Hi there... I apologize my English is not so good, and this is gonna be a wall of words. I'm sorry about that.
This is a problem many of us might have faced... You pick up a goal you really like, you talk about your goal to others and get their consult, you start with so much energy and after 2 months you feel so tired about that goal, start resting too much, do some useless things and then you pick another goal...
This is the loop of my life for a year and six months...
For example :
1- I was so good at discrete mathematics in collage, I was sent to computer Olympiad from my collage.
2- I was also good at programming. I was developing Android software from age 16.
3- I tried my best to enter a good university at field of software engineering.
4- I picked a goal : continuing on to get my p.h.D from a good university and becoming a teacher there.
5- The first semester, I was the rank #2 out of 100 students... During this period, I was always happy with my goal.
6- Then the nightmare started... I felt too tired so I decided to listen to music, go to nature, play chess, sleep more, watch films, play games, browse web and instagram too much, etc...
7- But none of those things could make me happy (after 2-3 weeks)... I was just too tired and nothing could help.
8- Then, I decided to take another goal : building video games ; it was always fun for me so why not?
9- Once again I was very happy with the new goal and I had a lot of energy...
10- But, once again, after 2 months I was tired of it....
The goals I have had in recent 2 years : become a good teacher at a good university, become a game developer, become a digital artist, become a chess player, leave the university and start studying high school once again to become a doctor, and now I am intrested in philosophy and I have already bought some philosophy books:elmo: ...
Note : When I say I take a goal, I really mean it... for example I stopped going to classes for 4 months and started studying from the beginning to become a doctor.... That semester, I failed terribly that no one ever expected from me (even myself)...
These thoughts are normal when you are still a kid or teenage... But come on, I'm already 21 :elmo:
Now my parents are dissatisfied with me, I am dissatisfied with the field I am studying at, and I have the goal of becoming a philosopher... But I already know that if I start, I will be tired of this one too...
Has anyone faced this problem? Has anyone heard about the solution to this problem? Please help me. This is so serious.
This is a problem many of us might have faced... You pick up a goal you really like, you talk about your goal to others and get their consult, you start with so much energy and after 2 months you feel so tired about that goal, start resting too much, do some useless things and then you pick another goal...
This is the loop of my life for a year and six months...
For example :
1- I was so good at discrete mathematics in collage, I was sent to computer Olympiad from my collage.
2- I was also good at programming. I was developing Android software from age 16.
3- I tried my best to enter a good university at field of software engineering.
4- I picked a goal : continuing on to get my p.h.D from a good university and becoming a teacher there.
5- The first semester, I was the rank #2 out of 100 students... During this period, I was always happy with my goal.
6- Then the nightmare started... I felt too tired so I decided to listen to music, go to nature, play chess, sleep more, watch films, play games, browse web and instagram too much, etc...
7- But none of those things could make me happy (after 2-3 weeks)... I was just too tired and nothing could help.
8- Then, I decided to take another goal : building video games ; it was always fun for me so why not?
9- Once again I was very happy with the new goal and I had a lot of energy...
10- But, once again, after 2 months I was tired of it....
The goals I have had in recent 2 years : become a good teacher at a good university, become a game developer, become a digital artist, become a chess player, leave the university and start studying high school once again to become a doctor, and now I am intrested in philosophy and I have already bought some philosophy books:elmo: ...
Note : When I say I take a goal, I really mean it... for example I stopped going to classes for 4 months and started studying from the beginning to become a doctor.... That semester, I failed terribly that no one ever expected from me (even myself)...
These thoughts are normal when you are still a kid or teenage... But come on, I'm already 21 :elmo:
Now my parents are dissatisfied with me, I am dissatisfied with the field I am studying at, and I have the goal of becoming a philosopher... But I already know that if I start, I will be tired of this one too...
Has anyone faced this problem? Has anyone heard about the solution to this problem? Please help me. This is so serious.
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