[Discussion] Friend Zone

[Genrou]

I've been there lol. Sucks ass. A lot.

I fell for them. I told them. They didn't want me, but guess what? I don't regret it. Because probably if I didn't tell them before, I'd be stuck in a hellhole of what if's and shoulda coulda's.

One of the biggest impacts to me, after the rejection, was that I believed the "I hope we can continue to be friends" line, when they didn't want to after I told them. I put too much faith in their words, when in fact they were just trying to be polite. That was my mistake.

I'm friends with one of them now though, back to what we were years ago.

It really is up to you, what you want. For me it was better to shit on my pants than die of constipation. Just make sure that you're ready for her answer and anything that comes after.

 

[iNotorious]

i see, maybe try not talking to her? infact go further, don't even acknowledge her, don't even look at her direction. just stay at home and watch anime all day.

a sure way to never get out of the friendzone *_*

but i don't watch animes, i watch an anime then i wait a week or two to watch another one o-o

do this .

:3

I've been there lol. Sucks ass. A lot.

I fell for them. I told them. They didn't want me, but guess what? I don't regret it. Because probably if I didn't tell them before, I'd be stuck in a hellhole of what if's and shoulda coulda's.

One of the biggest impacts to me, after the rejection, was that I believed the "I hope we can continue to be friends" line, when they didn't want to after I told them. I put too much faith in their words, when in fact they were just trying to be polite. That was my mistake.

I'm friends with one of them now though, back to what we were years ago.

It really is up to you, what you want. For me it was better to shit on my pants than die of constipation. Just make sure that you're ready for her answer and anything that comes after.

that's harsh though :T_T:

 

[HornyPanda3]

but i don't watch animes, i watch an anime then i wait a week or two to watch another one o-o



:3



that's harsh though :T_T:

Life is harsh.

 

[NarutoB]

Ask her out, if she declines, toss that hoe to the curb, then promptly run that same curb over with her grandfather's car

 

[Stark]

Been in it once and escaped but the relationship went nowhere, I've put girls in it but most were ugly girls tbh.

 

[Parrish]

Parrish, le parrish with friend zone cheese... >_<!

 

[The Sach]

Good advice Sach

Thanks bro.

Of course i'm shy... >_>!
Wait, are you serious with ''try to propose a girl on NB.'' o-o

Yes, if you love a girl on NB.^_^
Or just try it on PM with your female friend on NB.U_U

I've been there lol. Sucks ass. A lot.

I fell for them. I told them. They didn't want me, but guess what? I don't regret it. Because probably if I didn't tell them before, I'd be stuck in a hellhole of what if's and shoulda coulda's.

One of the biggest impacts to me, after the rejection, was that I believed the "I hope we can continue to be friends" line, when they didn't want to after I told them. I put too much faith in their words, when in fact they were just trying to be polite. That was my mistake.

I'm friends with one of them now though, back to what we were years ago.

It really is up to you, what you want. For me it was better to shit on my pants than die of constipation. Just make sure that you're ready for her answer and anything that comes after.

You know what is worse? Break-up. Because at that moment, everything around you changes, especially if you are deeply involved.

 

[HornyPanda3]

Ask her out, if she declines, toss that hoe to the curb, then promptly run that same curb over with her grandfather's car

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You can always try this

 

[Genrou]

but i don't watch animes, i watch an anime then i wait a week or two to watch another one o-o



:3



that's harsh though :T_T:

They were. But I didn't beat myself up with the shoulda coulda's and the if's and but's, because there's finality to it. I had my answer. And as messed up as the journey was to finding closure, I'm glad that I have better standards now on what I want for a partner.

You will probably get hurt, but then you will most likely grow and learn too.

Just... be prepared for the excuses. They never are what they try to convey it to be.

 

[Scooby Doo]

Yes, if you love a girl on NB.^_^
Or just try it on PM with your female friend on NB.U_U

I don't see how that will help him tho o.o

 

[The Sach]

I don't see how that will help him tho o.o

Build up of confidence, perhaps. I agree not that much though.XD

 

[Tobi98]

Lets be serious here friend zone is just a soft way of saying you're ugly

 

[Bling Kai]

What would be the point of escaping the friendzone?

 

[Scooby Doo]

Build up of confidence, perhaps. I agree not that much though.XD

But msging a random girl here is not the real thing. But ok.

 

[Parrish]

Lets be serious here friend zone is just a soft way of saying you're ugly

Eh, in some cases yes. Not always though

 

[Genrou]

@ Sach - that too. XD though breakups are lesser evils for me ,since I don't go into a relationship with the same person twice.

Losing a friend coz of the friendzone is worse IMO.

 

[babajara0102]

I am the king of the friendzone

 

[juzumaki]

yup just kiss her

 

[Koro]

Nope. Never .

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

First of all stop treating her as a friend and stop hoping she will be the one that will gonna move things forward , start making your move .

try telling her , you like her but in a casual way

give some sincere compliments about what you find attractive in her but in your case when she do or say something impresses you

interact with her physically ( don't touch in wrong places , I'm saying like just a small touch on her back , when you lead her through a door )

these are small hints , you can give to her that you like her more than just a friend and guess what they are good at understanding these hints , this is the way to not make her think you as just a friend .