in my own head i just cant get round it. yeah sure i've read alot about how he can be tobi and say he's madara but there's one thing wrong with your arguments that no one seems to have touched on...
Why the hell would obito want to destroy konoha??!!
he had no grudge against anything or anyone and died smiling that he saved his friends. if anything he'd wan to get revenge on the ninja's that done that to him in the 1st place.
