[Discussion] Cheating

[~The Norwegian~]

but, it's not only the guy that cheats, remeber that.

 

[Wildtangent]

unless its an open relationship this a retarded question, how can cheating be good? in every culture in the world its as disrespectful as raping your wife.

who are your friends that think this? are they prostitutes?

Its a mix of boys and girls- I agree with you cheating it's good but I'm not asking if its good. I'm asking if cheating can be justified- like if your in a ldr and you both cheat is that justifiable? Some of my friends believe it cannot be justified and other believe it can be within reason. I found the same here on NB- and I think its interesting to see everyones opinions.

i hate cheaters, wallhacks, aimbot etc.

Oh,wait... :|

if someone cheats on you, thats how it was destined to be,theres nothing you can do,except to break up,thats it. If he cheated on you once,he will do it again.
Believe it, I'm a guy, I know what I'm saying. Just dump him already.

I agree but its not always that easy.

but, it's not only the guy that cheats, remeber that.

Oh i know. I know of girls that cheat as well and no matter what the gender its just as bad.

 

[Hipster Madara]

Cheating is bad under ALL circumstances
for boys saying its their instincts or whatever, humans are intelligent enough to go against their instincts and if ur not then u will suffer losing a lot of GF's because of cheating

 

[Dukeofhell]

Its a mix of boys and girls- I agree with you cheating it's good but I'm not asking if its good. I'm asking if cheating can be justified- like if your in a ldr and you both cheat is that justifiable? Some of my friends believe it cannot be justified and other believe it can be within reason. I found the same here on NB- and I think its interesting to see everyones opinions.

no you really think that its justifiable, a woman who cheats is a ***** and a ***** for life.

 

[narutokyubi]

cheating is bad, I agreee hell even though Ive never had gfs, but yeah, unrequited crushes............................

 

[Hipster Madara]

no you really think that its justifiable, a woman who cheats is a ***** and a ***** for life.

sadly, this is true and same goes for men
just way things work :shrug:

 

[Wildtangent]

Cheating is bad under ALL circumstances
for boys saying its their instincts or whatever, humans are intelligent enough to go against their instincts and if ur not then u will suffer losing a lot of GF's because of cheating

I agree

no you really think that its justifiable, a woman who cheats is a ***** and a ***** for life.

No I really dont think its justifiable- no matter what. If a man/women has thoughts of cheating then it needs to be broken off. And not only women cheat. If cheating makes a women a ***** then what does that make a man? I dont agree or disagree with you on the comment of women who chear are whores- but it takes two to tango- and both genders are capable of cheating. U_U oh and please dont tell me what I think and dont think. Your not me so you really dont know.

 

[TimGetsDown]

Cheating on your boyfriend or girlfriend is not the end of the world, people. I've been in relationships where I've cheated, been cheated on, and been in open relationships where it feels like cheating but technically is not. The point is, every relationship ends in someone getting hurt. There's no way around it.

Out of respect to the significant other's psyche, I suggest NOT getting caught or telling them. Call me a *****, I'll take that. But I don't see a point in blind fidelity unless you're married.

 

[Jack Spicer]

Cheating on your boyfriend or girlfriend is not the end of the world, people. I've been in relationships where I've cheated, been cheated on, and been in open relationships where it feels like cheating but technically is not. The point is, every relationship ends in someone getting hurt. There's no way around it.

Out of respect to the significant other's psyche, I suggest NOT getting caught or telling them. Call me a *****, I'll take that. But I don't see a point in blind fidelity unless you're married.

Aren't you just negative?

 

[Wildtangent]

Aren't you just negative?

haha I was about to post that. haha

 

[TimGetsDown]

Aren't you just negative?

Haha no I promise I'm not. Negativity, bitterness, and cynicism are three of my least favorite human traits. I guess in reference to my statement, I'm a pragmatist. Even if you're happily married for 70 years, odds are someone is gonna die first. Hence no matter how great it is, someone gets hurt.

 

[Wildtangent]

Haha no I promise I'm not. Negativity, bitterness, and cynicism are three of my least favorite human traits. I guess in reference to my statement, I'm a pragmatist. Even if you're happily married for 70 years, odds are someone is gonna die first. Hence no matter how great it is, someone gets hurt.

its not about the time you spend together but the memories that you make. For when one is gone the other will have those memories live on in there heart forever and always until once again they reunite. U_U I have spoken. haha

 

[Jack Spicer]

Haha no I promise I'm not. Negativity, bitterness, and cynicism are three of my least favorite human traits. I guess in reference to my statement, I'm a pragmatist. Even if you're happily married for 70 years, odds are someone is gonna die first. Hence no matter how great it is, someone gets hurt.

I see your point, but what if both of you do in a car crash at the same time via broken necks?


I don't look at it that way. I really don't have an opinion on relationships. As long as people are happy, that's awesome.

I, myself, find relationships boring. I'm a laid back lazy guy who does his own thing xd I chill, write, and just hang around playng games or watching TV.

 

[TimGetsDown]

its not about the time you spend together but the memories that you make. For when one is gone the other will have those memories live on in there heart forever and always until once again they reunite. U_U I have spoken. haha

haha well said. well said and true. i want to be clear: i am not saying relationships orrrr fidelity is a bad thing. but what you said, is applicable to any relationship with anybody. including the ones where there is cheating.

 

[TimGetsDown]

I see your point, but what if both of you do in a car crash at the same time via broken necks?


I don't look at it that way. I really don't have an opinion on relationships. As long as people are happy, that's awesome.

I, myself, find relationships boring. I'm a laid back lazy guy who does his own thing xd I chill, write, and just hang around playng games or watching TV.

I feel you bro. Haha and i suppose in that particular circumstance, the relationship ended on good terms. Tragically and abruptly, but on good terms.

Relationships aren't for everybody, especially when you're a young'n (forgive me for assuming you are). But when they do happen, i think it's just really important to take it for what it is, and not blow it up into something we want it to be.

 

[Yondaime Raikage]

Alright so I have talked to some of my friends (boys and girls) and each have a different opinion on the idea of cheating. Some people think that its not so bad that ther person usually has a good reason for it- while others (like me) believe that it is wrong. I was wondering what you guys think state your opinon and give some reasons for it. You can give personal experenices as well as tell stories.

My reasoning for it being wrong is that I believe that if a person has that big of earge to go out with another person or sleep with another person then they should leave/break up with the one they are with (realize its not that easy). I think it would be worse to drag it on and then get caught.

Im curious are you a girl or a boy? Has your spouce cheated on you?

 

[Wildtangent]

Im curious are you a girl or a boy? Has your spouce cheated on you?

I am a girl (22) and yess my spouse has cheated on me before. why?

 

[masterylucain]

cheating is pathetic. just break up with the girl, for the other. even that is horrible, but it's not as bad as cheating. just break up if u gotta

 

[Yondaime Raikage]

I am a girl (22) and yess my spouse has cheated on me before. why?

So that is the reason why you posted this thread. We've all been cheated. But, you know what? That pain and suffering will make you stronger. He may have broken your heart in a short run but in a long run his heart will be broken into millions of pieces.

To me its not cheating when you are reading the menu. But when you order of the menu then you are cheating.O.O

 

[Wildtangent]

So that is the reason why you posted this thread. We've all been cheated. But, you know what? That pain and suffering will make you stronger. He may have broken your heart in a short run but in a long run his heart will be broken into millions of pieces.

To me its not cheating when you are reading the menu. But when you order of the menu then you are cheating.O.O

he cheated on me with my best friend i walked in on them. i was ticked but i'm better off. thanks tho haha