can someone tell me why.....

[izinagi54]

its been 4 months since my granmother died and i made her a shrine in my back yard well someone who jumped her fence saw it and smashed it and broke it in 4.... i am so pissed off i cant even see straight.... i... don't blame them.... though i blame myself....

am i fool to try and make a lasting symbol of my grandmother and this is just a sign that i am nothing... no matter what i do...


can someone please tell me why... i still cry... 4 months later.

 

[Supreme x Uchiha]

Because your grandmother was very near and dear to you. I'm sorry for your loss, man..

 

[duken fist]

u must love her alot

 

[Chibiusa]

You probably still cry because that was pretty ****ed up for someone to do.

Don't blame yourself, you're not the one who damaged it. There's nothing wrong with trying to remember a loved one but after awhile, you have to stop letting it effect your life.

 

[izinagi54]

u must love her alot

she raised me.... she was my mother

 

[Lrrrrr]

Sorry for your loss, and hope that d-bag who did it gets what's coming to him.

 

[Altaneen]

You're sad because you miss the person, the reason you're still crying is because they must have meant allot to you, sorry for your loss bro.

 

[Whitefang0908]

Well maybe you and your grandma are very close to each other. It's pretty normal to mourn to someone that is close to you is gone. I'm sorry for your loss bro. Condolence. Btw my advice to you is to move on. Don't let your sadness takeover your other feelings.

 

[Kαmi]

Sorry for you loss man. Don't be upset that you cry about it, why should you be sad that you loved someone? The fact that you don't even blame the douche who wrecked your grandmother's shrine shows that she did a good job raising you, I'm sure she'd be proud of the fact that she raised a gentle person

 

[spade3dg]

im titled to agree with you... your right...

Wasn't trying to disrespect you or anything. It's just that is not something you would want to discuss on the internet.

May she rest in peace. If your not lying. If you are lying, may you burn in helk my good friend.

 

[Space Cowboy]

Sorry for what happened dude. Dont know why someone would do something pointless like that. Its not your fault.

 

[Umari Senju]

i lost my father 6 years ago this month to Colon cancer. We were very close. I heard something once and I can't remember where...anyway that's not important, but it weant something like this:

"when someone close to you passes, it's the distance that hurts the most. But possessing something of theirs, a dress, a scent, in my case, a hankercheif... it reminds you that even though they are gone, they are a apart of you. your memories of them keep them closer to you than you would think possible..."

the wound never heals my friend. but you learn to endure it. It makes you a little older, a little wiser, and a little more thankful of the life you have. Be strong, you'll be ok

 

[Bi0hazard]

different people morn at their on pace

 

[hixa kuogame]

im titled to agree with you... your right...

Dude... Get up of ur face and be strong if u get knocked down u get back up and u don't let life trick like it is now
U realize u will get over this and wen u do ur gonna hate urself for letting ppl walk over u and make u seem like ur worthless then ur gonna hate urself even more for believing wat they say omitted swear ur gonna embarrass urself like that so save urself the regret and live on
know that since your grandma was so attached she can never let go she'll always be apart of u and I know this sounds like something u hear all the time but this time actually listen to these words I had to teach myself this
so don't let idiots like the guy who previously posted and the retard who smashed the shrine get u down
Remember some ppl have it harder than u and and let your pride show your not weak

 

[Cruciatus]

I don't know if people on a Naruto forum can really give you the best advice on this matter, but if this is where you find comfort, then I suppose it's all right. Sorry for your loss. Death is a hard thing to deal with.

 

[Umari Senju]

Say what you want but trying to get confort about something like this on the internet isn't healthy. And i can honestly care less what you three think. Internet.

Uuuuhhhh...yeah they do. Peope pour their hearts out on the internet all the time dude. Sometimes it's easier to hear the council of strangers than it is to get it from those closest to you. It's just one lonly soul reaching out whatever the medium.

 

[Mihaelz]

I know that feeling. Some people have the audacity to tell you to get over it, but they don't understand the pain of losing someone dear to you, because your heart hurts. It all hurts, you feel like you can't breathe that you're going insane, all alone. I've been there and you have a right to be angry dude. People nowadays see these things as fun and harmless. But many people never understand how it feels on the inside. That pain. You get over something at your own pace, there is no regulation on how long it takes. It depends on the relationship. My condolences for your loss. I hope your future carries happiness. May whoever did it feel the same pain.

 

[Sir Blades]

sorry for your loss.

 

[spade3dg]

I know we all here lost people we loved. But this isn't a good place to discuss family business. There's going to be people who disrespect him/her, the grandmother and so on. So why blog about it? Would you do it?

 

[chad062388]

I'm sorry for your loss but always know that she's looking down on you and smiling and wanting you to move forward in life and be happy