Not really, no. I've never had anything tragic happen to me to the extent as some of the characters nor have I ever been on the receiving end of the Talk No Jutsu; 2 staples of the series, in my opinion.
I guess I can relate to Gaara, Sasuke and Naruto in Part 1 since I was a loner and people thought there was something wrong with me. My teacher even told my parents to take me to a psychologist, not in a mean way, but in a caring way cause she was worried about me. Although I still am kind of the same but better.