[Discussion] Cheating

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Cheating on your boyfriend or girlfriend is not the end of the world, people. I've been in relationships where I've cheated, been cheated on, and been in open relationships where it feels like cheating but technically is not. The point is, every relationship ends in someone getting hurt. There's no way around it.
I dont reallly know what to say to that a part from, good luck finding a husband..................
 

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he cheated on me with my best friend i walked in on them. :eek: i was ticked but i'm better off. thanks tho haha
Damn that suck, I would never do my best friends GF.

But for all those people saying that cheating is always bad, you are wrong:cool:

if you read my comments before you would know, its actually possible to FIX relationships by cheating/being cheated on.
You only see one side of a coin
 
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Damn that suck, I would never do my best friends GF.

But for all those people saying that cheating is always bad, you are wrong:cool:

if you read my comments before you would know, its actually possible to FIX relationships by cheating/being cheated on.
You only see one side of a coin
Exactly! Forbidden love is amazing! :kiss:

he cheated on me with my best friend i walked in on them. :eek: i was ticked but i'm better off. thanks tho haha
Either your ex had a big crush on your friend or you we're good looking, which made your gf jealous and pulled the robbery on you. Im guesting your gf only takes only sloppy seconds?

But hey, you've been their done that. There plenty fish on the sea. Heck you might catch a big one.
 

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I dont reallly know what to say to that a part from, good luck finding a husband..................
hey now, that's just plain mean!

for one, haha i don't think i'll ever need luck to find a husband, as i am a heterosexual male. secondly, i'm with the woman i am going to marry. i love her with all my heart and will never cheat on her.

i'm simply making the case for why cheating happens, and why it's understandable circumstantially.
 

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cheat on everyone u find out there.its fun.it gives experience. its fun and its so much fun.i cheat everywhere.in college, in games,contests everywhere. i even cheat life itself. im the greatest cheater. those who like me raise ur hands and join me and those who disagree send ur regards through negative rep....U_U
 

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cheat on everyone u find out there.its fun.it gives experience. its fun and its so much fun.i cheat everywhere.in college, in games,contests everywhere. i even cheat life itself. im the greatest cheater. those who like me raise ur hands and join me and those who disagree send ur regards through negative rep....U_U
TrollU_U
 

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Well, it depends. Some even accept it rather. For me, it's plainly bad, immoral. Cause when you enter a relationship, you should know the restriction you've put yourself upon you (eve more serious for marriage). If you just want to have fun, then don't bring up emotions in between.
Once you are emotionally linked with someone, cheating on that person is really bad. Atleast, break off first.

But like I was saying some have their reasons and some even accept it. Like I won't reveal mcuh but I know a man wh's married and has 2 child. She cheated on his wife and had another baby with that other woman. Worse, that other woman's husband accepts that and the strained cheated relation for money sake as that guy keeps gifting her wife things ect...
It's like sell your wife at day and return her at night for you. Really awful but I can't judge them. I rather don't tell you some of the other cases.

Moral of the story: There are always someone who suffers in this story while some do take profit on it. It's wrong for me but we can't really judge people since their issues are best known to them.
There is always someone who suffers and gets hurt. the other one are just acting as a pimp and in business.. the oldest profession in the world.

well but thats it, you think it is always wrong but i have to disagree im not a person who would cheat on a girl that im in love with but still i think im openminded.. alot.
I know some people for instance, a guy who just can't be only with one girl for too long he got a girl and love her as she loves him, but from time to time he goes out and have *** with random chick.It makes him happy and make his relationship with his girl better, his gf don't know about this ofc so it is not affecting her in any way.If i had GF who would love me but cheat on me few times, i woulndt want to know.
The thing is, people can think rationaly but still emotions are controlling us, some more and some less and because it doesnt do weird things with you it doesnt mean its the same for others. For instance I can think rationaly, Im highly logical person and my biggest flaw is that im lazy- superlazy i want not to be lazy but it just doesnt work like that, and the same way some people got urge to sleep with more people and can't stop it.
Mostly it is bad to cheat but not always there are situations in life that it might help, it can even get your relationship into better shape sometimes.

oh fkt thats alot of useless text lol
If you are open minded and really believe that it improves relationships and doesn't hurt why wouldn't you want to know?

Believe me it always affects the innocent party in the end. Sooner or later. and when it does- it may affect that person real bad, depending on his personality and how much he/she had invested in the relationship from his/her side. I only hope that girl has enough will power to take the shock and move on with minimum negative impact.

You are contradicted on the issue because your friend acts that way and you think that he seems to be doing all right.

It's always a mistake. My ex acted the same way - and learned the lesson. I was married for more 7 years by then. I do not trust anybody now except me.

Long Distance Relationship can be so hard.....sigh.....

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cheating... its programmed in a guy's mind to spread his seed...

For girls, I believe they cheat because their man is not satisfying her needs.

Do I think it's wrong to cheat? Ya..... Would I dump my g/f if I found out she cheated on me? Yes.... Would I still use her as a f*k buddy?....Probably.
Long distance relationship are always tough- yours is too unique I think from what I read from your posts- you don't even know the girl...

no you really think that its justifiable, a woman who cheats is a ***** and a ***** for life.
Thanks for introducing bigotry in here. U_U

Damn that suck, I would never do my best friends GF.
But for all those people saying that cheating is always bad, you are wrong:cool:

if you read my comments before you would know, its actually possible to FIX relationships by cheating/being cheated on.
You only see one side of a coin
BF's GF.. great. typical male fellowship- respect your BF. What about BF of you GF?

Fixing relationship after cheating is possible but you know when a thread is broken you can tie it back and make it whole - but there is this roughness however neat the tie is ( where it is tied back) and it's never as smooth as it was at first. It can still hold the family together and neckless make look good and what not but it's better if you do not have to get it repaired. the repair costs are too high.

cheat on everyone u find out there.its fun.it gives experience. its fun and its so much fun.i cheat everywhere.in college, in games,contests everywhere. i even cheat life itself. im the greatest cheater. those who like me raise ur hands and join me and those who disagree send ur regards through negative rep....U_U
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What?
 

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getting caught in what
i'll start from scratch.a person cheats when he cant get something the right way.after cheating if u get caught then u will lose that thing.so people say that cheating sucks.But if u dont get caught, u get to keep that thing and u say cheating rocks...
 

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i'll start from scratch.a person cheats when he cant get something the right way.after cheating if u get caught then u will lose that thing.so people say that cheating sucks.But if u dont get caught, u get to keep that thing and u say cheating rocks...
I see your point. Though you're assuming that people think it sucks just cause they can't do it properly themselves while a lot of people here have that kind of opinion cause they've experienced the pain of getting dumped? ( in certain cases of cheating) or they simply thing that cheating is for loser who can't bother to play it fair.
 
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