Phactsmachine
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cheatYour counter point is non existent - since you fail to understand the meaning of cheating and keep getting it mixed up with other issues like group *** and partner swapping and what not.
That was a figure of speech whether you understood the zist of it or not- Save the ridiculous nitpicking, which is really neither here nor there.
What valid point? You keep saying valid point when there was none. I already detailed the definition of a cheat inmy reply to you and bolded it for your convineience and still you claim to that it was skipped. Do you think your repeating it will make it true somehow?
I think you are trying to cheat your way out right now. U_U
Neither I not the person 1 belittled you earlier . I cannot make any sense of rest of you GF(?) and your post in this part.
–noun
a person who acts dishonestly, deceives, or defrauds: He is a cheat and a liar.
a fraud; swindle; deception: The game was a cheat.
Law . the fraudulent obtaining of another's property by a pretense or trick.
Obviously the suffix -er has been applied here, and the verb is simply the act of being the noun.
be·lit·tle
–verb (used with object), -tled, -tling.
to regard or portray as less impressive or important than appearances indicate; depreciate; disparage.
Now that we have the same basic understanding of English, i will quickly point out two things. 1. I have no need to "bold" your text, i don't use your argument as the basis for mine but rather the opposing stand point to the issue. 2. Yes you were, by definition, belittling, dictionaries are powerful things, i would buy one if i were you.
With the small bickering out of the way i will go ahead and answer your belittling comments as if they were valid points as i believe you deserve the respect of your opinion. The "valid point" is pretty clear to anyone above 5th grade but i will go ahead and boil it down more, if possible. People cheat because they are animals. Girls only believe in monogamy because when they get pregnant they need a partner who will protect them in their weakened state and hopefully help rear the child. Funny enough monogamy is a recent invention of the Christian world. Its only in the past thousand years (out of billions) that it has actually become a trend.
Now as much as i love to argue, and i do, if you are interpreting this as the "ok" to commit to people and then turn around and do the opposite then you are bad at reading. In the particular case of marriage, where you announce to the world that you have selected this one person for life, cheating can truly occur on that term. In a regular relationship (that means no ring, sorry girls) cheating cannot exist unless you both clearly state that you will not have *** with others. For as i said before, you cant be dishonest if their was nothing to be honest about in the first place. It is YOUR responsibility to set the parameters of your relationships. Cheating occurs for 2 reasons, its only 2, if someone tells you otherwise they are wrong.
1. Self-improvement, not in the your a better person since, but in the since that you are doing something because it will improve your standings. Whether it be biological, financial, or personal the underlying story is they where trading up.
2. Mystery, sounds stupid and it is, when people cheat do to curiosity of the unknown it falls under this category. The phrase "rules are made to be broken" applies very much for this same reason. Its more of a test for your ability, to see how far you can go or whats on the other side. This unfortunately has a strong tendency to bleed back into 1 if they discover the other side is better.
P.S. On a personal note, you chose one out of my three points to be your prime example which as a whole shows your incompetency in your own opinion. Don't write a rebuttal if you cant answer the argument as a whole. I also hope you realize that a large number of males that post on forums that have sexual undertones, such as cheating, are doing so to win the affection of the opposite ***. This is no different than searching for a girl on Craigslist, in fact it also causes you to lie more when you can assume a pseudonym. So essentially this whole thread is filled with cheaters, by your definition of-course. I got bored and flipped through the first few pages, already found 3 blatant lies trying to make the poster seem more desirable or powerful. I look forward to your response. And lastly, i give credit where credit is due, she didn't help me write this one so you don't see her name.