First date advice

[koolay0]

Ok, im usually good with first dates but i have no clue how im going to plan an upcoming one. . . I want to hear how you would plan out your first date with someone so i can gather up some ideas on my own.
Much Appreciated. <3
Be detailed plz?

(if your a chick posting, tell me how would you want your first date with a guy to be like)

 

[Inch]

Don't over think it. No one likes a tryhard.

 

[+BLOODsilent+]

ok

1. take her out to eat(something nice but not to much)
2.go see a movie(if you have the money)
3.go for a nice long walk(then ask her about herself and try to get her to like you more.
4. take her home( and its your choose if you want to try for a kiss

if you get a kiss that means that your in and your mostly 98% chance that she will
1. call you that night
2.you will have a second date

good luck bro

 

[koolay0]

ok

1. take her out to eat(something nice but not to much)
2.go see a movie(if you have the money)
3.go for a nice long walk(then ask her about herself and try to get her to like you more.
4. take her home( and its your choose if you want to try for a kiss

if you get a kiss that means that your in and your mostly 98% chance that she will
1. call you that night
2.you will have a second date

good luck bro

thx dude gonna need the luck. she's a bit outta my league :ghehe:

 

[knots23]

just be with yourself dude..mostly girls like guys who are in theirselves, no trying hard and avoid also being clumsy

And when your talking to each other try to give a lil sense of humor

That's it..Good luck xd

 

[Serpent]

Don't over think it. No one likes a tryhard.

you also don't want to be a tryless xd

ok

1. take her out to eat(something nice but not to much)
2.go see a movie(if you have the money)
3.go for a nice long walk(then ask her about herself and try to get her to like you more.
4. take her home( and its your choose if you want to try for a kiss

if you get a kiss that means that your in and your mostly 98% chance that she will
1. call you that night
2.you will have a second date

good luck bro

Blood, It sound like you have no exp. with women U_U

thx dude gonna need the luck. she's a bit outta my league :ghehe:

No one's out of anyone's "League"

just be with yourself dude..mostly girls like guys who are in theirselves, no trying hard and avoid also being clumsy

And when your talking to each other try to give a lil sense of humor

That's it..Good luck xd

Depends on the Girl...
_________________________________

You need to give us more info on the girl, (Age/Likes/Dislikes) if we don't know the girl, we won't be able to tell what type of date she will like to go on....

also, what do you plan to do? you must have some plan in your head already, tell us what it is so we can make changes if necessary...

 

[gamahiro]

Start a tickle fight then say, "I know! I'm going to stick my finger in your bellybutton." Then that's when you go for home base. She'll say, "That's not my bellybutton!!!" And you reply, "Suprise! That's not my finger."

 

[+BLOODsilent+]

................im just saying thats a general idea and i do but just being yourself is mostly what you need to do.....but find out what she likes in a guy because not all girls are the same...

 

[Daruny]

Meh, I was never good with love to begin with.

Though just take her to have fun I guess.

 

[+BLOODsilent+]

Start a tickle fight then say, "I know! I'm going to stick my finger in your bellybutton." Then that's when you go for home base. She'll say, "That's not my bellybutton!!!" And you reply, "Suprise! That's not my finger."

lmao thats funny but most girl wont like that and he may end up getting his bellybuttom taking in JAIL!!!!!!

 

[Escorpiius]

Start a tickle fight then say, "I know! I'm going to stick my finger in your bellybutton." Then that's when you go for home base. She'll say, "That's not my bellybutton!!!" And you reply, "Suprise! That's not my finger."

nice one once more gama.

 

[DeathPulse16]

Be respectful. Use your manners. If you go out to eat, pull her chair out for her. BE YOURSELF. Don't be fake, women don't like that and they can ususally see right through it and don't freak out and enjoy the time together.

 

[Xentinel]

Be yourselves.

Be gentlemen, as that is what all girls want. Example, when having the date, let her seat first, or when entering the restaurant let her in and make sure you are the one who pull the door for her.

Never talk about other girl, you will spoil her mood.

Make sure you dress well.

 

[shadedcrow]

Planning a first date is like fixing dinner for two. Plan it out in phases. And make 3 phase plan with back up plans.

And also every woman/girl is diffrent. If you can be friends with her friends this will give you privy access to info that you want/need to know. Be sly about it and dont ask questions directly to get the anwsers you need. Like ask her friends what songs they have/would put on a playlist(take this info with a pinch of salt and compensate lace in your personality too, because her friends will talk to her about you if you talk to them and vice versa COUNT ON THIS ).




Phase1) Think about what you know about this person. Talk about it over dinner or a walk in the park. ( this lets you both get to know each other.... dont address awkward topics unless she brings it up.)
Phase two) If she likes to be active, Procede to the park or go ride go karts, something that will be entertaining to the both of you but isnt exclusive. back up plan if she likes to kick back or is a drama queen(likes theater/movies this is found out from cleverly asking questions and deducing from phase 1) Go to a community production or a movie.(since this is your first date dont try the lame yawn/ arm around her shoulder... its hokey.. and a little strong. Id go with a movie before it gets dark. Or finishes shortly after.
Phase 3) the closing end with a sweet note...example... coffee/tea/ Ice cream/ slurpies from 7-11(if your paying for it and are on a budget make it classy go to the least ghetto 711 you know lol).

If your driving make a really varried play list. I'm sure you have room on your 8gig or more Ipod to show her you have taste in music.... put in the spooge that is currently playing on the local top 40 station. (this shows her your considerate and can have a open mind about things, even if you dont really like it, and she does)


Things you do and dont do totally reflect your mentality, and cognative capacity. She'll rember things you do and dont do and discuss them with all of her friends so even if things dont work out with her dont act like or be a douche, maybe her friend is a better match for you and is cute to boot.

Good luck, think, plan, and be confident. Being cool isnt about trying to be cool, its about being and accepting who you are and being true to your self and those around you.

 

[sixSageNaruto]

Avoid dinner and a movie it's been over done soo many times. try doing something exciting like go karting, snowboarding/skiing. Something she hasn't done before which you could teach her, it leaves lots of room to laugh, chat and joke. Girls like that.
Dinner and a movie comes later, not good for a first date, because your hardly talking.

Lastly, BE YOUR SELF!!!!.

 

[NarutoVsGoku]

no need to overthink it.

take her somewhere public and fun.
be funny and respectful.
pay for everything.!

thats it.

 

[Serpent]

Don't Pay for everything, she's not a Ho >_>

you pay for 3/4ths of the date...

 

[Jack Spicer]

Don't Pay for everything, she's not a Ho >_>

you pay for 3/4ths of the date...

THAT!^

I did that a couple times. I'm 16, this was during my early days of dating btw...which was at 14....I suck.....xd

I regret it now. Don't pay for all of it! Save some cash!

Anyways, I am single, loving and hating it, but even I'll tell you, don't stress and go with the flow. Then again, I am single....may not be the best advice...

 

[Serpent]

dude just take her out to what you think will be a good time, that's the best advice that anyone can give you...

and if she doesn't seem like she's having fun, just show her the puppies in the back of your Van O_O

 

[Jack Spicer]

Simply put, just relax, have fun, and well, that's it. Take a picture of you guys together so we, at the base, can see! Just tell her The Base demanded me! XD