cheaters

[Shade]

Yes, I also enjoy this talk very very much.
If the "fulfillment of the pleasure", comes for both sides i am totally fine with it. Cause unlike most women, i don't need promises, nor a commitment to do a beautiful, normal thing, also i don't need to feel that it must lead to something. It can be whole as it is ^^
Oh yeah...Karma & Dharma...i am no expert either, but i am studying them for quite some years now. I think i know already what my dharma is...as for my karma i have no clue xD
Yeah, deprive oneself of a desire could be a way to call good things, but i believe that the best way is to be true to yourself and not be ashamed for your needs and desires.
On a more personal note: I am still a regular woman, when i cheated no one found out.

I relate this topic to hinduism because everyone knows Ghandi and what he has been through. He lowered himself to that equal to the poorest of his nation, so that he may rebuild India from the poorest to the richest, not simply through the flawed method of previous bureaucracy.
Many people in the years have deprived themselves from desires, comforts, temptation, food, drink... the list goes on. I never said ignoring one's desires to be good. That would be ignorance. I state that acknowledging the temptations, yet overcoming them is the true strength.
As I read in certain texts and books: If a person does a moral action, yet is ignorant of it's significance, the actions morality is null.
I am just starting to study Taoism, so I would like to know how that fits in to this context. I will read tomorrow on the subject.

As a regular guy, I would enjoy a little mutual enjoyment and depending with whom, it could go somewhere. If not, meh...
To put it bluntly, we are imperfect and in our strive to improve ourselves, we hit some speedbumps and sleep with a couple people along the way...

 

[Dean-Winchester]

women like to complain anywyas so yeah i would probally cheat
& den ask her for forgivness if it was even worth it

Spoiler

RANDOMLY wishies yourchi was a real live woman thinking wat a nice babe she would B STILLL

 

[Faceless]

*reads all the comments in this thread*

Sigh... I'll leave all my thoughts to myself. I'm afraid I might insult someone here if I give my opinion so yeah >.>

 

[Lovepotion]

*reads all the comments in this thread*

Sigh... I'll leave all my thoughts to myself. I'm afraid I might insult someone here if I give my opinion so yeah >.>

exactly what i thought

 

[-Andy-]

have u ever cheated on someone u love personally i think it's wrong! wrong! wrong! lol even if i did i won't tell

okay this thread is so not for me >_> *leaves*

 

[Lara]

okay this thread is so not for me >_> *leaves*

lol xD

 

[TC9tails]

plenty of times

 

[Zanji]

Not a chance in hell would I do that, personally to me "cheating" on the woman you love is the lowest thing a man could do. To me I don't see how a man can have a girlfriend or that special someone then turn around and sleep with someone else all because he gave into temptation, let his second head make the decision, and so on and so fourth.
I am sorry but you just can't say you truly love your boyfriend or girlfriend if say "I love you" to them then go and your hormones go on a rage when your around someone and you make love to that person. What if that person wants that to happen again? What if that person thinks it actually meant something and thinks the two of you are dating and openly kisses you in public and around your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse. Imagine what will be running threw their head? Imagine what they would be thinking. Me as a male I would quite literally go on a rampage and be the shit out of the guy if he kissed the woman I love with me right there in public. Sure it would be out of jealousy but it would be in my nature the way I grew up is that you don't allow another man to kiss your girlfriend with you around.
As well as if you did cheat, and you don't tell your partner and you and your partner make love the same night. Your Partner will know, even without you saying anything they will be suspicious. As well as if you cheat then you will basically be saying that your partner doesn't satisfy you the way you want. Then if your partner finds out the catastrophic psychological damage it does depresses them big time because they know they didn't satisfy your partner.

So no I have never and will NEVER cheat on the woman I love. Its just immoral to me

 

[Bianca]

have u ever cheated on someone u love personally i think it's wrong! wrong! wrong! lol even if i did i won't tell

in real life, never!
online....rofl plenty of times

 

[zumorikato]

Not a chance in hell would I do that, personally to me "cheating" on the woman you love is the lowest thing a man could do. To me I don't see how a man can have a girlfriend or that special someone then turn around and sleep with someone else all because he gave into temptation, let his second head make the decision, and so on and so fourth.
I am sorry but you just can't say you truly love your boyfriend or girlfriend if say "I love you" to them then go and your hormones go on a rage when your around someone and you make love to that person. What if that person wants that to happen again? What if that person thinks it actually meant something and thinks the two of you are dating and openly kisses you in public and around your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse. Imagine what will be running threw their head? Imagine what they would be thinking. Me as a male I would quite literally go on a rampage and be the shit out of the guy if he kissed the woman I love with me right there in public. Sure it would be out of jealousy but it would be in my nature the way I grew up is that you don't allow another man to kiss your girlfriend with you around.
As well as if you did cheat, and you don't tell your partner and you and your partner make love the same night. Your Partner will know, even without you saying anything they will be suspicious. As well as if you cheat then you will basically be saying that your partner doesn't satisfy you the way you want. Then if your partner finds out the catastrophic psychological damage it does depresses them big time because they know they didn't satisfy your partner.

So no I have never and will NEVER cheat on the woman I love. Its just immoral to me

I agree with you 100% Zanji, that is the best answer to these type of Q's!

Cheating is as low as eating bread infront of a hungry Ethiopian!

If you cheat, because the "feeling is mutual" you are really actually a self-centred person, that only thinks about your own feelings, unfortunately most of the things in a relationship needs 2 people, 2 people to have ***, 2 people to love each other, 2 people to marry. If you act on your hormones you lack self control, and become selfish. Im sorry if this offends some one, but I find it very interesting how certain people saying "stereo typing" so easily if people only placing their point of view.

I really dont like the fact that you need to accept whom you are and make peace with it type of action. Thats like saying: oh Im a rapist/murderer/ ect so lets just accept it and continue on with raping/murdering or whatever it is. I think that you should always strive to be better, accept your problems, accept your flaws, but dont just accept them, do something about them. If you dont think cheating is immoral if it is mutual, why then do you think that cheating is banned from games, from casino's from relationships?

And yes we all are human, so yes we will make mistakes, but its how we strive to make yourself better that will differentiate you from others, still struggling to find a better way to live life.

Remember, do on to others what you would like others to do onto yourself.

 

[Lawliet]

Not a chance in hell would I do that, personally to me "cheating" on the woman you love is the lowest thing a man could do. To me I don't see how a man can have a girlfriend or that special someone then turn around and sleep with someone else all because he gave into temptation, let his second head make the decision, and so on and so fourth.
I am sorry but you just can't say you truly love your boyfriend or girlfriend if say "I love you" to them then go and your hormones go on a rage when your around someone and you make love to that person. What if that person wants that to happen again? What if that person thinks it actually meant something and thinks the two of you are dating and openly kisses you in public and around your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse. Imagine what will be running threw their head? Imagine what they would be thinking. Me as a male I would quite literally go on a rampage and be the shit out of the guy if he kissed the woman I love with me right there in public. Sure it would be out of jealousy but it would be in my nature the way I grew up is that you don't allow another man to kiss your girlfriend with you around.
As well as if you did cheat, and you don't tell your partner and you and your partner make love the same night. Your Partner will know, even without you saying anything they will be suspicious. As well as if you cheat then you will basically be saying that your partner doesn't satisfy you the way you want. Then if your partner finds out the catastrophic psychological damage it does depresses them big time because they know they didn't satisfy your partner.

So no I have never and will NEVER cheat on the woman I love. Its just immoral to me

Zanji pretty much said it all...

and i agree with him.

If you truly love someone you would never do anything to hurt them.

Cheating on someone you love is just plain stupid, you're not only hurting the person you are a boyfriend/girlfriend to you're also hurting the person you cheated with.

 

[MadMax]

in real life, never!
online....rofl plenty of times

you cheated on me >_< lol

Now, seriously. It's wrong yes, but some times inevitable - If you love somebody, but he/she doesn't give you what you need, and you do everything for him/her.. You'll say: "Why don't you just break with/leave this person?" You know, you don't love someone, cuz of the ***, but it's an important part of your relationship.

WTH am i talking about anyways... 0_0

 

[Lawliet]

you cheated on me >_< lol

Now, seriously. It's wrong yes, but some times inevitable - If you love somebody, but he/she doesn't give you what you need, and you do everything for him/her.. You'll say: "Why don't you just break with/leave this person?" You know, you don't love someone, cuz of the ***, but it's an important part of your relationship.

WTH am i talking about anyways... 0_0

Inevitable? If people just had self-control, there would be no problem.

lol what you said did not make sense xD

If you are in a relationship and that person doesn't give you what you need then you obviously have to speak to that person and sort things out... and if it's not working from both sides, i guess it would be time to move on?

 

[MadMax]

Inevitable? If people just had self-control, there would be no problem.

lol what you said did not make sense xD

If you are in a relationship and that person doesn't give you what you need then you obviously have to speak to that person and sort things out... and if it's not working from both sides, i guess it would be time to move on?

that's why i said:

WTH am i talking about anyways... 0_0

 

[zumorikato]

Inevitable? If people just had self-control, there would be no problem.

lol what you said did not make sense xD

If you are in a relationship and that person doesn't give you what you need then you obviously have to speak to that person and sort things out... and if it's not working from both sides, i guess it would be time to move on?

Wise words my friend so true. The problem is not with the *** part its with the communication part, or rather the lack there of!


Reps fr you bro!!!!!!!!!!