[Discussion] Cheating

[BlacKing]

no she left me for some pakistani guy

Ouch

 

[Wildtangent]

Then maybe your not one of us.

or maybe he has respect for himself and others and doesnt live his life between his legs...

 

[Tsukune]

Then maybe your not one of us.

* checks boxers * yep i am or rather by your definition of us do you mean cheater like yourself xd or male like you?

im just kidding yea im a guy but im a nice guy, im the guy who will always be trustworthy and never betray anyone.

 

[House]

or maybe he has respect for himself and others and doesnt live his life between his legs...

If you ask any guy out there, they will disagree with me and why? Just to get some for the night. I can be all angel too you know. You can believe in that respect all you want but when the guy who "cared about you" has left your ass, don't bitch about it.

 

[Tsukune]

or maybe he has respect for himself and others and doesnt live his life between his legs...

rep+ because this is really funny

 

[Gin-San]

I read that somewhere that males can't stop themselves from cheating hence it's encoded in our genes. It's doesn't matter how badly we'd like to stop ourselves, it's in our genes to cheat. No offense woman but you belong in the kitchen.
PS. I read a lot of medical journals so who disagrees with me, I shall take it to the next level.

BS bro, yes, medically speaking, the genes in a male's body (sometimes female) reproduce high amounts of testosterone which increments the level of attraction.
The thing that differences between human and animal is our rational thought, we are able to control ourselfs in a extend that other species cannot.
It takes a real man to respect and live next to a woman without cheating on her,
and a jackass cowardly animal (with exceptions) to cheat in the woman he "love".
Humans can take it in such extend, that a relationship does not relly on ***, but getting to know the person you love no-sexually.
If you want to take it to another level, Im on.

 

[Wildtangent]

If you ask any guy out there, they will disagree with me and why? Just to get some for the night. I can be all angel too you know. You can believe in that respect all you want but when the guy who "cared about you" has left your ass, don't bitch about it.

you are entitled to you opinon, and I will respect it as your opinion but nothing more- but please dont swear. and for the record if a guy leaves me then obviously it wasnt meant to be.

BS bro, yes, medically speaking, the genes in a male's body (sometimes female) reproduce high amounts of testosterone which increments the level of attraction.
The thing that differences between human and animal is our rational thought, we are able to control ourselfs in a extend that other species cannot.
It takes a real man to respect and live next to a woman without cheating on her,
and a jackass cowardly animal (with exceptions) to cheat in the woman he "love".
Humans can take it in such extend, that a relationship does not relly on ***, but getting to know the person you love no-sexually.
If you want to take it to another level, Im on.

ItachiLaRule your the type of guy that gives guys like these guys ^^ bad raps- when obviously he deserves a nice young lady that will be faithful to him as well.

 

[Wildtangent]

this is complete bull**** ive had MANY opportunities to cheat and never have, even when i was at a friends house she came out of the bathroom naked ( she knew i was waiting outside the bathroom ) i basically handed her the towel i was holding because i was going to take a shower when she was done but instead of cheating, i gave her the towel and walked away

and this includes you too lol (sorry my internet is running slow there is a bad storm rolling in)

 

[kisamexRocks]

Cheating is stupid and those that cheat are blinded by their ignorance and ideology of their perfect life. People cheat for a bunch of reasons, most specifically, they are not satisfied with their partner. Instead of cheating work it out and if not, then seperate. No need to ruin your repa nd your honor by cheating.

Glad I can control myself and not live my life byt thinking with my **** but with my head. I'm currently in a relationship with this amazing women and I honestly think that she will not cheat and I'm seriously lucky to have her.

Your friends might say, cheating is okay, because theyh either have cheated or havent been cheated on. When they get cocky like that I cannot wait for karma to strike them. How about they get married, love their partner like crazy and have kids, then BAM surprise, the kids aren't theirs. Once that happens, ask them the same question on what their view is on cheating.

IF I don't like something in my partner, I ignore it and replace it with something that I love about my partner.

 

[Igneel]

To be frank most men are in a relationship for ***,most of my friends fall into this category..
so for them it's not cheating it's more like an adventure,banging different girls each day.
I won't tell tell that i'm innocent,there have been times when i have been tempted to sleep with girls while i was having a relationship with another..but i didn't ..thats bcoz i respected my g.f and she cheated on me :| .....
life isn't fair some times..

 

[Wildtangent]

To be frank most men are in a relationship for ***,most of my friends fall into this category..
so for them it's not cheating it's more like an adventure,banging different girls each day.
I won't tell tell that i'm innocent,there have been times when i have been tempted to sleep with girls while i was having a relationship with another..but i didn't ..thats bcoz i respected my g.f and she cheated on me :| .....
life isn't fair some times..

I am sure everyone has had that time where they wanted to sleep with someone (from someone you know to someone you saw on tv like Megan Fox or something). But I think its good to hear that you resisted and stayed faithful because of your respect for you gf. I am sorry however to hear she did not do the same- and I hope that someday you find a nice girl (if you haven't already)

 

[Avani]

Alright so I have talked to some of my friends (boys and girls) and each have a different opinion on the idea of cheating. Some people think that its not so bad that ther person usually has a good reason for it- while others (like me) believe that it is wrong. I was wondering what you guys think state your opinon and give some reasons for it. You can give personal experenices as well as tell stories.

My reasoning for it being wrong is that I believe that if a person has that big of earge to go out with another person or sleep with another person then they should leave/break up with the one they are with (realize its not that easy). I think it would be worse to drag it on and then get caught.

Cheating hurts and there is never a good reason for it- just excuses made as after thought.

(Most) relationships are, by definition, a special bond, both sexual and non-sexual, between two people. Cheating is a violation of that bond that implies that that bond should never have existed. I agree with you.

Perhaps your friends have never experienced cheating.

True and rep for you.

I read that somewhere that males can't stop themselves from cheating hence it's encoded in our genes. It's doesn't matter how badly we'd like to stop ourselves, it's in our genes to cheat. No offense woman but you belong in the kitchen.
PS. I read a lot of medical journals so who disagrees with me, I shall take it to the next level.

Get the medical journal for the bolded part and we are on.

You are going to justify your cheating then be ready- Women do not outnumber men that much. In some parts of the world males in the marriagable age outnumber females and young male child ratio is even higher than female ratio.

So you will end up sleeping with someone elses wife and girl friend and so will be he- probably yours. Good luck if your son is really yours.

Later.

 

[Alphonse Elric]

I find cheating pretty bad. I admit I cheated before on my old girlfriend but that's just because she didn't care about me. But my current one I'm sticking with and plan on not cheating on. Some guys need to use their upper head instead of their lower one to decide who they choose. But now I will never cheat anymore because I don't want to hurt her or do anything that may upset her. She knows pretty much everything about my past already so I just move on and be faithful unlike some. ^_^

 

[Tsukune]

To be frank most men are in a relationship for ***,most of my friends fall into this category..
so for them it's not cheating it's more like an adventure,banging different girls each day.
I won't tell tell that i'm innocent,there have been times when i have been tempted to sleep with girls while i was having a relationship with another..but i didn't ..thats bcoz i respected my g.f and she cheated on me :| .....
life isn't fair some times..

ive been there, it does suck

 

[Wildtangent]

Cheating hurts and there is never a good reason for it- just excuses made as after thought.



True and rep for you.



Get the medical journal for the bolded part and we are on.

You are going to justify your cheating then be ready- Women do not outnumber men that much. In some parts of the world males in the marriagable age outnumber females and young male child ratio is even higher than female ratio.

So you will end up sleeping with someone elses wife and girl friend and so will be he- probably yours. Good luck if your son is really yours.

Later.

^^ that was epic rep+ But i agree with you in every way.

 

[Igneel]

ive been there, it does suck

yup it does suck and when i confronted her..she says i'm not serious enough...and we broke up

 

[Wildtangent]

yup it does suck and when i confronted her..she says i'm not serious enough...and we broke up

keep your head up- she wasnt worth it- you deserve better

 

[Escorpiius]

Well, it depends. Some even accept it rather.
For me, it's plainly bad, immoral. Cause when you enter a relationship, you should know the restriction you've put yourself upon you (eve more serious for marriage). If you just want to have fun, then don't bring up emotions in between.
Once you are emotionally linked with someone, cheating on that person is really bad. Atleast, break off first.

But like I was saying some have their reasons and some even accept it. Like I won't reveal mcuh but I know a man wh's married and has 2 child. She cheated on his wife and had another baby with that other woman. Worse, that other woman's husband accepts that and the strained cheated relation for money sake as that guy keeps gifting her wife things ect...
It's like sell your wife at day and return her at night for you. Really awful but I can't judge them. I rather don't tell you some of the other cases.

Moral of the story: There are always someone who suffers in this story while some do take profit on it. It's wrong for me but we can't really judge people since their issues are best known to them.

 

[KattyRedCloud1706]

ithink cheating is wrong , my ex cheated on me with 6 other girls and none of us knew about the rest he asked us all to marry him eventually i found out we broke up then when i got with someone else he came after us with a knife but my big bro and mates found him beat the **** out of him .

the joy of psyco exes

 

[Phobos]

meh, life is not black and white
you shouldn't judge others by yourself, what is natural for one is impossible for another
you people are too quick to judge how bad cheating is (or the other way around for some) but it's not just that easy and that apply for many things U_U