First date advice

[-Yard-]

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1. take her out to eat(something nice but not to much)
2.go see a movie(if you have the money)
3.go for a nice long walk(then ask her about herself and try to get her to like you more.
4. take her home( and its your choose if you want to try for a kiss

if you get a kiss that means that your in and your mostly 98% chance that she will
1. call you that night
2.you will have a second date

good luck bro

you also don't want to be a tryless xd



Blood, It sound like you have no exp. with women U_U



No one's out of anyone's "League"



Depends on the Girl...
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You need to give us more info on the girl, (Age/Likes/Dislikes) if we don't know the girl, we won't be able to tell what type of date she will like to go on....

also, what do you plan to do? you must have some plan in your head already, tell us what it is so we can make changes if necessary...

fred is correct.

and the moral of the advice i'm giving you is.

dating is like filler you wish you could skip to the good parts.

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now my personal experiences.
i have dated nice and classy women that i later found out were whores within 4hrs of dating.

so heres some good advice that works..and some bad advice that works.

good advice:

1. if you know for a fact that she's not a ***** and is a smart, nice, mature and an overall classy woman who is your type then be yourself because, whats the point in a girl saying she loves you when she just loves who she "thinks" you are?


Bad Advice:


2. if step one doesn't work and you really like her then get to know her more.
ask her what tv shows she likes, whos her favorite character ect
personal experience, i found one girl that lived around me who likes dragon ball z "sadly she has only seen a few eps of naruto" but she watches an ass load of other anime. she wanted the vegeta type and showed no interest in me what so ever. so, i got too know her as a friend for a month "which is how i found out she was into anime"
once i found out she was attracted to the vegeta type all i had to do was be more aggressive "and no not in the mean/violent way" like the "i dont give a fck" douche bag attitude. and she became a ***** within 4 hrs -__-
actually that was a little bit of a turn off so i wasn't attracted to her anymore.
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so just get to know her on the first date and don't talk about yourself unless she asks.
if you start of with
"i like this" and "i like that"
you will come off as the self diluted type which is a turn off.

start off with a:

how was your day?

never start with "how are you?" that only leads to an awkward silence

 

[koolay0]

thx everyone for the advice!
and what i already have planned is

1. Amusement Park
2. Movies at home that i rented from netflix
3. lastly finish it up with a frosting fight (cake frosting)

The chick has been my friend for about 2 or so weeks xP
She actually is a member of NB
we took the time to know each other through here first/txts/calls and she really digged me and decided to give her a chance.

 

[LeafSpirit 20]

Well srry, But i also have a quick question. I met a girl in a place, asked her for her number, and we have just been texting for two weeks. Remember I just saw her once when I asked for her number, but we have been getting to know each other for about two weeks in the phone, and really connected. If I take her out to a first date, is going for the kiss too sudden, or too much?
(Or should i make my own thread, lol)