationships, even if the guy at matter is a guy I like. For how long have you two known each other? If it has been for a short while, then I suggest you give her some free space, don't be with her too much. Don't bother her. Give her some free space to breathe. But trust me, if you're with her too much, she'll gradually grow annoyed and tired of you. If you leave her be for a while, she'll automatically come to you to find you and when that happens... grab the chance and ask her out! but if that doesn't happen, then I'm sorry my friend but even if she says she likes you back I don't believe she even wants to date you.
 

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When all hope is lost, bun a zoot and listen to Hopsin. I swear, you'll be happy in no time. Really though, she may be trying to mug you off, not wanting to hurt your feelings. Hell, maybe she is just a confused little girl. Time will tell.
 

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I can relate to your story, seeing as I am one of those kind of girls who are afraid to rush into relationships, even if the guy at matter is a guy I like. For how long have you two known each other? If it has been for a short while, then I suggest you give her some free space, don't be with her too much. Don't bother her. Give her some free space to breathe. But trust me, if you're with her too much, she'll gradually grow annoyed and tired of you. If you leave her be for a while, she'll automatically come to you to find you and when that happens... grab the chance and ask her out! but if that doesn't happen, then I'm sorry my friend but even if she says she likes you back I don't believe she even wants to date you.

I've known her since last late November or early December
 

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I've known her since last late November or early December

It's understandable why she has friendzoned you. Don't worry too much about it, get to know each other better and after a year or 2 you'll both be ready for the next step.
 

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It's understandable why she has friendzoned you. Don't worry too much about it, get to know each other better and after a year or 2 you'll both be ready for the next step.

Hey hey! What are you talking about?? A year or two when they are 14 to 15? Come on we are talking about teenagers here, she isn't gonna marry him or anything to need two years for the next step.
Your previous advice was very good but this....wth is this?
Seriously...that's too much.
 
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